How so
Recent study finds that 60% of men under 30 are single due to social media and the internet
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48 years old aka Gen X.
Your teenage ans young adult years were in the 90s and 00s, when it was more grounded and Blackplanet was the only online website for dating. Back when the concept of balling out money was limited to drug dealers and rappers that were on TV.
Social media post 2012 is a monster that few dating psychologists can truly ever comprehend. Superficial and unrealistic standards is what ruined humanity.
Mandarin Duck
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Saying that women would want to deal with a 35 year old man with no dating experience is dishonest.
Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
Their struggle is different.
Not all attention is good attention. The man may turn out to be married, a pedophile who was using her to get close to her kids, a rapist, or a literal thief who robs her. The kind of stories you hear from women are wild, especially if you've also been around the men who do shyt like this.
Some women have given up because every time they think they've found a normal man he later reveals himself to be bisexual but won't admit it until he's outed, he's severely mentally ill and tries to drink his problems away, he's a pathological liar, a woman beater, tries to sleep with her friends and family, etc. They tap out because of the drama.
For a lot of men they never even get a text back, and its largely because the online space is DOMINATED by men. It's something like 2-3 men for every one woman. You can have pinpoint accuracy, outstanding speed, a frame as tough as a gatdamn brick wall and the kind of stamina that let's you play full court far longer than anyone in your town. If your highlight reel doesn't go viral and if no talent agent sees you, you won't make it into the NBA.
The best way is still the old way: meet women in person. Through mutual contacts and acquaintances who can speak to the value of your character. Women like knowing another woman approves of a man. A lot of nggas here find women irritating so they'd never talk to them as friends, but if you meet women that are actually interesting, funny, and fun to be around then it's only a matter of time until they introduce you to someone from their circle who reminds them of you.
Well you can’t keeps your narratives consistent. For the majority of your post it was “relationship experience” and not you’ve pivoted to “dating experience “
I’m not sure what you want at this point. I’ve conceded that no woman will ever want you. We are aligned.
I don’t see where me being Gen X impacts the content of the conversation your quoted.
Are you saying social media changed things where no woman in the world would find Madarin Duck attractive because that’s the basis of they conversation you quoted me.
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Mandarin Duck
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Maybe due to my lack of experience, I don't see a difference.
Both words "relationship" and "dating" are interchangeable to.
So I'll say it again.
Women would not want to deal with a 35 year old man with no dating/relationship experience.
I think saying you have never been on a date in 35 years of life is different than saying you have never had a relationship.
That said I still would never make the statement that every single woman on earth would not deal with a man with no dating or relationship experience.
Mandarin Duck
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That wasn't my statement
That is 100% true and if you disagree you're being dishonest.
Women do not want to deal with a 35 year old man with no relationship experience.
What is the difference in “don’t want to”
and “will not”?
Mandarin Duck
Majestic and Highfalutin
Most women will not deal with a 35 year old man with no relationship experience.
Most women do not want to deal with a 35 year old man with no relationship experience.
These are 100% facts and anyone saying otherwise is outright lying.
Different perspectives breh. We not going to change each others minds. You won’t find anyone and you are correct. How that same logic applies to others doesn’t matter or change your situation.
Mandarin Duck
Majestic and Highfalutin
You're being dishonest by not admitting that women would not want to deal with a 35 year old man with no dating experience
It's like applying for an entry level job that requires 2 years experience .
Yes I’m being dishonest. You are correct.
Mandarin Duck
Majestic and Highfalutin
I'd like you to show me one real life example of a man in his mid 30s with no relationship experience getting into a happy healthy relationship.
I'll wait.