What you saying makes no sense because being a feminist and being critical of women aren't mutually exclusive things. In fact, feminists often criticize women albeit often in relation to how they present themselves to and/or what they do for men. Do you think the term "pick-me" for example, is a term of endearment or something?
Moreover, again, in this clip, she didn't present the fact that this dude's wife has 3 BDs as a criticism of the woman - but rather as a criticism of him and the fallacies in his stances.