Relationships seem to just be about doing a lot of shyt you don’t want to do..

[xCivicx]

They can.

 

[kuts]

it doesnt matter how many times you tell a chick you're not looking for a relationship if they like you

They STILL believe they can "trick" you into a relationship

That's on you

 

[xCivicx]

That's on you

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I’m at some Christmas party deep in the country with my shawty family. Bad phone reception bad ass kids no liquor no smoke no convo. Told her I had to work late (which I did) but I left early to make it because she guilt tripped me

I got some yak an 8th of some fire at the crib I could have been toasted

See... stuff like this is what I go through too

I told her I would hang with her friends last night and I did... bored af and feeling sick but her friends are cool I just didn’t feel like holding conversations with women about women shyt.

Or in general for that matter. I just wanted to watch the game or listen to some music and chill... but for her and her friends entertainment I tagged along. I even fixed someone’s computer







Anyway... we “talked”

She “apologized” but I’m still lowkey hot for the nerve of her getting mad because I didn’t want to do some shyt after I already did a bunch of shyt I didn’t want to do already

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

And then you go a few days without seeing or hearing from her...You mopping around the house looking

 

[semicko82]

And then you go a few days without seeing or hearing from her...You mopping around the house looking

 

[Tommy Knocks]

wow reading this thread after my girl just asked me to go to the mall on xmas day. im even surprised anything is open as Filipinos are hella religious but the audacity to ask me to go roam a mall at some 11am on xmas day. I didn't even respond I just looked at her like and went right back to my laptop.

She talking about let's go dating. Tf I want to do that for? Why they so allergic to the house? Its cause women have no hobbies. I'm here watching ufc embedded and downloading darksiders.. I don't know wtf she doing on her phone it looks like online shopping while video chatting her cousin but funny thing is I hear her cousin talking to the baby so they on video chat but not talking to each other.

 

[semicko82]

wow reading this thread after my girl just asked me to go to the mall on xmas day. im even surprised anything is open as Filipinos are hella religious but the audacity to ask me to go roam a mall at some 11am on xmas day. I didn't even respond I just looked at her like and went right back to my laptop.

She talking about let's go dating. Tf I want to do that for? Why they so allergic to the house? Its cause women have no hobbies. I'm here watching ufc embedded and downloading darksiders.. I don't know wtf she doing on her phone it looks like online shopping while video chatting her cousin but funny thing is I hear her cousin talking to the baby so they on video chat but not talking to each other.

The mall is open on Christmas ​

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

They met at Columbia in medical school. They both graduated same year. He is a general (gastrointestinal) surgeon, she is an ophthalmologist.

He got into Columbia despite his grades being shytty (undergrad GPA of like 2.1) on an affirmative action scholarship because his father knew the admissions director (nepotism). She finished undergrad in 3 years and got in because her grades were stellar without... taking... the.... MCAT as a black woman in the 1960's.

Early in their marriage, he opened a private practice. She went into business with a partner. He was the breadwinner for, maybe, the first 25 years.

She parlayed her experience to one of the larger healthcare providers in the country. As his career started to stagnate, hers skyrocketed.

She became the breadwinner. Never gave him a hard time, never emasculated him, never even mentioned his earnings. All while cooking his meals and raising his kids.

Their marriage has been... rocky... cause pops had a problem keeping his dikk in his pants. She stayed by his side, cause she chose to be committed to him, while paying (most) of the bills, doing financial planning, and still cooking dinner every night.

Few years back, pops had open heart surgery. She sought out the best surgeons in the state... arranged all of his appointments, ensured his pee-surgery diet was what it should be, took care of him while he was in the ICU, etc... etc... etc...

Now, at the twilight of their careers, she's making 400k, he's basically barely keeping the lights on to his practice because she funnels money into his business to keep it afloat.

She has never said a word to him about "not being the man of the house" or anything like that. She's just a bad mf'er who is committed to her marriage. This comes directly from my father's mouth.

...all while cooking dinner, every single night, for the last 47 years.

Ya'll want a submissive woman, go for it. I'm holding out for that shyt ^^^.

I got nightmares just reading this. Can't think of a worse fate as a female unless she was also getting a hand across her face every now and again.

 

[bangbreh]

All y'all sharing stories, thanks for the reminder
I swear we get made the bad guys for using common sense and basic understanding of bullshyt and trying to avoid it
I'd love to be in a relationship but that's gonna take a special kind of girl.
Once that honeymoon phase is over, that word "compromise" and my own pride of self are like oil and water.
Sacrifice is a mafugga and cottamn I need some water, this thread got me salty

 

[Tommy Knocks]

The mall is open on Christmas ​

thats what I said.

 

[The Fade]

wow reading this thread after my girl just asked me to go to the mall on xmas day. im even surprised anything is open as Filipinos are hella religious but the audacity to ask me to go roam a mall at some 11am on xmas day. I didn't even respond I just looked at her like and went right back to my laptop.

She talking about let's go dating. Tf I want to do that for? Why they so allergic to the house? Its cause women have no hobbies. I'm here watching ufc embedded and downloading darksiders.. I don't know wtf she doing on her phone it looks like online shopping while video chatting her cousin but funny thing is I hear her cousin talking to the baby so they on video chat but not talking to each other.

chicks need to learn how to draw or fukking paint or piano

shopping, instagram, hanging out with friends are not hobbies

but to be fair, theres hella dudes out here who have ZERO talent in anything. They're just good at showing up to work on time and being a punching bag for their boss.. Yet they still bag dimes

 

[Payroll]

 

[Tommy Knocks]

chicks need to learn how to draw or fukking paint or piano

shopping, instagram, hanging out with friends are not hobbies

but to be fair, theres hella dudes out here who have ZERO talent in anything. They're just good at showing up to work on time and being a punching bag for their boss.. Yet they still bag dimes

This.

I'm a graphic designer so I'm always on youtube learning new tricks watching tutorials downloading plug ins. Learning about 3D art and mastering octane render and nodes editing. Or making beats and downloading and learning new Vsts and mixdown techniques. I always have something to do or learn. I'll sit down and watch a documentary on owls or listen to a podcast with neil degrassi tyson.

Meanwhile she just over my shoulder like "whats that , wanna walk around a crowded mall with no intent on buying anything "

nikka go pull up a cooking show on YouTube and learn a new dish stop hovering over my shoulder

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I mean it is sacrifice. I'm sitting here hanging with my girl and her annoying ass dog like

If I was at home by myself I'd be chilling with no attention whoring Yorkie ruining my vibe.