I unfortunately have to agree thats why i dont care for serious relationships lol.As I mentioned above I'm talking to a lot of women at the moment and the message that has come across many times is striking and startling to me, everyone of em had a great nice sweet guy they were with for years no cheating, abuse infidelity, checked all their checkboxes just one day they woke up and didn't "feel it anymore"
Even if you do it all good these chicks are still going off emotions so hell do what you want to do
Relationships seem to just be about doing a lot of shyt you don’t want to do..
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jwonder
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Nah. Get a home body like I did. shyt is hard AF though, because they don't go anywhere. lol I ended up hooking up with my homeboy's sister. She had to meet up with him and I happened to be there. If it weren't for that, I would have never met her
the bossman
Superstar
How awkward was it first time your homeboy realized you were smashing his baby sisNah. Get a home body like I did. shyt is hard AF though, because they don't go anywhere. lol I ended up hooking up with my homeboy's sister. She had to meet up with him and I happened to be there. If it weren't for that, I would have never met her
jwonder
Superstar
Well she is older than him for one and who cares when you grown? That's teenager shyt when your like don't look at my sister
O.T.I.S.
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I swear you Coli nikkas act like no one can ever vent or complain about shyt
You probably complain about everything 60times a day IRL... I make one thread once about this shyt that I’ve said USUALLY doesn’t bother me enough to write about it and suddenly “you a grown ass man...” ignoring the hundred other grown ass men in this thread that relate
I didn’t want a relationship... it seems to be that it didn’t matter with her. You skipped the parts where nikkas actually explained how that is possible obviously. I know what tf I can and can’t do because I’m a grown man every fukking day
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dora_da_destroyer
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Grown people don’t end up in relationships they don’t want, at least not those who don’t have binding ties (marriage, kids, shared mortgage,etc)I swear you Coli nikkas act like no one can ever vent or complain about shyt
You probably complain about everything 60times a day IRL... I make one thread once about this shyt that I’ve said USUALLY doesn’t bother me enough to write about it and suddenly “you a grown ass man...” ignoring the hundred other grown ass men in this thread that relate
I didn’t want a relationship... it seems to be that it didn’t matter with her. You skipped the parts where nikkas actually explained how that is possible obviously. I know what tf I can and can’t do because I’m a grown man every fukking day
And like I said, you’ve made petty threads about her before, like these are truly baseless issues. I could see if she’s the type to talk over you, smother you, be suspicious of you, etc. but you’re complaining about her wanting to talk on the phone and go places when other people are in those places....ok
This is funnyWomen be wanting to go to Costco at 12pm on a Saturday afternoon
Fukk relationships. I'm going through it with my girl as we speak. I felt as though she was being short, and borderline rude, with my mom (basically not using the polite demeanor you're supposed to have in somebody's momma's house). I pulled her aside and low-key checked her when we were still at my mom's house, but I chewed her ass out in the car on the way home. Now she's "taking a walk". Every bytch I find, there is something severely wrong with her. I know when I'm single, I go through long p*ssy droughts, but this relationship shyt ain't it, either.
Field Marshall Bradley
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Yall making it harder than it needs to be..... but I do feel ya tho...... a lot of chicks need to be seen with you....... if yall can't enjoy each other's company outside of spending money and fukking, then yall may have a problem....
O.T.I.S.
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Yes they do, grown people end up in shyt they don’t want to be in all the time... it’s like one of the main/shyttiest parts of growing tf up and taking care of your responsibilities
I said I didn’t want to be in a relationship with her for quite some time and I had my reasons... she wasn’t the reason. I didn’t say I didn’t want to be with “her” specifically, I said I didn’t want to be in a relationship and for years I acted like a “man” and did just that. She was the only one holding on, doing shyt for me, wanting to do shyt with me, sending gifts to my fam once my grandmother died, cooks for my momma, etc...
