Real talk whats wrong with having sex on the first date?

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Nothing wrong with it. I don't see it being me, though, unless it is that 1 in a million connection right off the bat.

On the other hand, you get a feel for the other persons sex and insecurities right off the bat, assuming you didn't drink too

much to notice those things.

You think too much... Just do it
 

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I can't girl, it ain't my steeze. :mjcry:
I have to process everything. My head took over where my heart was lacking.:mjcry:
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No real relationship can come from sex on the first date. But I think having 1 month, 2 month, 90 day rules are childish tho. I mean honestly I feel like if a girl really make you wait 90 days she really don't like you that much.

A 1st date doesn't mean the 1st interaction or 1st conversation.
What if there was a build up to the 1st date that lasted a month? Is the 1st date too soon then?
 

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I don't have sex. I'm not trying to come off as a goody two shoes, just trying to spit some real shyt. I know too many people who either got the virus or died from it. shyt is really real.

i can dig it but honestly thats the only way to be 100% on not catching anything but as long as your having sex there's always a chance of something thats why you protect yourself at all times and thats real shyt also but it could be the first date or your umpteenth date your always vulnerable to catching something just have to do it wisely bruh
 

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Sex on the first date guarantees all "dates" afterwards are going to be hanging out at my place or will be started those after 10pm calls. Quick p*ssy = easy p*ssy. Easy p*ssy = popular p*ssy. I do not wanna date a girl that got a p*ssy with a street nickname :camby:.
 

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Yeah. Even knowing their partner's status won't stop someone from getting something in the future. It's a crazy world out here. I done seen how nikkas and bytches operate where I'm from, so I always remain a skeptic. But I ain't the one to condemn people for what they do because I'm not them and at the end of the day, they are going to do what they want to do. C'est la vie and I'm only responsible for me.

exactly i don't never knock no one for what they do even if i wouldn't like i say to each they own
 
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:ld: Ehhh...I honestly think dat shyt would turn me off if a bish gives it up dat easily.

Regardless if we feelin each otha. You willing to let me beat da brakes of dat p*ssy n bussa nut in ya mouf offa just a couple hours of hangin out wit each otha? Not sure I'd be able to take a chick seriously afta dat..nah I definitely couldn't. :patrice:

Besides da obvious health risks from fukkin some bish I barely know...just something about it being dat easy...I dunno maybe I'm just a different breed of nikka. :yeshrug:

Sex on the first date guarantees all "dates" afterwards are going to be hanging out at my place or will be started those after 10pm calls. Quick p*ssy = easy p*ssy. Easy p*ssy = popular p*ssy. I do not wanna date a girl that got a p*ssy with a street nickname :camby:.

You brehs know that the majority of the women out here have had sex relatively quickly with some guy in the past? Just because she makes you wait don't mean she made the last guy she dealt with wait. I think you need better qualifiers than "she let me hit to fast" or "she a keeper she ain't let me hit for 5 weeks"

This is especially true when you start dealing with older women (27 plus). They hold out cuz they gave it up early plenty of times earlier in life with nothing to show for it.
 

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You brehs know that the majority of the women out here have had sex relatively quickly with some guy in the past? Just because she makes you wait don't mean she made the last guy she dealt with wait. I think you need better qualifiers than "she let me hit to fast" or "she a keeper she ain't let me hit for 5 weeks"

This is especially true when you start dealing with older women (27 plus). They hold out cuz they gave it up early plenty of times earlier in life with nothing to show for it.

Dat's great n all but I'm talmbout how I feel about da shyt. I don't have control ova what da bish did in da past wit otha nikkas. Nothin I can do bout dat but da fact she's willing to give up da draws dat quick is still a red flag for me. Shows a lack of judgement(she don't know where I've or said nikka's "been") and just an overall lack of self respect. At least have some kinda self worf to have somebody not just be able to just trip n fall in ya p*ssy so easily like dat. :patrice:

As for your otha point, da possibilities of her relinquishin da draws to some otha nikkas on da first date in her past but decidin to wait now...is real but again, outta mah control.

Hoe tendencies have ways of snitchin on demselves anyways. If we should happen to continue to "date" it won't be hard to see through da facade if dere is one.

Not expectin any virgin saints out chea but I'm not fukkin wit no slut bucket champions neither. :yeshrug:
 
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