red bone = white bytch mentality

[Blackout]

In 2014, most women simply do NOT want your average brown skin/dark skin black man. They want the half-breed pretty boys, or the ones with extreme social value (NBA players, signed rappers etc.)

No self hate, it is what it is. I'm a realist.

Yea and most men don't fukk fat women yet fat women still get fukked in the low.

Just because they don't want you that doesn't mean that they don't fukk black men on the low.

Be blind to what goes on underground brehs.

 

[Im Kemet Rocky & I like penis]

100% truth. I'm at that point now. I finally woke up from the dream.

I studied pickup for years, and finally realized that "attraction isn't a choice" is bullshyt just isn't true for black men. 100% of the time a woman of another race who's into you will green light you early. If not then you're just going to be that one black friend of hers. You don't need game.

You need social dynamics to work in your favor. Some of you are in major metropolitans and even then, you need to be in the right clique, right circles, etc. You aren't going to cold approach that high yella half-white dime and bag her off 10 minutes of random conversation. White boys can. Trust me, I've had these hour-long conversations with my Asian friends, mixed friends who look Asian, Africans, and other brothers. Men of color have it HARD in the dating game. Especially if you prefer model types.

You can be the richest, diyack slanging nikka in the world but if she doesn't give you that "down with the brown" green light it ain't going to happen. No amount of "game" or superficial shyt is going to make it happen either.

In 2014, most women simply do NOT want your average brown skin/dark skin black man. They want the half-breed pretty boys, or the ones with extreme social value (NBA players, signed rappers etc.)

No self hate, it is what it is. I'm a realist.

chuuch

 

[SamuraiFlamenco]

According to the coli women these women love black men who "have their shyt together"

Be a millionaire and get curved by hoodrats because you're too dark, brehs

At the same time you can't expect every female to want you. Girls are much pickier than guys when it comes to smashing/relationships. Like there are some girls that just won't date Asian dudes, even if they're a Jeremy Lin type dude. Some girls are just extremely shallow and picky and won't go for you no matter what if you aren't their type.

I think what people in this thread are getting at is that you shouldn't be defeated just because you may face some "challenges" along the way, cause that white boy is probably more insecure about something else (go to the Misc which is supposedly filled with "alphas" and you'll find tons of white guys that are in shape that are kissless virgins). You should just try to be the best man you can be, and the right girl will love you for you.

 

[SamuraiFlamenco]

Yea and most men don't fukk fat women yet fat women still get fukked in the low.

Be blind to what goes on underground brehs.

A lot of guys do do that. Like they'll abuse the shyt out of a fat girl in her room and make her do all types of nasty shyt, but they'll never be seen out with them cause they don't want to be known as a porky poker.

 

[Blackout]

A lot of guys do do that. Like they'll abuse the shyt out of a fat girl in her room and make her do all types of nasty shyt, but they'll never be seen out with them cause they don't want to be known as a porky poker.

Yep same thing happens to black men when it comes to women who front like they don't like black men.

All types of girls of different races who front like that will fukk black men on the low but they will never be seen with them because their parents will get mad.

Its the playas paradise.

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

100% truth. I'm at that point now. I finally woke up from the dream.

I studied pickup for years, and finally realized that "attraction isn't a choice" is bullshyt just isn't true for black men. 100% of the time a woman of another race who's into you will green light you early. If not then you're just going to be that one black friend of hers. You don't need game.

You need social dynamics to work in your favor. Some of you are in major metropolitans and even then, you need to be in the right clique, right circles, etc. You aren't going to cold approach that high yella half-white dime and bag her off 10 minutes of random conversation. White boys can. Trust me, I've had these hour-long conversations with my Asian friends, mixed friends who look Asian, Africans, and other brothers. Men of color have it HARD in the dating game. Especially if you prefer model types.

You can be the richest, diyack slanging nikka in the world but if she doesn't give you that "down with the brown" green light it ain't going to happen. No amount of "game" or superficial shyt is going to make it happen either.

