Relationship brehs, how do you deal with temptations and new coochie cravings?

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You have no idea.... i mean you do but its even worse.

I do alot of traveling for work, i was in Seattle for a "morale boosting event". Go to see my boss who has a brsnd new baby girl and a 3yr old son.

I go to his airbnb in seattle, 2 naked girls in his bed. Couldnt have been over 24 yr old. He was drunk as shyt. He said "i aint fukkin them.... but if you want to we could both fukk,"

Man i was disgusted.

Man got his baby girl as his wallpaper on his phone, and he out here fukking college girls in an airbnb. :hhh:



At least they werent ugly but still :hhh:

Oh trust me, I have plenty of idea and plenty of stories. I know trust me. Some of these married brehs are straight trash. I respect the institution of marriage too much to partake, but there are plenty of hoes that don’t gaf and fukk these men anyway.
 

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Every since i started wearing shorts to work my receptionist been trying to fukk....

I told my wife. She said she gonna pull up one day :bustback:

Honestly i tell her everything cuz women really give 0 fukks about a ring
Breh tbh I dont think you should get married
 

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Sounds cliche-but you dont put p*ssy on a pedestal.

Or more specifically, you value a lot more things above it like: trust, character, integrity, security, your marriage, her feelings, her dependability, the years you have in, your money (no child support, alimony), your mental health (cheating is draining) etc.

So you start going through those calculations and p*ssy is like #188 or some shyt. It's easy then.

Basically you'll always have the urge to fukk someone else (though the more you fully committ to your wife, this even dwindles a lot) because your human...but when you start "pros/cons" in your head its so idiotic you wont do it.
 

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Interesting. Do these married men want something more with you? or is majority just a quick fukk?

Hard to say, because I don’t entertain it. I’ve just started avoiding that breh I work with for instance. I stopped going to the Christian barber that my dad swore was a family man. I stopped going around friends house when husband is home, etc. I usually straight up decline, keep it moving, and avoid and ignore. it’s too hard for me to pretend, so once I know a man is scum I don’t want interactions with him.

But my guess is it’s about sex. I don’t look like their wives—I think they want variety.
 

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Oh trust me, I have plenty of idea and plenty of stories. I know trust me. Some of these married brehs are straight trash. I respect the institution of marriage too much to partake, but there are plenty of hoes that don’t gaf and fukk these men anyway.


If it's not too forward of a question--what's your general body type? More slim or more curvy? I ask because I've seen "ass and titties" make grown men lose their mind.

For me, we have a lot of really pretty women in my building, they're slim tho. We do have this one lady with an OK face that is ridiculously stacked. I stay away from her, lol.
 

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Hard to say, because I don’t entertain it. I’ve just started avoiding that breh I work with for instance. I stopped going to the Christian barber that my dad swore was a family man. I stopped going around friends house when husband is home, etc. I usually straight up decline, keep it moving, and avoid and ignore. it’s too hard for me to pretend, so once I know a man is scum I don’t want interactions with him.

But my guess is it’s about sex. I don’t look like their wives—I think they want variety.
You should be flattered tbh
That means you have value in the sexual market place

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Hard to say, because I don’t entertain it. I’ve just started avoiding that breh I work with for instance. I stopped going to the Christian barber that my dad swore was a family man. I stopped going around friends house when husband is home, etc. I usually straight up decline, keep it moving, and avoid and ignore. it’s too hard for me to pretend, so once I know a man is scum I don’t want interactions with him.

But my guess is it’s about sex. I don’t look like their wives—I think they want variety.

It actually disgusts me. I dont wanna get on my high horse but you made a vow before God and man and friends and family..... like if this doesn't matter then nothing in your life matters.

The words of a married cheater (male or female) are empty to me.

Just dont get married
 

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Yea let me post up here...

Been single for too long, the temptation is crazy man.
 

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Lol. I was thinking this today. Was thinking about starting a thread on this, because of this married breh at my job. He’s def. trying to fukk, meanwhile has a wife with a toddler and a baby at home. Sadly seems to happen often, at least for me, where married men are trying to fukk—I just don’t know if some of y’all are capable of not being tempted or of resisting temptation. That’s why I always assume any breh I’m in a relationship with is either thinking about fukking another woman at some point, or has fukked another woman at some point.

Every woman that I've fukked in the last 2 years was either married or had a boyfriend.
 

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Hard to say, because I don’t entertain it. I’ve just started avoiding that breh I work with for instance. I stopped going to the Christian barber that my dad swore was a family man. I stopped going around friends house when husband is home, etc. I usually straight up decline, keep it moving, and avoid and ignore. it’s too hard for me to pretend, so once I know a man is scum I don’t want interactions with him.

But my guess is it’s about sex. I don’t look like their wives—I think they want variety.

:ohhh: You got a fresh cut right now?
 
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