Refusing to allow your girl to go on a girls trip or travel alone VS Being cool with it and just cheating on her while shes away

[King]

It’s really an ambiguous question.

There’s no way I would know that she would cheat just by going on vacation. A real relationship is built on trust. If I couldn’t trust my woman to go on vacation and not cheat, why would I be in a relationship with her?

It’s not like she’s saying “hey let me go to this male strip show where they do orgies out the back”. It’s a vacation, that’s where the ambiguity comes in.

As with anything there’s no real way of knowing what a person would do or not do 100%.

I think the real message here is to be vulnerable enough to take the L, that’s all trust really is. Everyone is trying too hard to be ultra fly and too cool for every goddamn thing.

 

[Sccit]

That’s true but not necessarily in relation to this topic.

THATS WHAT U THINK

 

[Sccit]

while I agree with you... I just dont have the patience.

If she wants to make a stupid decision - she'll be rewarded for her stupidity.

NOTHING GOOD N LIFE COMES EASY


IF U WANT A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP U GUNA HAVE TO PUT THAT EFFORT IN N MAKE THEM SACRIFICES.. THE PAYOFF WILL BE WORTH IT

 

[Sccit]

if shes planning on going on one then shes a lost cause

say no and fight another battle down the road

might as well just end it altogether imo

WOMEN HAVING IDEAS ISNT THE SAME AS HAVING PLANS

IF SHE HAS A WHOLE PLAN AND U DONT EVEN KNOW TIL THE 4TH QUARTER, THEN U ALREADY FAILED THE RELATIONSHIP WAY BACK

 

[Hazel Brown]

THATS WHAT U THINK

Stop shouting at me.

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

WOMEN HAVING IDEAS ISNT THE SAME AS HAVING PLANS

IF SHE HAS A WHOLE PLAN AND U DONT EVEN KNOW TIL THE 4TH QUARTER, THEN U ALREADY FAILED THE RELATIONSHIP WAY BACK

i suppose but even the idea shouldnt be a thing

 

[Sccit]

Stop shouting at me.

IM NOT


ARE U ON YOUR PERIOD?

 

[Sccit]

i suppose but even the idea shouldnt be a thing

BAD IDEAS ARE NATURAL

ITS HOW U GO ABOUT THEM THAT DETERMINES CHARACTER

 

[Hazel Brown]

IM NOT


ARE U ON YOUR PERIOD?

No but are you sexually frustrated, TYPING LIKE THIS ALL THE TIME

 

[Sccit]

No but are you sexually frustrated, TYPING LIKE THIS ALL THE TIME

WHAT DO THE SIZE OF ARBITRARY LETTERS HAVE TO DO WIT SEX?

I CAN TELL WHAT TIME UR MIND ON

 

[Hazel Brown]

WHAT DO THE SIZE OF ARBITRARY LETTERS HAVE TO DO WIT SEX?

I CAN TELL WHAT TIME UR MIND ON

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

If you can’t trust her to go out of town. How do you trust her to go anywhere alone? She can cheat when you are at work, when she goes to “the store” anytime you aren’t with her. If she is going to cheat it’s not that hard. So if you don’t trust her. I don’t know why you would be with her at all

 

[maxamusa]

Life is full of grey area. If you live by these absolutes you're doomed. Every relationship is different and dynamics within the relationship are fluid.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Why would a wife go on a girl’s trip?

You’re married. Take a family vacation.

They wanna do hoe shyt like this and wonder why ni66as ain’t trying to marry them

 

[360dagod]

She can cheat with the ups driver before she puts her toes on a new city

You better keep the flowing so if shyt get funny, the bases are already covered...