Relationships seem to just be about doing a lot of shyt you don’t want to do..

BaldingSoHard

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NO offense breh but it honestly sounds like your mother is getting the short end of this deal.

Very much so, but that's another rhyme for another time.

Pops is also a Trump supporter. :mjlol:

I've told her many times, "Any other woman would have left him years ago." but she stays committed... so....
 

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Basically

Like I said, we just had an argument now and I’m legit heated. I just spent 4 hours doing shyt I didn’t want to do, now she wanted to go to another mall and
walk around shopping and so I said “I’m not going, go by yourself”.

Then she hits me with some shyt like “I just wanted to spend more time but I guess you didn’t want to do anything today...”

Thing is, she was never clear on what she was trying to do today. Shopping is not my fukking idea of fun

I literally almost snapped... like walking around a crowded mall for hours is your idea of spending time? I haven’t been to a mall in years and I’ve been to 3 different ones this week because of her


foh then:camby:
My dude all this shyt could've been nipped in the bud from jump if you'd simply sit her down and say 'hey bae what's your plan today? I'm really not tryna go anywhere." this is just basic communication. Women can only impose as much as you allow

That’s why you keep a stable of chicks and learn to say no
This is the real crux of the issue. nikkas get comfortable and enjoy having that in-house/on call p*ssy so much that they're willing to sacrifice their sanity/happiness for it.
Brehs rather be passive aggressive for 3 hours and then come bitxh on thecoli than to actually be honest with a broad and risk losing her
 

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Like I said, we just had an argument now and I’m legit heated. I just spent 4 hours doing shyt I didn’t want to do, now she wanted to go to another mall and
walk around shopping and so I said “I’m not going, go by yourself”.


Then she hits me with some shyt like “I just wanted to spend more time but I guess you didn’t want to do anything today...”

Thing is, she was never clear on what she was trying to do today. Shopping is not my fukking idea of fun

I literally almost snapped... like walking around a crowded mall for hours is your idea of spending time? I haven’t been to a mall in years and I’ve been to 3 different ones this week because of her


foh then:camby:


I don't hang out in malls/stores, restaurants and grocery stores ,,,, most chicks love wasting time in these shyts :pacspit: I get what I need and JET ASAP,, !!!
I'm sure and I have adhd,,, those shyts that I named above irritates the fukk out me.....

lol
 

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Actually nikkas are telling you not to follow the female around in the mall and let her know you're not doing it period. Somehow you got my comment mixed up

:jbhmm:

So is "not follow the female around the mall and let her know you're not doing it period" somehow different than me saying...

I want a woman who knows what she wants to do, but has the situational awareness to know damn well that I don't wanna do that shyt and the wherewithal to do it on her own.

...because that's the comment that started this particular conversation.

It would seem nikkas got my comment mixed up.
 

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Tag me bytch nikka, and who said I conceded to that type of demand?

Sneak dissing like a hoe lol
Basically

I just told old girl I’m not going and didn’t go and she got mad.

We talking about the after effects of saying no as well.
My dude all this shyt could've been nipped in the bud from jump if you'd simply sit her down and say 'hey bae what's your plan today? I'm really not tryna go anywhere." this is just basic communication. Women can only impose as much as you allow


This is the real crux of the issue. nikkas get comfortable and enjoy having that in-house/on call p*ssy so much that they're willing to sacrifice their sanity/happiness for it.
Brehs rather be passive aggressive for 3 hours and then come bitxh on thecoli than to actually be honest with a broad and risk losing her
Bro I asked her 3 separate times and got 3 separate answers this weekend... specially about today :stopitslime:

What else am I supposed to do.. ask her some more? Every minute she changes her fukking mind

I don't hang out in malls/stores, restaurants and grocery stores ,,,, most chicks love wasting time in these shyts :pacspit: I get what I need and JET ASAP,, !!!
I'm sure and I have adhd,,, those shyts that I named above irritates the fukk out me.....

lol
I don’t go to malls period but everything else is nice and lowkey/relaxing.

Specifically the grocery store ( I’m a vet so I go to the one on the air force base because hardly anyone is there and it’s cheaper. I go to their PX too).
 

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I'm with you breh.

Being in a relationship is basically choosing to pay 3x as much for meals just so I can be annoyed by someone half my size taking up 2/3 of the bed.

shyt sucks.

:patrice:


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:leon: Yup it adds up!
 

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My boy who is one of those dream couples people wanna be like said:

It's a money sink
Always gotta pay for trips and concerts
Chicks never know what they want
It's basically babysitting another adult
Misses being single

The woman he with is my friend and seems to be an actual well adjusted person. Career oriented. Well of family

I guess it's just babysitting for p*ssy
 
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