FishNGrits
Superstar
Yes
Relationships seem to just be about doing a lot of shyt you don’t want to do..
- Thread starter O.T.I.S.
- Start date
MR. Conclusion
All Star
Women be wanting to go to Costco at 12pm on a Saturday afternoon
I got annoyed just reading this.
Field Marshall Bradley
Veteran
because she really loved HIM..... most people are incapable of that type of love in 2018
getting cheated on though...? why love someone that much when they don’t even love you enough to stay faithful?
because she really loved HIM..... most people are incapable of that type of love in 2018
Bush herFukk relationships. I'm going through it with my girl as we speak. I felt as though she was being short, and borderline rude, with my mom (basically not using the polite demeanor you're supposed to have in somebody's momma's house). I pulled her aside and low-key checked her when we were still at my mom's house, but I chewed her ass out in the car on the way home. Now she's "taking a walk". Every bytch I find, there is something severely wrong with her. I know when I'm single, I go through long p*ssy droughts, but this relationship shyt ain't it, either.
No woman should disrespect your mother, especially in HER home
If you don’t bush her you’ve pretty much disrespected your mother and chose this chick over her
Field Marshall Bradley
Veteran
A man can love his wife more than life itself and still cheat every blue moon... but if a woman cheats on you, she ain’t got no more love for you.... not for real... and it’s not a double standard either
Tommy Knocks
retired
Yes.
Goes like this
I. Honeymoon
II. Rapids
III. Content/compromise
The rapids is where 95% of relationships fail. If you can get past the rapids, its a legit solid long term relationship. Its those relationships that hurt when they don't work out 5 yrs later cause you know how tough it is to find one that goes past the rapids. men have many women in their lives but on one hand can count how many go past the rapids. shyt hands? Sometimes a finger or 2
Bro u should have put that in all caps..they need to hear u lolAs I mentioned above I'm talking to a lot of women at the moment and the message that has come across many times is striking and startling to me, everyone of em had a great nice sweet guy they were with for years no cheating, abuse infidelity, checked all their checkboxes just one day they woke up and didn't "feel it anymore"
Even if you do it all good these chicks are still going off emotions so hell do what you want to do
And even the in house p*ssy stops
I hear men complain about sexless marriages all the time. fukk that
I need it 3 to 5 times a week. AT MINIMUM it needs to be 1x a week except for obvious situations.
Other than that, relationships should be built on strong friendships. However, people are scared to marry their best friend who they obviously love and know everything about....in the name of "messing up or losing the friendship".
I have a girl I am 100% comfortable with. I'm building the fukk out of the friendship because as it stands, I wanna marry her and see my self with her in 2040, 2050, etc etc.
Expound on the rapids
Because I thought the honeymoon phase was the first 1-3 years. So years 4-7 are the “rapids” ?
Tommy Knocks
retired
Rapids comes after the honeymoon stage. The honeymoon stage is where you are both still trying to impress one another. Usually the first year. Rapids begin when both looks and sex fade and you get into the nitty gritty. You've seen her no make up sick on her rag eating a bag of doritos and youre fighting and figuring what annoys you about he or she.
Compromise is when you accept said flaws. "Oh that's just how she is i know how to deal with it now"
No disrepect but ur perspective will always be a lil fukked up because ur a woman... Ur life is filled with illusions because most ppl aren't honest with u...
Ur saying that relationships are about compromise... But men usually are the ones sacrificing and compromising all the time in relationships... Thats what everyone in this thread are saying... If I had a thousand men in a room... 900 of them would be saying the same thing... 50 of them would be lying and the other 50 are the no good nikkaz bytches be taking care of (my numbers are a bit off but u get it lol)
And ur last paragraph is the most important part about ur perspective... U said that u and ur partner did things that both y'all wanted to do... Or he did things that you wanted to do, And he enjoyed himself...
I'ma just make this face on thatlol
If he smiled thru shopping with u at bed bath and beyond and told u he was having a good time, that's him compromising and sacrificing for ur feelings...
It's not about being with the wrong person... This is just what it is when dealing with women. If u had a dikk u would know ( again, no disrepect)
This thread is a good time to just listen to men vent, sis
Ok, if this is the case then a lot of y’all just need to stay single.
Guvnor
Da Speculative Spectacle®
That's real talk man, I like the way you broke that down and I never heard it put that way but that's the truth. However the thing is with social media it makes it even more difficult to find a real relationship that is worth it these days. I mean even the most innocent seeming women do thot shyt for attention, some of them on the low all because they know they can use that as a means to get money and attention from simps. A lot of women are straight hoes these days and they try to use the resurgence of the feminist movement to defend themselves and say men are slut shaming them if we speak on it. I mean it's gotten so bad this one chick I knew who I was cool with totally changed up on me, we were cool one day then after a few month passed of us not speaking I reach out and all of a sudden she is on her feminist shyt saying how men aint shyt and only want p*ssy, etc etc. It's wild as hell man. Next month she will probably be dating some white dude like how most of those black femenist get down.
Another set of them don't have shyt to offer you but want anything they can get from you and act entitled when a relationship shouldn't work that way. That's not all women of course but many have these kind of mentalities and if that's the case might as well smash and pass or just enjoy your time rather then focus too much on a relationship.
I feel like brehs should do the rapid phase before even going through a marriage
But that takes years of vetting a chick out
Most women are obnoxious and a drag. If not for sex, men and women would rarely have anything to do with each other.
Whoever brought up always having the burden to be entertaining and provide attention on the man's side is absolutely right. shyt is draining.
It's like damn, read a book or get a hobby. I've literally said this out of frustration before towards my girl.
Women are needy and will drain the life out of you if you let them.
Whoever brought up always having the burden to be entertaining and provide attention on the man's side is absolutely right. shyt is draining.
It's like damn, read a book or get a hobby. I've literally said this out of frustration before towards my girl.
Women are needy and will drain the life out of you if you let them.