So like I and many other people say... sometimes you just fall into it. Even my momma/fam thinks I should marry her
And the “petty” threads I make are usually about how I hate sitting on phone calls for hours (which other MEN relate), or about music. I rarely make threads in here and wasn’t even gonna make this one. I had pressed “create thread” by mistake only to come back and find this thread blowing up with nikkas that could relate
Like I said, you probably vent and complain 60 times a day about shyt. I rarely complain about much (except on here maybe) and usually wouldn’t complain about this shyt if it wasn’t so true
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If you genuinely LIKE each other, yea. If you don't. Then no.
panopticon
Superstar
Damn...forget on the verge of depression, dude was really in the thick of itLike swallowing nut...or washing the skid marks out of your drawers...or cleaning up behind a grown ass man...
But even beyond that I had an ex tell me he didn't realize he was on the verge of depression until he met me. Because prior to us getting together, he would spend 24/7 in his one bedroom apartment, only leave to go to work and come back. Blinds closed, old take-out boxes and dirty carpet, crumbs of soap, mattress and a box spring with no headboard or fitted sheets, mold in the bathroom, socks with holes in em, rings around the tub, nothing in the fridge and the only people he talked to were on PSN.
I tried it with him for a while and that shyt made ME depressed. When you start drinking liquor just to tolerate somebody...hell them trips to Walmart felt like freedom.
Initially I would ask him to come with me b/c I'm used to a wide circle of friends. I'm used to people just popping by my apartment for Ghibli Studio marathons and dinner. I'm used to pub crawling and board games with friends at 3am on a Saturday night in bars. Karaoke, figuring out answers to life's problems, debates in 24 hour French bakeries, traveling, brunch with professors all kinds of shyt b/c my brain can't stay still for too long and I'm a gamer too, but doing that shyt every single day non-stop?!
But he had a way of not wanting to go anywhere with me, but also not wanting ME to go anywhere either. It's hard to describe feeling emotionally manipulated into cutting off parts of urself for somebody else b/c you feel sorry for them or b/c you don't want to leave them behind.
Sometimes if these chicks are in the same boat as me, we just wanna get out the damn house. I remember cancelling a pub crawl with my friends for New Years for this dude and literally spent the night drunk on a ratty ass couch watching Robot Chicken miserable b/c he didn't wanna go anywhere.l literally had friends and family telling me I glowed when we broke up. shyt affected me mentally and physically.
Never again.
for trying, even if shyt didn't work out. You didn't have to do that. 
That's rare - most people immediately hit the
:towelmax: when they see the effects of depression.I hope breh got some help and is doing better now...it's possible to bounce back, i speak from experience. The pills work.
Dawg, how does the conversation of marriage come up in any capacity, when you not even in a relationship. What kind of shyt is this.Yes they do, grown people end up in shyt they don’t want to be in all the time... it’s like one of the main/shyttiest parts of growing tf up and taking care of your responsibilities
I said I didn’t want to be in a relationship with her for quite some time and I had my reasons... she wasn’t the reason. I didn’t say I didn’t want to be with “her” specifically, I said I didn’t want to be in a relationship and for years I acted like a “man” and did just that. She was the only one holding on, doing shyt for me, wanting to do shyt with me, sending gifts to my fam once my grandmother died, cooks for my momma, etc...
So like I and many other people say... sometimes you just fall into it. Even my momma/fam thinks I should marry her
And the “petty” threads I make are usually about how I hate sitting on phone calls for hours (which other MEN relate), or about music. I rarely make threads in here and wasn’t even gonna make this one. I had pressed “create thread” by mistake only to come back and find this thread blowing up with nikkas that could relate
Like I said, you probably vent and complain 60 times a day about shyt. I rarely complain about much (except on here maybe) and usually wouldn’t complain about this shyt if it wasn’t so true
As I mentioned above I'm talking to a lot of women at the moment and the message that has come across many times is striking and startling to me, everyone of em had a great nice sweet guy they were with for years no cheating, abuse infidelity, checked all their checkboxes just one day they woke up and didn't "feel it anymore"
Even if you do it all good these chicks are still going off emotions so hell do what you want to do
Is that your existential view on all relationships? You think no matter what, women are gonna lose that feeling eventually?
