red bone = white bytch mentality

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

I wont go that far to thinking that you fully self hating Ill just say that it looked like you were slipping and falling.

ok cool breh

 

[SamuraiFlamenco]

I wont go that far to thinking that you fully self hating

Ill just say that it looked like you were slipping and falling.

Its a slippery slope dude so I was just checking.

Good looking out. I guess you were thinking "Oh this guy thinks he can't get women because he's black, that must mean he wishes he were white so he didn't have to deal with that shyt."

But that just isn't true. He just realizes that there are some fukked up people in the world that still limit who their daughters date on race, no more no less.

 

[Blackout]

Good looking out. I guess you were thinking "Oh this guy thinks he can't get women because he's black, that must mean he wishes he were white so he didn't have to deal with that shyt."

But that just isn't true. He just realizes that there are some fukked up people in the world that still limit who their daughters date on race, no more no less.

You can realize that there are people in this world who limit their daughters based on race without devaluing yourself in the process.

I saw devaluing and addressed it. Lets put ourselves above the idiotic parents who limit their daughters based on race instead of acting like the parents arent idiots.

 

[SamuraiFlamenco]

You can realize that there are people in this world who limit their daughters based on race without devaluing yourself in the process.

Tru dat. It's their problem not ours.

 

[Blackout]

Tru dat. It's their problem not ours.

Yep leave those daughters to the black playas who prey on the type who fukks black guys to get back at their parents. Let the black faithful stick to black women and race friendly white women.

Let those parents defeat themselves.

 

[kermit da hustla]

Good looking out. I guess you were thinking "Oh this guy thinks he can't get women because he's black, that must mean he wishes he were white so he didn't have to deal with that shyt."

But that just isn't true. He just realizes that there are some fukked up people in the world that still limit who their daughters date on race, no more no less.

It's 2014. Women of all races nowadays are attracted to black men of all shades. Stop projecting your failures with the opposite sex on the rest of us. Tons of black men out here, like myself, are eating. And that includes dating and marrying:

 

[Momentum]

 

[SamuraiFlamenco]

 

[Ronnie Lott]

What the fukk are you talking about? Maybe you mean how colossally low dusty ass nikkas are. If you're well groomed, healthy with a sense of style I honestly don't know wtf you're talking about.
You just set up extremes all across the board. Ivy League? So what about black men in Ivy Leagues that end up marrying white women, like Neil Degrassi?

Man I am getting sick and tired of these low self esteem, no self worth black people. You really let them break your psyche like that through propaganda? I thought blacks were stronger than that mentally. There is no fukking dating totem pole by race. Either you know how to get women or you don't. Either you have characteristic and personality traits that attract women, or you don't. Either you're well groomed or, you're not. Don't reflect your dating failures on an entire race of people.

Preach

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Most black dudes aren't eating though. Take a look at Instagram and Twitter. It seems like black men seem to be the thirstiest group of men besides Asians. Like black guys, usually, have lower standards and will smash "as long as the ass is aight", but when it comes to getting a pretty or classy girl, it seems like these girls look down on blacks, or their families do in any case. Before you say anything, these are the girls that you have to be in a relationship with before you smash

not true breh

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

As for the OP, I'm just not seeing it. Maybe it's different down in the south. As a first gen Nigerian/West Indian American, I really never even was keen to colorism until my early 20s.

I've ran through alot of white girls in my life (more than I'd like to admit)...and I'll just say the level of "stuck-upness" they possess is unmatched by none. And I mean NONE.

Black people really need to stop this colorstruck nonsense...it's really unbecoming. Can't we just embrace the fact that black comes in many different shades and just seperate ourselves as indviduals and not as monoliths?

 

[Tommy Knocks]

I'm not.

I was just agreeing with homie there for a little...but that's not all women. His statement touched me as someone who grew up in whitebread suburbia and had those experiences first hand. And my example doesn't apply to all black men. And everything you saying is true...I agree with you man. My comment wasn't even that well thought out. I just dabbed that out before I hit up the bar to meet up with friends.

And dawg, I'm almost 30. My mind hasn't been destroyed by propaganda or any BS of the like. I was just contributing my opinions to a conversation and I didn't even get to follow up on them to the fullest. Honestly I just saw his post and I had to say my piece. There are no absolutes.

I feel you. My anger mostly carried over because of this thread.

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/why-...t-do-not-want-them.178017/page-5#post-6834930

There's a troll going around (antihero) who's job is to make/tell black men they aint shyt. He got exposed, but then me, killer instinct and revo got into it with samurai in this thread. take a read yourself, there's a lot of great interesting points.

 

[Momentum]

Yerp.

I've just taken into consideration how colossally low black men are on the totem pole in regards to dating.

Black guys are just...FUN, JOKES, SLANG, DIKK to the majority of non-black women.

For white women, black guys are that perfect rebound for them to get back at daddy or their ex boyfriend. Then when it's all over...it's back to IVY league Brad and a boring life in the burbs with 3.5 kids. Why? They can bring Brad home without Grandpa having a heart attack.

Ofcourse, that's not all...but I notice this alot.

This is why I don't mess with too many women or go out of my way to talk to women anymore...I just detect way too much condescending double standards from them and no one really wants to give me a genuine chance. I don't care about relationships or getting laid anyways anymore...especially in this f8cked suckciety.

100% truth. I'm at that point now. I finally woke up from the dream.

I studied pickup for years, and finally realized that "attraction isn't a choice" is bullshyt just isn't true for black men. 100% of the time a woman of another race who's into you will green light you early. If not then you're just going to be that one black friend of hers. You don't need game.

You need social dynamics to work in your favor. Some of you are in major metropolitans and even then, you need to be in the right clique, right circles, etc. You aren't going to cold approach that high yella half-white dime and bag her off 10 minutes of random conversation. White boys can. Trust me, I've had these hour-long conversations with my Asian friends, mixed friends who look Asian, Africans, and other brothers. Men of color have it HARD in the dating game. Especially if you prefer model types.

You can be the richest, diyack slanging nikka in the world but if she doesn't give you that "down with the brown" green light it ain't going to happen. No amount of "game" or superficial shyt is going to make it happen either.

In 2014, most women simply do NOT want your average brown skin/dark skin black man. They want the half-breed pretty boys, or the ones with extreme social value (NBA players, signed rappers etc.)

No self hate, it is what it is. I'm a realist.

 

[SamuraiFlamenco]

not true breh

Most dudes in general ain't eating though. Something like 80% of males are deemed "unattractive" by most women. If you ever looked around/noticed, it's a small number of dudes smashing a large number of females. These thirsty ass nikkas on Instagram are proof to that shyt

 

[Momentum]

According to the coli women these women love black men who "have their shyt together"

Be a millionaire and get curved by hoodrats because you're too dark, brehs