Report: Florida man beat child with belt because of school grades

[True Blue Moon]

Read the title like and?

Then they mentioned bruises on the chest & getting naked for a "whoopin'". Now I've had my ass beat plenty of times as a kid & I ain't never had to lose all my clothes or get beat in the chest. That's some next level shyt.

Exactly. I’m legit known as the one in my family that got the most whoopins but I’m on the first page like, did some of y’all read the story

And a lot of times when these types of stories pop up there’s always a part about taking all your clothes off before the whoopin. I caught some bad ones as a kid but I never had to strip naked or got it to the point I had crazy marks everywhere.

Y’all were really catching butt naked ass whoopins like that

 

[Dwight Howard]

Let’s see, kid back talks parent, they get smacked in the mouth...that’s ok

Wife back talks husband, gets smacked in the mouth....that’s o...oh wait, that’s not ok


But wait, aren’t they both discipline to teach said person not to engage in some “unacceptable” behavior?

One is a grown adult with a developed brain. The other is child with a developing brain with an undeveloped sense of morality. Grown adults have no legitimate reason to strike other grown folks. Whereas, striking kids serves a legitimate purpose as a measure of discipline. It's that simple.

 

[Kaypain]

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Bruh our whole reaction is

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I got my ass beat for looking at my mom's wrong

 

[Dwight Howard]

Dad is a loser and failure

that old school slave shyt played the fukk out. No way your child gonna act out if you take the time to help them with their school work everyday.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

One is a grown adult with a developed brain. The other is child with a developing brain with an undeveloped sense of morality. Grown adults have no legitimate reason to strike other grown folks. Whereas, striking kids serves a legitimate purpose as a measure of discipline. It's that simple.

Ah, so an adult who knows they’re wrong doesn’t deserve to be hit but a kid who doesn’t have reasoning skills does. Got it.

 

[Dwight Howard]

Ah, so an adult who knows they’re wrong doesn’t deserve to be hit but a kid who doesn’t have reasoning skills does. Got it.

You are being obtuse. Striking a child has a legitimate purpose of correcting bad behavior. It is a legitimate form of discipline. And discipline is necessary to raise a child. We allow parents to strike kids as a valid means of correcting behavior and properly raising a child. Adults slapping other adults serves no legitimate purpose that is beneficial to society.

 

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One is a grown adult with a developed brain. The other is child with a developing brain with an undeveloped sense of morality. Grown adults have no legitimate reason to strike other grown folks. Whereas, striking kids serves a legitimate purpose as a measure of discipline. It's that simple.

What sort of logic is that ?

High stress damages that developing brain.

Should be obvious really. The organism in a state of development is weaker than when it matures.

 

[Wildin]

It's rare that kids don't understand why they're getting whooped? You're sheltered. You think it's crazy people think children "are angels," but you think child abuse is rare?


If your grades are bad, youre getting whooped.
If you lied, your getting whooped.
Cuss, yiure getting whooped.
Do something you were not to do, yiure getting whooped.
Stole something, your getting whooped.
Didn't do something you were told to do, your getting whooped.

You're not teaching a kid shyt by answering these with physical violence. You're teaching them to fear you and associate faults and shortcomings with violence.


I'm still dying at "the child is not innocent"

We talking a muhfukka who may not have been on this earth longer than Barack Obama was president

Lemme guess "HE/SHE SHOULD KNOW BETTER "

I don't even know where to start with you breh.

If you really think parents are randomly whooping kids for no reason, we have nothing further to talk about.

The whoopin is not the lesson, I repeat, the whoopin is not the lesson. If your just whooping your kid and thats it. You suck as a parent. If your just taking away the PlayStation and that's it, you suck as a parent. If you send them to their room and that's it, you suck as a parent. Whatever the punishment is whether physical or not is not the lesson.

I'll even flip it for you since "physical violence" touches a nerve with you.

If a child does well and you just give them a gift, and that's it. That's not good parenting. If a child does well and you just reward them, give them a treat, toy, take them somewhere and that's it, that's shyt parenting. The reward isn't the lesson.

Rewards or punishments are not lessons they are preventive, supportive or corrective actions used to modify behavior.

 

[5n0man]

Read the title like and?

Then they mentioned bruises on the chest & getting naked for a "whoopin'". Now I've had my ass beat plenty of times as a kid & I ain't never had to lose all my clothes or get beat in the chest. That's some next level shyt.

My mom use to make us strip down to our draws so we could really feel that ass whoopin.

