Real talk whats wrong with having sex on the first date?

[UpAndComing]

Sex on 1st date after getting to know her: It depends

Sex on 1st day you met her: That bytch is a hoe

 

[iBrowse]

Nothing is wrong with it...if you both feel the same way...who says you have to beat around the bush?

In thinking like that I believe we're getting concerned with what others think or we're getting insecure on that "Well if I get sex on the first day..then she's/he's done it with the whole town!" shyt...

Edit: Only catch is knowing each others status. But like @Colicat said...first date doesn't = first interaction so that should be hashed out if you both make shyt clear.

 

[BlackAchilles]

Sex is minor part of a relationship.

 

[Milk N Cookies]

everything count but i would assume a female wouldn't mind that on a first date at all are you returning the favor though

Idk I was asking for a friend... &

& @At30wecashout don't blame me, blame blame my friend who asked me to ask the pie question...I'm totally innocent here

 

[InDePickWest]

Nah. Not my speed .
I dont judge others though. I am just deadly afraid of STDs. I start breathing heavy when I get a pimple, a load of warts down there that might never go away? Im feeling woosy just thinking bout it.

 

[The_Truth]

Nothing wrong with it at all.

It's how I weed out the thots for a cleaner dating pool.

 

[InDePickWest]

Nothing wrong with it at all.

It's how I weed out the thots for a cleaner dating pool.

But you want a woman to be ok with your thottie past?


@Emperor_ReinScarf come tell this nikka bout himself

 

[The_Truth]

But you want a woman to be ok with your thottie past?


@Emperor_ReinScarf come tell this nikka bout himself

That post was meant to be a joke, but obviously .

 

[InDePickWest]

That post was meant to be a joke, but obviously .

@Emperor_ReinScarf come tell this nikka he aint funny

 

[MikelArteta]

I can't do it, but I'm cautious about who I have sex with.

I know I'm not special so I just imagine a whole bunch of other dudes who "she felt" getting the same treatment.

I can't build with someone like that, I admire and I'm attracted to people who value their body

I view sex on the first date just like I'd view commitment early, or a chick telling me she loves me a week in :kony:

 

[The_Truth]

@Emperor_ReinScarf come tell this nikka he aint funny

Someone's a hoe.

 

[raoulduke187]

Some sluts are actually good and respectful girls who, in the current moment, just don't feel like engaging in serious relationships and enjoy trying out new men, what's wrong with that? I enjoy girls like that because that mindframe is similar to mine when I'm single.

I always use a rubber tho.

 

[rogue_riezo]

You brehs know that the majority of the women out here have had sex relatively quickly with some guy in the past? Just because she makes you wait don't mean she made the last guy she dealt with wait. I think you need better qualifiers than "she let me hit to fast" or "she a keeper she ain't let me hit for 5 weeks"

This is especially true when you start dealing with older women (27 plus). They hold out cuz they gave it up early plenty of times earlier in life with nothing to show for it.

That is the exact majority we're trying to avoid.

I've only ever been asked to wait once, and it was because she was a virgin. So from my experience (while I agree with you that it happens all the time) I can say that the duplicity hasn't been a problem for me personally.

Early sex isn't a sign that a woman is a thot, holding out isn't a sign that a woman is not a thot. Early sex is not the only metric though, it's one of a few.

 

[Wild self]

I see nothing wrong with it

@ your way of thinking.

 

[skeetsinternal]

its people not just chics fukking after a few texts