Reason rich people leave people behind- adebayor share his story(updatepg5:adebayor travels home)

[Doomsday]

Why would I owe you just for knowing me?

Secondly I wouldn't help anyone close to you anyway because those people are the most jealous of your success. Even if you help them they still hate you.

 

[Easy-E]

He feels obligated to do all that. All this he saying is hindsight. His fam stopped being fam once he got money and started leaching. Point blank. I can understand the shyt with his parents, but if they was on they dean they'd have his back from getting fukked over by everybody else.

This is the perfect example of people counting your pockets. They don't give a shyt because they think you're gonna have money pouring down on you for the rest of your life. This goes for anyone who is perceived as being successful. Whether you making 50k or 100 mill. They see the car, but don't see the note. They see the house, but don't see the mortgage and upkeep. That's why we have sayings such as "rich people are cheap." No, they're just monitoring their resources as they should.

He's working hard to make it and his "fam" is living living the life, not doing shyt. fukk that. There's three sides to every story tho. For all we know, he could have been promising them the "stress free, money is no object" type of life.

Right. But, I'd want to hurt my bros for putting me thru that.

 

[Pyrexcup]

Right. But, I'd want to hurt my bros for putting me thru that.

blood is thicker than water, let bygones be bygones

 

[aXiom]

Man you don't even have to be rich to see the change in people when you're suddenly doing better than... just move up a tax bracket or two and you'll see why some folks drop their family/friends once they make it.

Here's the thing most people don't get.. differences in mindsets magnify with more success.. If you're the only hustler/go getta in your circle and everyone else just discourages you or just sits on their ass all day.. if you do make it you're eventually gonna have to drop them, because they're gonna keep coming at you like There's a difference between a nikka wanting you to teach him how to fish and a nikka that just wants you to keep giving him fish because you got a big ass fish farm.

You feed a sucker, he just grows to be a bigger leech.

Some of you saying you would never turn your back on fam are probably lucky to have good family around you.. Me personally, I couldn't, as my fam has always had my back, and me theirs.. really good people, we're really close knit and if I get put on I wouldn't even worry about myself, as long as they're set for life, I'm good.. On the flipside, I've witnessed family members ruin some of my friends' lives and they'd be a lot better off cutting off all contact with said fam.

Blood thicker than water? Only in certain cases
You need water to live, you learn that in the basics

 

[Cat piss martini]

only person i'm taking care of is my
mother......when i do have children they are good.
fukk everybody else.
I make moves so i can give you a job but
i'm not giving anybody shyt.

 

[Suicide King]

His family is really dysfunctional, and it doesn't help he is a sucker.

The most you should do is make sure you family has food, clothes, and shelter. Buy apartment buildings and let them live rent free. @ buying them a big ol' house. His family is the poster child of foul.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I ain't made not one million yet but I done already had cousins steal money and clothes
gave my sister a car-she fukked it up
paid off a car for my mother who gave it to my sister-she fukked that one up too
-loaned my cousin $1700 back in 2013 he still ain't paid me back
-loaned my sister money she ain't pay it back
-gave her money diff times
-had a white dude I wasn't even that cool wit in the army ask me to invest 10k so he could make a fitness infomercial
-done had fam I haven't seen since middle school lie about issues with their health for money
-had a chick from the army say her daughter needed medication and was lying

People ain't shyt

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

wonder what they got to say

 

[Pyrexcup]

bump for anyone else who wants to read

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Blood is thicker than water

 

[Elle Driver]

Family can be such a$$holes.

 

[Trojan 24]

Damn a few years back a young African bruh came to my hometown, to live with his father, and was the best soccer player in the area. Everyone claimed Ade was his Uncle, mothers brother. But I thought he was lying cause surely his millionaire Uncle would break his nephew off with something, his father and him didn't have the greatest house. But now I know why

 

[Black Nate Grey]

why did he get this written?

adebayor running the legnth of the field is my #1 PL moment

I remember those salty Arsenal fans

 

[ben anderson]

africans are really weird and sneaky. ill never get involved with an african woman. i dont want my food to be posioned and die.

 

[Pyrexcup]

update
Emmanuel Adebayor has been granted compassionate leave by Tottenham Hotspur for a second time this season to return to Togo to sort out his personal issues.

Spurs head coach Mauricio Pochettino has excused Adebayor from training this week and the final game of the season against Everton at Goodison Park on Sunday. He will not travel on the post-season tour to Malaysia and Sydney.

Adebayor has made a series of allegations against his family over Facebook in recent weeks that have prompted concerns over his mental state.