Relationships are a trap and boring as fukk

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So from jump, way before she had the baby, she has always been boring, no personality and you guys had no common interests. So why settle and put up with that if you had a bunch of options? (3-4 side chicks a week:duck:). Why impregnate her and move her into your home? Coli nikkas stay lying.


You guys were clowning @Don Draper in that $40K thread but he may be on to something :dead:

The average american ain't got a pot to piss in, but on the coli everybody making 80k-200k
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No common intersts(even prior to procreating), boring personality, not adventurous, no good stories, boring friends.. just all around one of those giirls who aint experienced life. I think it was an easy kill and i stuck around. got comfortable.. now i gotta pay my way out
If she is all this and bores u this much....why did you continue to date her...and let alone have children with her. Some of us (men and women) just make poor judgment when it comes to choosing a partner.
 

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cliff notes: got my bm pregnant like 15 months ago. i love my seed but cot damn a nikka is bored as fukk.. i need like 5 side chicks to balance this sheer fukking boredom. I'm 30, what have i done :( lol.. sole bread winner rightchea but this shyt is for the birds.
Yo chick busted and aint on shyt then. Its your fault for wifing subpar troglodytes. A good woman doesnt have you feeling like any of that shyt.
 

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Might be it. Prob don't know what being a man entails.
Nothing to be ashamed of we all go through it when we try to settle down. Being married with kids ain't always fun bruh. There's responsibilities involved that your average single person with no children can't even begin to understand.

Basically YOUR WIFE and YOUR KIDS come BEFORE YOURSELF. That's a foreign concept to alot of men because I think we're all selfish at heart so u have to fight through that. It's worth it tho, in more cases than not if you act like the man your woman will show u the respect a real man deserves.

And yall can still have fun bruh, it just may take a little more planning and help from u. Just because u work all the time doesn't mean u cant do anything special for your woman. You have to become one with this woman, more US and less I
 

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Women don't bring excitement to a relationship it's your job as a man to do that. However a less boring chick can be found but they come with problems, if you are not up to the task it won't end pretty dating them. :ld:
I see what you saying but being boring and exciting aren't gender specific. I know mad boring dudes and dated boring chicks...as well as chicks who were exciting, liked to be active doing shyt and were fun to be around. People on here think every attribute and personality trait is gender specific. I just think that if chick was that boring...why did he date her for so long and why he had a child with someone he can't really see himself marrying. Same with her....if they had no common interests...why she let him get her pregnant? The issue is that people stay making poor judgment when it comes to shyt...especially choosing a partner.
 

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IF you was already about that sidechick life...why move into a scenario where having said side chicks becomes a detriment to the situation you willingly put yourself into, breh?
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First thing you need to do is thank God you were born a man. It must be nice to say you're bored and just up and leave the house you've built with your woman and child to get new p*ssy. I mean throw her a few dollars a month, come say hi to your seed a few times a week (if even), and be gone for all the late nights, stinky diapers, and rough shyt. I mean, why do both of you have to miserable? Let that misery fall to her! Just be happy breh! You only live once.


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She wasn't supposed to be your girlfriend; she was supposed to be your side chick.

Sounds like you two were not compatible and you settled. You don't love this woman, you probably don't find her attractive, she was a steady fukk and she trapped you. At 35 years old, she would have been way overdue for a child. I'm not sure why you were in a relationship with an older woman in the first place, but to each his own.

And I think it's due time people stop pretending that sexual monogamy/marriage is natural and not social constructs.
 
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