Set your foot down and tell her you ain't gonna be doing all this waste of time sh.
You are still gonna do activities she likes, but just not as much.
nikka we have this conversation regularly
But today she “needed” to do some of this shyt or so she says.
I be trying not to snap off on her so I just deal with it for as long as necessary. But like now, I just parked and smoking outside the car, I’m not about to walk around this shyt just because you want to exchange something when I told you to do it last week when I came up here.
I don’t like doing this shyt and she knows it.
But, it’s Christmas Eve and I just want to go somewhere lowkey, intimate, and relax if anything. I don’t want to sit in traffic, search for parking, have random people in my face, etc. not to shop or eat some bullshyt.
Relationships often involve some level of sacrifice and compromise--then again that doesn't just extend to romantic relationships, nearly any close relationship you have with anyone will require you to do things that you don't want to do from time to time. That being said, it sounds like you're in the wrong relationship, if it's a common thing for you two to be doing things that you dislike doing. I was in one relationship like this, where I found myself always doing activities that I know I would not do if I were not with him and it was annoying tbh. We weren't compatible.
But I've been in relationships that were the opposite(we often enjoyed some of the same things, or when we tried the other's hobbies we ended up having fun) so I know that your conclusion isn't true. It's true for your relationship because you aren't with the right person lol. It is possible to be in a relationship where you do things you both appreciate, even though there will still be times where you have to do something you don't like, but you need to be with the right person. sounds like you aren't.
Me not wanting to sit in traffic, spend 40 minutes looking for parking, or stand around while she shops has nothing to do with our relationship. Most women tend to do this dumbshyt and think we’re cool with it. Y’all find this shyt entertaining... this isn’t entertainment to me. This has nothing to do with anything actually fun or an actual hobbie. This is not us spending quality time together.
Only difference between me and most dudes out here right now is I’m not pushing a stroller..
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They are literally predicting over foot of snow outside."
all day..
We gonna go to my boy's house 2 hours away and play Dungeons and Dragons till the sun comes up! Get your shoes on and grab your keys, you're driving. Oh and let's stop off at the Popeye's that's half an hour out of the way before we get on the road!!! There's probably gonna be traffic cause they're tearing up the road in that direction so let's hurry!!! 
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