Refusing to allow your girl to go on a girls trip or travel alone VS Being cool with it and just cheating on her while shes away

[ItsPeople]

I voted A.

 

[ItsPeople]

EXACTLY

“DO WHAT U THINK HUN!”

LOL

WOMEN ARE RULED BY EMOTIONS. THATS WHY THEY INHERENTLY NEED US TO MAKE DECISIONS FOR THEM..

FROM WHAT TO GET TO EAT ALL THE WAY UP TO WHETHER THEY SHOULD GO ON THAT GIRLS TRIP

DEEP IN HER SOUL SHE’S YEARNING FOR U TO PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN N SAY FUCC NO. THATS LOVE.

I remember meeting my fiancé’s friends for the first time.

At the end of it they asked me what I wanted to do, I said let’s go to a Somalian restaurant.

Even when I narrowed on what to do after, these girls could NOT pick a spot from their own cuisine

I knew girls are indecisive but I’ve never seen it in real time, cot damn.

 

[$cam-U-Well_Jack$on]

Insecure babble incoming.

 

[OfTheCross]

these results should be interesting

I'm the live your life type...

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

Ain't no girl trip flying here.


I'm sorry, but this is being a cuck.

A woman is supposed to follow her man. If she doesn't follow the program, she out. Ain't no she do whatever she wants.

Eh. This is inexperienced negro talk. Unless you're in an Ina/Robert Caro type relationship where you were attending Princeton and met your wife when she was 16, and she's the love of your life and you're the love of her life, and you grew up together, you travel together, your families are intertwined, and so on...unless that is your situation, it's likely that you have periods where you just don't care about all this "cuck" and "follow her man" nonsense.

One thing missing in these conversations is, a lot of times you'll be around a chick so much that you just don't care about all that you lose that silly ego shyt. Sometimes you honestly want another person to take her off your hands for a little while. Like, "yea, go ahead with your girls for a few days" and inside you're thinking, "I hope somebody give her some dikk too because I don't feel like dealing with this chick right now."

It is what it is.

She can do whatever she wants as long as I don't find out about it

Ignorance is bliss

There is some heavy truth in this.

 

[Rekkapryde]

mentalities like this are why bytches cheat in the first place, whats the point if you cant trust your woman to be out with her friends, who were there before you, and may be there after you. caging bytches never EVER works and builds resentment.

If your girl has bird/thot friends then

don't have these problems thankfully

 

[African Peasant]

Eh. This is inexperienced negro talk. Unless you're in an Ina/Robert Caro type relationship where you were attending Princeton and met your wife when she was 16, and she's the love of your life and you're the love of her life, and you grew up together, you travel together, your families are intertwined, and so on...unless that is your situation, it's likely that you have periods where you just don't care about all this "cuck" and "follow her man" nonsense.

One thing missing in these conversations is, a lot of times you'll be around a chick so much that you just don't care about all that you lose that silly ego shyt. Sometimes you honestly want another person to take her off your hands for a little while. Like, "yea, go ahead with your girls for a few days" and inside you're thinking, "I hope somebody give her some dikk too because I don't feel like dealing with this chick right now."

It is what it is.



There is some heavy truth in this.

Nah fam. If you ain't ready to handle a woman, don't get into a serious relationship/marrriage.

People want something and it's opposite.

It's true that women are sometimes annoying and you want to take a break, but that's not how it works. The only thing you will do is create a bunch of bad habits that will bite you in the ass at some point.

That's why I was never this strict with women I did not care of. It's a waste of energy.

 

[MajesticLion]

"Refusing to allow..."?

 

[darealvelle]

"Refusing to allow..."?

Unless you married to that broad, no man got no say to not allow a woman to go on a girls trip.

 

[TEH]

I’m crazy

I insist on a girl who’s not into shyt like that … a real Christian girl … who goes out of town for sensible reasons only …business … family etc. … if she’s over 21 and done with spring break she can stay where she’s going

Other than that have fun sharing her …

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

We take trips together. We take trips apart. He knows my friends. I know his friends. I have research conferences that take me all over the world. If he can come, he does. His job contracts take him all over the world. If I can make it, I’ll go.

I trust him. He trusts me. We wanna be with one another…damn the rest sooo
The idea that He and I can’t maintain close friendships and interactions with friends just b/c we are married is ridiculous. If he ever expressed discomfort about it, I wouldn’t go full stop. No issue. But he’d be embarrassed to make demands like that. Like it would make him seem weak or something.

 

[Bossino]

It’s really an ambiguous question.

There’s no way I would know that she would cheat just by going on vacation. A real relationship is built on trust. If I couldn’t trust my woman to go on vacation and not cheat, why would I be in a relationship with her?

It’s not like she’s saying “hey let me go to this male strip show where they do orgies out the back”. It’s a vacation, that’s where the ambiguity comes in.

As with anything there’s no real way of knowing what a person would do or not do 100%.

I think the real message here is to be vulnerable enough to take the L, that’s all trust really is. Everyone is trying too hard to be ultra fly and too cool for every goddamn thing.

Man fukk that life deals enough unavoidable Ls that I'm not taking any unnecessary ones with bytches even if that means missing on potential Ws

 

[HiphopRelated]

Women don't need an airport to cheat if that's your main concern

 

[Ayo]

As a Breh who's met girls on those trips back in the day when i use to wild out.....

And as a Breh who has some female friends that still keep in touch with me who tell me more than they should....

Don't let your girls go on these trips Brehs. I don't care how secure you think shyt is. She's fukking

 

[Marco Zen]

It's more about temptation and the situation, not intent

Going to the store is different than going to a place with other attractive people, being buzzed, dancing, and having men flirt with you possibly

So lemme get this straight...

If women go on a trip, and there are attractive people there, and people are buzzed there, and people are dancing there, and men are flirting there... these factors are too much temptation for women to resist and it guarantees they will all be sucking on strangers cocks while on the trip..

Do I have this right?