a church hug indicates she dont LIKE you... That can happen at Fridays..
What I will say is get a girl who is willing to be flexible. I have cut chicks off who just want to go spend a rack at restaurants every week.
It happens. Restaurants aint really my thing anyway. But, I get that some females like to be wined and dined. Its just if you are willing to cater to that
The bolded is why you don't take a bytch out to Ruth Chris on the 1st date![]()
For all the nyggas in here so in their feelings, what is the amount you dont want to go over on a date??
$20, and that's being generous![]()
Anyway, how much do you care to spend on a first date?
see, this why I cant take y'all serious on real topics on here
I ain't gonna lie I offer every female that fukk with me a chance to go to Ruth Chris to spite my old bytch in my mind bc she always wanted to go
It would be too much for me but I'd appreciate the effort.
I prefer chain restaurants for a first date.
I spent $20 on my first date with my girlfriend. Again, its a first fukking date. We're going to Starbucks, getting a drink and talking. Or am I supposed to wine and dine some bytch that Im not even sure is scandalous![]()
Yall do realize there is a sizable amount of women that just want a free meal. They just want something to post on instagram, and they want to get out of the house. There are some women that have no intentions of giving up the puss, or even really getting to know the person. They just wanna be whined and dined at some fancy spot they cant afford. When they first start this game, they settled for Chili's and TGIFridays. Then the stakes got higher, the game got tighter, and they start shooting for the stars. My homegirl is so good at it, that she routinely gets dudes to pay for another meal to take home to her son. She dont lie to them, these dudes knowingly paying for her meal and a separate meal for her cotdamn son! On the first date! She shows me the pics of her at some of the finest spots in the city. These are usually dudes that are older and lonely. Maybe they own a business or they are well off. They get them church hugs at the end of the night and then she play them games where she stops answering texts, she gets "busy". Its a science. Im not naive to think she the only one doing this.
I wouldn't blame a nikka for talking a female to Starbucks. If she agrees to go, it means she is trying to get to know you, and not just in it for a free meal.
Yeah, that steak sandwiche and a few drinks before heading home... does me good.For the record, happy hour at Ruth Chris is not expensive at all. You can get some good ass food and drinks for a reasonably low bill. Go out sometimes and you'll see