Relationship vs. Moving for a Better Job

[Gus Money]

I've mentioned it in a few of the stickied threads but I wanted to give this topic it's own thread. Would you leave your current relationship to pursue a new/better job or school opportunity that's in a different city? What if he/she didn't want to do long-distance?

I might find myself in this situation in a few weeks, and I know what the right choice is for myself but it's still difficult. I'm not married and we have no kids so I know it would be a lot harder under different circumstances.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I've mentioned it in a few of the stickied threads but I wanted to give this topic it's own thread. Would you leave your current relationship to pursue a new/better job or school opportunity that's in a different city? What if he/she didn't want to do long-distance?

I might find myself in this situation in a few weeks, and I know what the right choice is for myself but it's still difficult. I'm not married and we have no kids so I know it would be a lot harder under different circumstances.

Could you see yourself marrying this woman? Could you see her being the mother of your kids? If the answer to either of these questions is anything less than a clear/RESOUNDING yes (and that includes maybe ), then pack your shyt immediately. There are billions of women in the world, breh, but career opportunities only come by ever so often

 

[Hagendas]

Value yourself these opportunities do not come along very often p*ssy is always available

 

[QuintessentialBM]

If you believe she's worth then, do the long distance.... Don't pass up on your future regardless.

 

[Couth]

i wouldn't leave my girl for a work opportunity.

But i'm sure she would come with me if the offer was that good.


If its meant to be you'll make it work.

 

[Doobie Doo]

Bruh bytches come and go. Do you! Remember no matter how much you love your lady there is another female in another city who is equally if not more compatible with you than she is.

 

[BreezyH]

you'll lose $ while chasing women, but you'll never lose women while chasing $

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

Nah B..i will follow the money. If we have kids together then that is different. Plenty of women out there. I will tell a woman the same thing. Dont put your goals on hold for a man. People are too damn flaky

 

[Sad Bunny]

i wouldn't leave my girl for a work opportunity.

But i'm sure she would come with me if the offer was that good.


If its meant to be you'll make it work.

This

My girl came with me and I told her quit her job and she finished her Bachelor's and got an even better job

It would be hard if he career was already in place

 

[Rawtid]

If it were me, I would put the relationship on hold, move and get acclimated to the new surroundings and then once i get settled I would refocus on my relationship. A "hold" can be whatever you define you two define it as but the last thing you want to be worried about is trying to maintain your relationship from a distance when you're not familiar with your surroundings.

 

[Ricky Church]

with the relationship I'm in right now, she'd move with me if the opportunity was great enough for me to accept.

and honestly, I'd probably do the same for her.

 

[Turk]

Women come women go

Money>>>>>>>>>>>>> everything else

 

[Trillion]

My homies wife left her country to be with him if she love u lowkey u could get her to move nah mean?

 

[iBrowse]

I already told you what my thoughts on the matter are; I hope you make the right decision.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

Try the long distance thing at first. If it doesn't work, you can go separate ways.