In 2014, most women simply do NOT want your average brown skin/dark skin black man. They want the half-breed pretty boys, or the ones with extreme social value (NBA players, signed rappers etc.)

No self hate, it is what it is. I'm a realist.

This (the bolded) is why I moved the fukk out of Pittsburgh. Besides the fact that it's behind the times, social dynamics are absolutely terrible. I'm really convinced women (even black women...sadly) do not give brothers any play there.

Meanwhile, here in NYC, it seems every other decent black man got some exotic arm candy. But...keep in mind, this city is home to some of the pickiest women in the world.

I went through it though...some of y'all dudes on here are lucky mane Seems like alot of y'all had NO trouble with women at all. Whereas, I grew up in predominantly white area and went through 15 plus years of proverbial hell just being known in Pittsburgh as "that black guy who wears glasses..." and that really hurt me with women from High school into my mid 20s. I had to get over it...mainly cause I grew up in the 90s and people called me urkel.

Yeah, I feel where you're coming from. My comments might of been met with some questions and backlash..but I've studied pick-up too. If a woman isn't feeling me, I'll know first hand. I dress well, have a unique personality, have intelligence, culture, foresight, etc...women in general respect that more than being a man that ain't doing anything with his life other than working a job to make ends meet. I don't think women want an "average" man until they have no other options. I personally wouldn't say that non-black women want to be with NBA players or Rappers as the penultimate symbol of black masculinity...they just want someone that can laugh, love, and share life with...like all women.

 

[Im Kemet Rocky & I like penis]

This (the bolded) is why I moved the fukk out of Pittsburgh. Besides the fact that it's behind the times, social dynamics are absolutely terrible. I'm really convinced women (even black women...sadly) do not give brothers any play there.

Meanwhile, here in NYC, it seems every other decent black man got some exotic arm candy. But...keep in mind, this city is home to some of the pickiest women in the world.

I went through it though...some of y'all dudes on here are lucky mane Seems like alot of y'all had NO trouble with women at all. Whereas, I grew up in predominantly white area and went through 15 plus years of proverbial hell just being known in Pittsburgh as "that black guy who wears glasses..." and that really hurt me with women from High school into my mid 20s. I had to get over it...mainly cause I grew up in the 90s and people called me urkel.

Yeah, I feel where you're coming from. My comments might of been met with some questions and backlash..but I've studied pick-up too. If a woman isn't feeling me, I'll know first hand. I dress well, have a unique personality, have intelligence, culture, foresight, etc...women in general respect that more than being a man that ain't doing anything with his life other than working a job to make ends meet. I don't think women want an "average" man until they have no other options. I personally wouldn't say that non-black women want to be with NBA players or Rappers as the penultimate symbol of black masculinity...they just want someone that can laugh, love, and share life with...like all women.

i feel you bruh....
just a quick question, no offense.....but
are you dumby ugly? or just regular?...

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

i feel you bruh....
jut a quick question, no offense.....but
are you dumb ugly? or just regular?...

I've had women tell me I'm hot to my face. I've had women on here dap up my pictures in the Men Of TLR thread. I mean, I consider myself good looking...I guess. I definitely ain't ugly. LOL.

 

[Im Kemet Rocky & I like penis]

I've had women tell me I'm hot to my face. I've had women on here dap up my pictures in the Men Of TLR thread. I mean, I consider myself good looking...I guess. I definitely ain't ugly. LOL.

oh you polar bear pimpin....my nikka

 

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Why am I pathetic? Because I don't want to mess with rachet hoes? That's just smart.

In a honest I feel you to measure of a degree. Black men tend to be more polarized in the dating world than other races. Sometimes it seem like that it is either feast or famine depending on a number of factors. However I don't think its as dismal as you make it out to be. You may want to take look at a book called 21st Century Fox Space Age Pimping. I know what your thinking and NO it's NOT PUA! But is a different way looking at relationships especially with all the manipulative females out here and all the internet nonsense going on these days.

