Relationships seem to just be about doing a lot of shyt you don’t want to do..

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I don't shop with my woman. I don't give a damn how she feels because that standing around in stores all day shyt is wack to me so I refuse.
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Like I said, we just had an argument now and I’m legit heated. I just spent 4 hours doing shyt I didn’t want to do, now she wanted to go to another mall and
walk around shopping and so I said “I’m not going, go by yourself”.

Then she hits me with some shyt like “I just wanted to spend more time but I guess you didn’t want to do anything today...”

Thing is, she was never clear on what she was trying to do today. Shopping is not my fukking idea of fun

I literally almost snapped... like walking around a crowded mall for hours is your idea of spending time? I haven’t been to a mall in years and I’ve been to 3 different ones this week because of her


foh then:camby:
 

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I'm not a bytch ass who wants / needs a submissive female. I need an equal. I want a woman who knows what she wants to do, but has the situational awareness to know damn well that I don't wanna do that shyt and the wherewithal to do it on her own.

Sounds like you are afraid of leading like other bruh said.
 

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I'm more than capable of being a leader without going to the fukking flea market 45 mins away after I just got off work just cause she wants to say the arts and crafts are "cute" breh.

She has girlfriends for that shyt.
My post was in response to you saying you want an equal woman that knows what she wants. Women are meant to compliment you not be your equal. You're meant to lead her by nature. You're basically looking for something that doesn't exist by looking for a woman who knows what she wants. She wants a man who knows what he wants because she doesn't know what she wants.
 

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I'm not a bytch ass who wants / needs a submissive female. I need an equal. I want a woman who knows what she wants to do, but has the situational awareness to know damn well that I don't wanna do that shyt and the wherewithal to do it on her own.

WOMEN WERE CREATED TO SUBMIT THO

THATS WHY THEY THE ONES WHO BEND OVER N GET FUCCED WHILE WE THE ONES DOIN THE FUCCIN

ITS IN THEIR NATURE

IF U BELIEVE THAT A WOMAN BEIN SIBMISSIVE ISNT THE BUSINESS, THEN U LET SOCIETY DO A NUMBER ON UR MIND.
 

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My post was in response to you saying you want an equal woman that knows what she wants. Women are meant to compliment you not be your equal. You're meant to lead her by nature. You're basically looking for something that doesn't exist by looking for a woman who knows what she wants. She wants a man who knows what he wants because she doesn't know what she wants.

Agree to disagree.

My mother was my father's equal. She's a bad mf'er. I'm not settling for a woman who isn't at least as good as me. Not necessarily in the same ways, but she has to bring something to the table other than p*ssy and noise. They're out there.

And of course I'm going to lead. That has nothing to do with wanting a woman who is equally as capable and successful as I am.
 

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Communication is the key as well as compromise.

Because trust me there is shyt that men want that we aren't interested in either.

Women do things just to show off to their friends. Men can never win because women have simps orbiting around em ready to jump in at any moment :camby:
 

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Can you explain what leadership qualities are emboldened by following a chick around a shopping mall for 2 hours?

Y'all sound like bytches. If you don't want to go to Costco, say "No, I don't want to go to Costco" and don't go

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