Relationship Advice. This Girl I'm Seeing... How Do I Get Her To Evolve?

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Stop trying to change her, stop trying to change anybody really.

Either appreciate her for who she is or make a peaceful, mature split. And in the future, understand that anybody you're dealing with day to day is a reflection of you somehow. You want different behavior outta them...you gotta behave differently too.
 

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How the fukk do nikkas clown astrology and believe in way more outlandish shyt in their religions:russ:


Pretty much this. Everyone believes in something completely asinine or ridiculous. The main problem men have with Astrology, is ego. Men, just as much as women, want to be different or in their own categories. They detest being analyzed and read. They all want to be snowflake unicorns, when in reality they're all the same. I say play into it, you'll get laid easier and control birds far more than trying to tell them its all pretend....deep down inside, they know its bullshyt, just like palm reading and psychics...but people like to be entertained.
 
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Just use a fire stone and put it against her skin.
That's how i evolved my eevee.
 

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Stop trying to change her, stop trying to change anybody really.

Either appreciate her for who she is or make a peaceful, mature split. And in the future, understand that anybody you're dealing with day to day is a reflection of you somehow. You want different behavior outta them...you gotta behave differently too.

Ding! Ding! Ding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Find a new woman. Lol trying to “change” her comes off controlling af.
 

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Is it a deal-breaker?

If so, dump her. Cut it off. To the bushes. Simply put, y'all aren't spiritually compatible/tolerant and you can't roll with it. Let her find somebody that can.

If it isn't a deal-breaker -- i.e. she checks every box outside of this, and you don't view this as something you can't get past -- then let it go.

This thread is a mess. What you missing is, she just gave you the keys to her whole psychological make up. For free. A whole cheat code. And you in here complaining about it. :mjlol:

:ohhh:
 

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Okay so kinda seeing this chic right now.
Problem is she believes in horoscopes too much, and now just got into Tarot cards like wtff.

The other day we had a fight because I said women are more naive then men.
She got mad at that and said whatt... And I said just look at horoscopes, most men thinks its BS and most women thinks it's true.

And then she says Because IT IS TRUEEEE.
And then she just goes innnnnnnnnnnnnn.......... :damn:

She sat me down and starting explaining horoscopes to me, I kept trying to leave but she kept making me sit down. It was torture listening to that no joke... :(

How do I get her out of that shyt, how do I explain to her to leave that shyt alone????

Have any of you found a successful way of doing this?
It’s harmless just explain to her it’s not your thing.
 
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