 

[5n0man]

If it ain’t ok to beat your partner and leave bruises on them, it shouldn’t be OK to do that to a defenseless child.

If society deems it ok that the law can get physical with you for not listening to them, then society has no place to judge someone for physically disciplining their child for the same reasons, as long as the child isnt hurt in any harmful manner.

 

[Easy-E]

I don't even know where to start with you breh.

If you really think parents are randomly whooping kids for no reason, we have nothing further to talk about.

The whoopin is not the lesson, I repeat, the whoopin is not the lesson. If your just whooping your kid and thats it. You suck as a parent. If your just taking away the PlayStation and that's it, you suck as a parent. If you send them to their room and that's it, you suck as a parent. Whatever the punishment is whether physical or not is not the lesson.

I'll even flip it for you since "physical violence" touches a nerve with you.

If a child does well and you just give them a gift, and that's it. That's not good parenting. If a child does well and you just reward them, give them a treat, toy, take them somewhere and that's it, that's shyt parenting. The reward isn't the lesson.

Rewards or punishments are not lessons they are preventive, supportive or corrective actions used to modify behavior.

Now you trying to play me like I never got whoppin'. And keeping saying "for no reason."

Stop trying to break this down like I'm supposed to go

It's an outdated, ultimately harmful form of "discipline."

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You really end up perpetuating a cycle.

Now, your kid can't obey or learn unless it's with aggression or violence (yes, spanking, whooping, etc. is violence).

There whole bunch of shyt the average parent ain't giving their children (social ties, financial investment in their early adulthood, safety net, etc.) but will be goddamn if we skip the whoopings.

 

[Jparker]

Read the title like and?

Then they mentioned bruises on the chest & getting naked for a "whoopin'". Now I've had my ass beat plenty of times as a kid & I ain't never had to lose all my clothes or get beat in the chest. That's some next level shyt.

Pops knew I had padding in my pockets use to have me take my wallet out and shyt

 

[Easy-E]

What sort of logic is that ?

smh

A lot of these dudes look at whippings kids as "their turn."

It's crazy the stuff being posted here that ain't trolling.

Children have an underdeveloped sense of morality

OH GOD, HE/SHE WANTS A COOKIE BEFORE DINNER

OH GOD, HE WANTS TO RUN AFTER THE BALL INTO THE STREET

OH GOD, HE ACTS UPSET BECAUSE HE HASN'T LEARN TO SUPPRESS HIS EMOTIONS LIKE AN ADULT

 

[5n0man]

Let’s see, kid back talks parent, they get smacked in the mouth...that’s ok

Wife back talks husband, gets smacked in the mouth....that’s o...oh wait, that’s not ok


But wait, aren’t they both discipline to teach said person not to engage in some “unacceptable” behavior?

How bout this.

We are taught to obey authority or face physical discipline, and that includes death.


If society thinks it's ok for a cop to rough people up for resisting arrest, then you cant be shocked that people discipline their children in the same manner.

The difference is that you are not an authority figure over your wife, you ARE over your children tho.

 

[Wildin]

How many of y'all can remember your grades in 6th grade?

How many of those grades mattered?

Umm all of them. You learn addition and subtraction kindergarten-3, then 3rd- 6th your compounding the elements of multiplication as
Well as fractions, and graphing. If you don't get that down by the time you hit 7th grade middle school where they start to get into the pre algebra and geometry you are already behind. Take into account a lot of people transition from one school to a larger school from elementary to middle, when you get separated from your peers, not physically like separate classrooms but you're behind them educationally, it hurts the esteem, you start falling behind and it's hard to catch up. Kids start wildin out, not necessarily because they are bad but to cover up for the fact that they are nervous, scared, shamed.

Teacher calls the kid the front of the class to do the Pythagorean theorem and he's like "fukk you " and starts to show out. Not cause he's bad but as a defense mechanism, he'd rather get kicked out than look dumb or ask for help.

The father should’ve gotten a damn tutor, instead of a belt.

This is assuming the pops didn't intervene. Most schools have some form assistance before or after school, during lunch or recess. Hell there's even sylvan learning centers and places you can go and pay for tutors. Don't assume all students are automatically on board though. Kids will be kids, it's probably safe to say pops didn't exhaust all his resources though.

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ur feelings can't take a child disrespecting you---that speaks to your ego and lack of control in other aspects of your life.

Youre right about that. I said multiple times people (adults) are unwilling to really assess themselves. But it's not just direspect to the parent, the kids are disrespecting themselves. Assuming they aren't busting their ass and still failing.

How many tines did everyone in here hear their parents say "you need to apply yourself"