You may want to change the way that you see women too. Instead of doing the chasing broads let the female pursue you and mirror her behavior (or better yet let here mirror yours!) Their is a lot of heavy weight thirst going on around here on the Coli. People posting picture of females they don't know and could never have a chance with. It's funny on one hand but on the other hand it is just a waste of time and bad habit. Learn to become a more attractive Man and learn to like females who like you... within reason! This doesn't mean to date ugly females or trashy broad but you want a broad play your game instead of the other way around.

Rock on...

 

[JillScottsHunny]

No offense, but some of you dudes sound straight up pathetic. Jesus.

 

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1)That chick doesn't look height/proportionate. 2) She has a long weave 3) She claim that she is "Red" when she is Brown". No thanks.

 

[Tommy Knocks]

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[Tommy Knocks]

You need social dynamics to work in your favor. Some of you are in major metropolitans and even then, you need to be in the right clique, right circles, etc. You aren't going to cold approach that high yella half-white dime and bag her off 10 minutes of random conversation. White boys can.
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no they can't thats absolute bullshyt. You're assuming every white man looks like Paul Walker or works for a Firm. fukk outta here my nikka. I could get 10 men from the body building forum and I bet NONE of them could pull a half breed IG dime. ALL of them would freeze the fukk up. You're under the assumption most men even have game and have PUA style swag. BULLshyt. It's funny because there are white men that would say the exact opposite. "Man, if you have the swagger of a black man, you could get that mixed girl hella easy, I mean black guys have mad game" assuming every nikka swaggged out like Chris Brown and shyt. Everyone always thinks the grass is greener on the other side, its fukking hilarious.

It's not by race at all. I can't fukking stress this enough. Asian men think the same exact thing because they're failures in the date scene, they THINK its because of their race, but actually, its because asian men are very SHY (culturally), they don't even approach win AT ALL.

No race has exclusive claim, because people have a type. even within race, white women have a specific TYPE of white man they might like, just like black women have an TYPE of black man that might like. so how do you know that mixed chick will find the white dude her TYPE? You trying to tell me, if Zac Efron approaches her she's going to pick him over Trey Songz? and you know this how? you don't know what her type is. NOTHNG is so cut and fukking dry. I don't know how many fukking times I must say this, but humans are FAR TOO COMPLEX TO BE GENERALIZING BY RACE LIKE THAT. The dating scene doesn't work by skin tone despite what you think.

 

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100% truth. I'm at that point now. I finally woke up from the dream.

I studied pickup for years, and finally realized that "attraction isn't a choice" is bullshyt just isn't true for black men. 100% of the time a woman of another race who's into you will green light you early. If not then you're just going to be that one black friend of hers. You don't need game.

TRUE!

You need social dynamics to work in your favor. Some of you are in major metropolitans and even then, you need to be in the right clique, right circles, etc.

True again.

You aren't going to cold approach that high yella half-white dime and bag her off 10 minutes of random conversation. White boys can.

Many times this happens. This isn't the gospel truth though.

Trust me, I've had these hour-long conversations with my Asian friends, mixed friends who look Asian, Africans, and other brothers. Men of color have it HARD in the dating game. Especially if you prefer model types.

Of course if your "chasing" pretentious women what else would you expect?

You can be the richest, diyack slanging nikka in the world but if she doesn't give you that "down with the brown" green light it ain't going to happen. No amount of "game" or superficial shyt is going to make it happen either.

True once again, indeed.

In 2014, most women simply do NOT want your average brown skin/dark skin black man. They want the half-breed pretty boys, or the ones with extreme social value (NBA players, signed rappers etc.)

No self hate, it is what it is. I'm a realist.

Here is where things get a little sticky. Where do live? I like to hear some of your experiences.