Ruth Chris Steakhouse for a first date?

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i could have 1 trillian dollars in the bank
still wouldn't go ruth chris on first date

the purpose is to show who YOU are..
your habits, your style (in a manner condusive to breaking the ice, etc etc)
how is going to a michelin rated restaurant showing her anyhting???
except willingness to throw $$$ and no indivdiuality
 

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Fux no ,way to expensive dawgie.please leave that female alone your pockets will thank you later
 

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:mjlol: Broad got mad cuz I told her no but all I'm saying is I just met you what I look like paying that much on a first date.


I will only say this. It is levels to dating. You clearly establishing your boundaries which Im ok with.

But, dont look at it like.. "This a first date and she not worth it" Its guys who can take her there and be just comfortable doing it. They aren't simps. Its just levels. At least you dont try to front like money is no problem. I think more people should recognize their bracket WITHOUT hating on people who are willing to spend on that.
 

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@PeridotPuss Emotionally unavaliable? :dwillhuh:Ive heard this before. Explain it to your boy.

The term? Or how it relates to non-dinner first dates?

The term is used for men who aren't "serious" about a relationship, are dream sellers or are hoes. Favorite tactics include mixed signals,avoidance and non traditional dating techniques. Also known for emotional dependency and lying.

In terms of a first date, dudes who want to "meet up", smoke, get coffee or "go to the park" are often spread thin dating or inexperienced and insecure so they b think not investing in a REAL date makes them more appealing. It doesnt, it just lets us ladies know don't wife that cheap nikka.
 

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The term? Or how it relates to non-dinner first dates?

The term is used for men who aren't "serious" about a relationship, are dream sellers or are hoes. Favorite tactics include mixed signals,avoidance and non traditional dating techniques. Also known for emotional dependency and lying.

In terms of a first date, dudes who want to "meet up", smoke, get coffee or "go to the park" are often spread thin dating or inexperienced and insecure so they b think not investing in a REAL date makes them more appealing. It doesnt, it just lets us ladies know don't wife that cheap nikka.
Yeah I meant how it relates to non-dinner dates. Lol But that breakdown was thorough. That emotional dependency one got me like :dwillhuh::lupe:
 

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I ain't gonna lie I offer every female that fukk with me a chance to go to Ruth Chris to spite my old bytch in my mind bc she always wanted to go
 

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I will only say this. It is levels to dating. You clearly establishing your boundaries which Im ok with.

But, dont look at it like.. "This a first date and she not worth it" Its guys who can take her there and be just comfortable doing it. They aren't simps. Its just levels. At least you dont try to front like money is no problem. I think more people should recognize their bracket WITHOUT hating on people who are willing to spend on that.

This^^^^^^^
 

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I will only say this. It is levels to dating. You clearly establishing your boundaries which Im ok with.

But, dont look at it like.. "This a first date and she not worth it" Its guys who can take her there and be just comfortable doing it. They aren't simps. Its just levels. At least you dont try to front like money is no problem. I think more people should recognize their bracket WITHOUT hating on people who are willing to spend on that.

I hear what you're saying about levels and whatnot.
But we're talking about a first date.
Even if we assume money is no issue...
If you go to a Michelin rated restaurant on the first date, what are you gonna do on the 2nd and 3rd dates?
You can't just go from that to pizza and a movie because the expectation has been set.
Not to mention, the fact that you don't even know this person to be spending $x00 dollars on them (even if you have money to blow).
So it sets a bad precedent, imo.
Just like if a woman OFFERED deepthroat head on the first date, it would be :wtb:. Just like a woman getting Ruth's Chris on a first date, I'm still gonna take it, but it's going to strike me as odd every subsequent time we go out and I DON'T get deepthroat.
 
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