Relationships seem to just be about doing a lot of shyt you don’t want to do..

[semicko82]

A man can love his wife more than life itself and still cheat every blue moon... but if a woman cheats on you, she ain’t got no more love for you.... not for real... and it’s not a double standard either

This

 

[feelosofer]

A good relationship requires compromise but it shouldn't feel like a chore.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Rapids comes after the honeymoon stage. The honeymoon stage is where you are both still trying to impress one another. Usually the first year. Rapids begin when both looks and sex fade and you get into the nitty gritty. You've seen her no make up sick on her rag eating a bag of doritos and youre fighting and figuring what annoys you about he or she.

Compromise is when you accept said flaws. "Oh that's just how she is i know how to deal with it now"

Facts...

I’m currently at that last, compromise stage

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Dawg, how does the conversation of marriage come up in any capacity, when you not even in a relationship. What kind of shyt is this.

Bruh at what point in any of my posts have I mentioned marriage

I said my momma wants me to. I’m not trying to get married at all either right now.

And obviously, throughout EVERYTHING you’ve read, you still don’t understand that we are in a relationship? Why, just because we didn’t title tf out of it... put it on Facebook?

Damn near everyone knows about this girl FOR YEARS. I been telling her I didn’t want a relationship because I WASNT WHERE I WANTED TO BE... not because of her. I didn’t want a relationship or committed... I still don’t but like others say, females have ways of sneaking in regardless of what you say.

That’s basically it... we talk everyday, hang out, stay at each other places, etc. I even help her with her business, know her friends, etc. we are basically together. How hard is that to understand my nikka? Just because I didn’t want to be in a relationship for personal reasons or the fact that I didn’t put a title on it?

It’s not that serious, she’s basically mines. She’s annoying at times and I’m allowed to vent like every other nikka

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Nah. Get a home body like I did. shyt is hard AF though, because they don't go anywhere. lol I ended up hooking up with my homeboy's sister. She had to meet up with him and I happened to be there. If it weren't for that, I would have never met her

Nah she’s a homebody I guess that’s why she was OD’ing on this bullshyt when I got back in town.

We just had like 3 arguments today because she kept changing our plans now I’m just like “idgaf what we do”

 

[Mowgli]

I see one of the main reasons I wanted to be single. I don’t see the point of most of the shyt She wants to do for entertainment. Everytime we go somewhere it has to be crowded af, long ass waits, etc., like I just need to come up with every single idea myself just to avoid me having to do dumb shyt.

Youre a glass is half empty kinda guy

Theyre also about getting a lot of what you want

 

[Dont@Me]

This is my life.

Thankfully I have escorts and side chics to scratch that itch from time to time.

hopefully it's not the same itch that they gave you

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Youre a glass is half empty kinda guy

Theyre also about getting a lot of what you want

True

I hated shopping but she bought me a lot of shyt too...

 

[Serious]

Bruh at what point in any of my posts have I mentioned marriage

I said my momma wants me to. I’m not trying to get married at all either right now.

And obviously, throughout EVERYTHING you’ve read, you still don’t understand that we are in a relationship? Why, just because we didn’t title tf out of it... put it on Facebook?

Damn near everyone knows about this girl FOR YEARS. I been telling her I didn’t want a relationship because I WASNT WHERE I WANTED TO BE... not because of her. I didn’t want a relationship or committed... I still don’t but like others say, females have ways of sneaking in regardless of what you say.

That’s basically it... we talk everyday, hang out, stay at each other places, etc. I even help her with her business, know her friends, etc. we are basically together. How hard is that to understand my nikka? Just because I didn’t want to be in a relationship for personal reasons or the fact that I didn’t put a title on it?

It’s not that serious, she’s basically mines. She’s annoying at times and I’m allowed to vent like every other nikka

I'm just saying, women like labels....

I mean realistically what "feelings" or sentiments truly change once a couple signs those papers(gets married). It's more of a security blanket.

It's seems like nothing to you or me, but it means the world to a lot of women.

 

[Knowledge]

it doesnt matter how many times you tell a chick you're not looking for a relationship if they like you

They STILL believe they can "trick" you into a relationship

This.

Women are very good at inserting themselves into your life, especially if you're a desirable breh.

Boy ain't this shyt the truth. I ain't even know I was in a relationship until ole girl hit me with , "ok we don't go together no more" when .she was playing around. I was lost. I was like oh she must not know who I am and what I do . Then when I told her I ain't got time for no chick right now she wanna cry and try to guilt me talking about, " I sacrificed everything for you. You met my family (not my choice and I ain't ask to meet them nikkas either)".

And yes @Matt504 these chicks is only good for smashing until the sex bots make em obsolete

 

[Carlton Banks]

So glad I don't have these issues with my girl. But it's completely relatable in regards to my past relationships. Honestly there's a perfect girl out there for you that's not gonna be annoying AF. You just gotta look for her and stop searching for the dimes all the time.

Here's a tip, look for the girls that aren't into makeup and looking glamourous all the time. It shows that they're not interested in attention and have more important things and goals to focus on. She maybe start off as a 6 or 7 to you, but turn out to be a 10 once you realize how easy going and peaceful things are with y'all.

 

[Action Mike]

Y'all sound like bytches. If you don't want to go to Costco, say "No, I don't want to go to Costco" and don't go

Excatly

It aint hard, if she bytches about it give her something to do

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

 

[mag357]

Ok, if this is the case then a lot of y’all just need to stay single.

Sis... that can was my initial point....
nikkaz be getting in relationships only to regret be that shyt like a year or 2 later...
But again, like I said in my other post, men are scared of not having constant access to a neccessity like p*ssy...
Some nikkaz can't pull a new female every month.
So their droughts can be crazy

 

[mag357]

Boy ain't this shyt the truth. I ain't even know I was in a relationship until ole girl hit me with , "ok we don't go together no more" when .she was playing around. I was lost. I was like oh she must not know who I am and what I do . Then when I told her I ain't got time for no chick right now she wanna cry and try to guilt me talking about, " I sacrificed everything for you. You met my family (not my choice and I ain't ask to meet them nikkas either)".

And yes @Matt504 these chicks is only good for smashing until the sex bots make em obsolete

To be honest... U guys are the problem.
And I hate it lol... 4real tho.
If she's not wifeee, stop doing wifeee type things with her.. stop spending madd time with her. fukkin her all the time....
Then when she wants to get wife appreciation, u wanna act funny to her..
U can't have it both ways.

Ur fukking the game up doing this