Relationship brehs, how do you deal with temptations and new coochie cravings?

[010101]

& honestly it's not about new puzzy

it's about new love

too many amazing women for me to live a lie

it's not initially a sexual thing

but sex is the most pure intimate way i can express my appreciation for certain women physically

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[Fat Fred Jones]

Ive persevered, but it has by far been one of my greatest struggles. There are a few things that all kind of work together to keep me faithful. In no particular order:

• I've had plenty of bad and not-quit good sex before my wife; the odds are not great to find someone better or at least equally as pleasing.
• I'm selfish in the fact that I could not deal with anybody finding out. I'm no saint, but people who know me, know me as nothing but a good person with few vices. I've never even smoked weed or drank alcohol. And despite having so many advantages that would make cheating easy, I've remained faithful because it has become a personal sense of pride. Unfortunately can't prove a negative, but at least I know.
• I'm picky and easily turned off. If she's not at least a 9, cheating is a non-starter
• I'm too lazy to do it and could not handle the stress of trying to hide it.
• I could not deal with the pain it would cause my wife. That heartache is nothing to play with.
• Diseases/children - After all these years with my wife, I'm not really into wrapping anything at this point of my life.
• I do not trust any of these women out here. Some may genuinely be attracted to me. Some may see me as a potential lick.
• I know the exact thoughts I'll have as soon as I bust that nut.
• Self-relief, as needed.
• Proximity - The industry I work in lacks many attractive women so I'm never really even building even a working relationship with another woman.

Now with all of that said, I still almost cheated many years back. There was almost a perfect storm that led to it and one of the few set of circumstances in which I could have personally cheated. An ex-girlfriend called me out of the blue and over a couple weeks, old feelings came back and I was damn-near ready to jump on plane. Fortunately nothing came of it because my wife saw and picture she sent me. This was a low point for me and feel ashamed just thinking about it. This memory actually helps keep me focused

Maybe once or twice month, I have to find myself talking myself out of hollerin at some fine woman.

 

[Elle Driver]

Paprika

Some lawrys too.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Hard to say, because I don’t entertain it. I’ve just started avoiding that breh I work with for instance. I stopped going to the Christian barber that my dad swore was a family man. I stopped going around friends house when husband is home, etc. I usually straight up decline, keep it moving, and avoid and ignore. it’s too hard for me to pretend, so once I know a man is scum I don’t want interactions with him.

But my guess is it’s about sex. I don’t look like their wives—I think they want variety.

u found out breh at the job married

 

[YouMadd?]

Im dating a half south east asian/half latina with big titties and wide hips that lets me literally fukk her face. Shes asks me to do it.... So I do it....

Thats how I deal with temptation.... I fukk my girlfriend's face when she asks me to...

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Let that breh smash beloved
Do u want him to cheat with pawg instead

He’s a black only bm. Only hangs out with brehs and brehette at my job. It’s a large company and it’s funny but all the black people kind of stick together, at events the brehs are dapping each other up, congregating and what not. No bucks at this office actually.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Im dating a half south east asian/half latina with big titties and wide hips that lets me literally fukk her face. Shes asks me to do it.... So I do it....

Thats how I deal with temptation.... I fukk my girlfriend's face when she asks me to...

Humble brag.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

You got a fresh cut right now?

I have a son who gets his hair cut.

 

[YouMadd?]

Humble brag.

With a bit of obvious advice... Dont date a woman unless she goes above and beyond satisfying ALL sexual needs. Thats literally the only solution

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Every woman that I've fukked in the last 2 years was either married or had a boyfriend.

Everyone cheating. A lot of people aren’t capable of being monogamous.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

With a bit of obvious advice... Dont date a woman unless she goes above and beyond satisfying ALL sexual needs. Thats literally the only solution

Yeah it’s advice women should take too—better be willing to do all for your man and throwing it down whenever and wherever or another bytch will. Likewise brehs better fukk their women right because if he’s not laying it down please believe she’s either planning to exit because dikk is wack or being shared.

Sad thing is that even with all that said and done, you could be doing it all for your man or woman and they’ll still cheat.

 

[mag357]

Its Realizing that even on my best days of catching bodies, it was a inconsistent supply of inconsistent bytches who I really didnt even like that much.

Why go back to that bullshyt and fukk up a relationship with someone who genuinely cares about me?

If im really feeling temptation, jack off and get post nut clarity

U using ur brain....
Ur dikk ain't got a brain...
It wants what it wants..
U jerking off only gonna ease u for a little while.

U start feeling suffocated, while ur with her at the mall and seeing all this beautiful ass u wanna fukk.
Yea... u know them bytches are no good and ur woman kinda cares about u...

But ur dikk will start making u feel like ur trap in a muthafukin cage...
And u cant get out.

p*ssy starts mocking u... u start seeing p*ssy everywhere...

U start thinking about if this bytch dies... u could take some of the life insurance money, get an Audi and fukk all the bytches u want without the guilt.

U start arguing with the bytch for no reason...
Ur on edge .. ur dikk got u feeling claustrophobic...

Until one day u snap

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

With a bit of obvious advice... Dont date a woman unless she goes above and beyond satisfying ALL sexual needs. Thats literally the only solution

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Women say men still cheat after that

 

[mag357]

Lol. I was thinking this today. Was thinking about starting a thread on this, because of this married breh at my job. He’s def. trying to fukk, meanwhile has a wife with a toddler and a baby at home. Sadly seems to happen often, at least for me, where married men are trying to fukk—I just don’t know if some of y’all are capable of not being tempted or of resisting temptation. That’s why I always assume any breh I’m in a relationship with is either thinking about fukking another woman at some point, or has fukked another woman at some point.

I feel the same about married women too...
They gonna choose a new dude for each environment...
They'll have a house husband, work husband, gym husband, friend husband...

They ain't really out for sex tho... attention is like sex to women...

 

[Formerly known as...]

Yeah it’s advice women should take too—better be willing to do all for your man and throwing it down whenever and wherever or another bytch will. Likewise brehs better fukk their women right because if he’s not laying it down please believe she’s either planning to exit because dikk is wack or being shared.

Sad thing is that even with all that said and done, you could be doing it all for your man or woman and they’ll still cheat.

This.

Women who rarely put out should understand the chances of her man cheating increase significantly. Also if you're into something sexually let your partner know so she can decide if she's down with it otherwise you will look for someone that will cater to your desires elsewhere and then don't go out to a bar/club with a loaded clip, have sex or Fap and then post nut clarity should kick in but if you still have the urge to cheat, the person you're with ain't for you