okay boo - but girls don't see you as higher value if you don't take them for dinner 
just cheap and emotionally unavailable. Play smart.
Ruth Chris Steakhouse for a first date?
- Thread starter Yagirlcheatinonus
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okay boo - but girls don't see you as higher value if you don't take them for dinner just cheap and emotionally unavailable. Play smart.
OfTheCross
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It ain't trickin if you got it..
I be Ruth Chrissing for lunch sometimes
I just take them to coffee and a museum date. Can't be predictable and boring.
satireprod
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@PeridotPuss Emotionally unavaliable?
Ive heard this before. Explain it to your boy.
Captain Crunch
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Broke nikkas exposing themselves 
I'd drop $100 on the first date because it ain't nothing to me
I'd drop $100 on the first date because it ain't nothing to me
The guy I'm seeing to took me to a comparable steak house on our first date. It was not a chain though, it was a restaurant unique to my city. He also flew out to see me to he wanted to fly me out to him, but I wasn't comfortable with that. I think he paid at least $180 or so for our first date? The place he wanted to take me too was pricier than that but I wasn't really feeling the vibe like that, so we went to the above.
But he can afford that. My last boyfriend was not nearly so well off but we lasted for over 5 years. He splurged when he could afford it and I loved him regardless. He was going to be great things in thw future and despite us breaking off, we both know that I supported him through his most difficyut times. Dating a guy who is established and well off has its perks though. I never come out of pocket for anything.
But he can afford that. My last boyfriend was not nearly so well off but we lasted for over 5 years. He splurged when he could afford it and I loved him regardless. He was going to be great things in thw future and despite us breaking off, we both know that I supported him through his most difficyut times. Dating a guy who is established and well off has its perks though. I never come out of pocket for anything.
Larry Lambo
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If you making $200K or more then I don't see a problem with that. Outside of that you are tricking.
FinesseKing
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BmoreGorilla
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Cant take any chick somewhere that expensive the first date. You set the bar too high for yourself and its only gonna get worse from there.
Not saying thats its a mandatory first date (a white boy took me there on our first date) but at least be creative 
women love spontaneous men that do shyt out of the norm. Instead of taking her to Chillis, why not take her to a paint and sip class? Its the same price as Chillis btw.
But I WOULD NEVER ASK A MAN TO TAKE ME TO AN EXPENSIVE RESTAURANT ON THE FIRST DATE
women love spontaneous men that do shyt out of the norm. Instead of taking her to Chillis, why not take her to a paint and sip class? Its the same price as Chillis btw.
But I WOULD NEVER ASK A MAN TO TAKE ME TO AN EXPENSIVE RESTAURANT ON THE FIRST DATE
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
Yo its crazy every since I told her no she stopped texting and all that and I haven't called or texted since
Bush status on to the next guy willing to trick off.
BmoreGorilla
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Im so glad im not single now (even tho me and the wife having issues).
Id be taking chicks to the park to smoke a blunt and talk about life on a first date
Id be taking chicks to the park to smoke a blunt and talk about life on a first date
Yagirlcheatinonus
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Broke nikkas exposing themselves
I'd drop $100 on the first date because it ain't nothing to me
Did you make the first offer or did you let her choose? Some chick have no scope of a situation and will pick the most lavish thing they can think of. So if you let her make the choice first, you both wrong.