Real Talk: Could You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother ?

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To answer your question, I wouldn't want to date a woman who is like 100% like my mom. I want a woman who's at least 70% different from my mom. My mom has some postive traits about her that I want in any woman I plan to date, all that other stuff can...:camby:
 
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To answer your question, I wouldn't want to date a woman who is like 100% like my mom. I want a woman who's at least 70% different from my mom.

Which traits would you keep and which ones would you get rid of ?
 

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@KimJongTrill and @Asantehene don't get me into the hoarding :snoop:

cos mine was frugal she hung on to EVERYTHING. My dad legit used to have to call removal men to throw shyt away when she wasn't home.

Ironically now I value a clutter free house :ohhh:

Never thought of this shyt b4 :ohhh:

There was a time when our attic, basement, guest rooms were full of my mums stuff.

My dad atleast handled that issue :wow:
Bruh, she literally still has my old toys in the closet in my old room. I tried giving em to my lil cousin's and she flipped. She's nowhere near close to the TV hoarders but, come on now.
 

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Mannnnn this a good question,

The positive traits about my mom is an amazing cook :lawd:, she cleans and does shyt a wife suppose to do (:lolbron:) and she is soooo selfless.

The negative aspects is she gets agitated quickly especially since she is older, but then I think my dad brings that shyt out of her. She is pretty introverted too, and not as ambitious as I would have liked her to be.

I dunno man, I think if she was with some else other than my dad, she would have a different personality because my dad is pretty intolerable at times. :manny:

So I guess the answer is, I really don't know.

How have the chicks uve dated so far matched up to the traits in her which u admired ?
 

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@KimJongTrill and @Asantehene don't get me into the hoarding :snoop:

cos mine was frugal she hung on to EVERYTHING. My dad legit used to have to call removal men to throw shyt away when she wasn't home.

Ironically now I value a clutter free house :ohhh:

Never thought of this shyt b4 :ohhh:

There was a time when our attic, basement, guest rooms were full of my mums stuff.

My dad atleast handled that issue :wow:
any time i go away for school Ill come back and see my room full of clothing. i know what the hell is wrong with her :what:
I aint even scratching the surface. The basement, garage at times...smh

I need to move the hell out
 

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How have the chicks uve dated so far matched up to the traits in her which u admired ?
I would have to say none, because of my mom's positive traits are so high, there really is no match. Wow I am getting a little sad, (:sadcam:), maybe I need to send my mom some flowers today. :wowwow2:

Right now I like girls who like to go out and are more extroverted and more ambitious and have a positive attitude toward life.
 

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Be carful doe your futurr kids might hate both of you so much that they won't let both if you see your future grandkids.:to:QUOTE="Theraflu, post: 9732634, member: 10498"]:lolbron: but it molds character breh

I couldn't wife a woman like my mum just for my damn migraines

my dude when I tell u all the neighbours knew us I ain't lying :wow:h

my kids would hate ma guts and I'd hate her, it wouldn't work :mjlol:[/QUOTE]
:lolbron: but it molds character breh

I couldn't wife a woman like my mum just for my damn migraines

my dude when I tell u all the neighbours knew us I ain't lying :wow:

my kids would hate ma guts and I'd hate her, it wouldn't work :mjlol:
I know you aren't on this doe.
 
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of course.. My Mothers hard-working(dont ever recall her taking a sick day off, my entire life :lupe:), about her paper, cares about people around her, gives back to her community, keeps a tight crib, has a good sense of humor, great values..

i could go on for days..

my Fathers a lucky man, and i personally wouldnt settle for less myself when looking to marry someone..
 

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Which traits would you keep and which ones would you get rid of ?
One trait I'll keep is pertectiviness of her kids, one trait I'll get rid of is her aggressive nature towards my own beliefs. You know how some parents think it's wrong that their kod isn't living life how they want it? Let me just say this... I don't live my life through the holy book, and don't look down on anyone who does or doesn't. :salute:
 

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Is she the type to slap a dude if she gets mad ? My uncles wife used to beat the shyt out of him and we all witnessed that shyt :huhldup:
couldn't be me :huhldup: the older generation took a lot of garbage from the women
she aint slappin, she gon kick you in the nuts, she be ultra aggressive... you know how it go, dont touch my mom..
 

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Yeah, my moms light skin
 
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