Scared to break up with gf of 6 yrs

[Commish]

OP..

Can you give a lil more back story to your situation? Why do you want to break up with your girl? What did she do for you to want to leave her? Why are you scared to break up with her.

I understand 6 years is a long time, but people have been in relationships along with marriages longer and eventually parted ways.

Point is..

You can't allow time invested impede on your happiness! I don't care if you been with her for a decade or two, if you are not happy, then you are not happy...

Perhaps, if you shared a succinct account on your situation, then we can help guide you towards taking the necessary step...

 

[GhettoTeK]

Get some self respect.

 

[the cool]

OP..

Can you give a lil more back story to your situation? Why do you want to break up with your girl? What did she do for you to want to leave her? Why are you scared to break up with her.

I understand 6 years is a long time, but people have been in relationships along with marriages longer and eventually parted ways.

Point is..

You can't allow time invested impede on your happiness! I don't care if you been with her for a decade or two, if you are not happy, then you are not happy...

Perhaps, if you shared a succinct account on your situation, then we can help guide you towards taking hst necessary step...

She didn’t do anything, I guess the relationship just run it’s course. Scared to break up cuz I still care about her and don’t wanna see her hurt. I’m a people pleaser IRL

 

[Primetime21]

 

[International Playa]

6 years is a long time, my longest relationship has been 3 years & that was hard to break off. Good luck OP

 

[ThrobbingHood]

She didn’t do anything, I guess the relationship just run it’s course. Scared to break up cuz I still care about her and don’t wanna see her hurt. I’m a people pleaser IRL

Smh. You know what, it’s pointless asking us for advice because you’re never gonna leave her... she will have to leave you first.

And there’s only two reasons why you haven’t left... either you haven’t got new p*ssy lined up yet or you’re financially dependent on her. Or both.

trust me... I know nikkas. Stop this bullshyt about not wanting to hurt her.

 

[Swirv]

She didn’t do anything, I guess the relationship just run it’s course. Scared to break up cuz I still care about her and don’t wanna see her hurt. I’m a people pleaser IRL

 

[3rdWorld]

If it was the other way around she wouldn't hesitate to leave you stop feeling sorry for her and do what's best for you.

This..women dont have time to play no games, trust me.,

 

[Wiseborn]

After six years you got to properly "cool out" the chick. Basically you either have to straight up ghost her or try to get her to break up with you.

 

[Wiseborn]

After six years you got to properly "cool out" the chick. Basically you either have to straight up ghost her or try to get her to break up with you.

 

[luckyse7enz]

You're going to regret not doing it sooner in year 10.

 

[ALonelyDad]

Gotta hurt her so you can justify it to yourself..you have several options here

1. Start treating her like shyt, be like Future Hendrix

2. Cheat on her and make sure you get caught

these are some of the few things you can do and best advice you are gonna get

 

[AllHolosEve]

She didn’t do anything, I guess the relationship just run it’s course. Scared to break up cuz I still care about her and don’t wanna see her hurt. I’m a people pleaser IRL

if she didn't do anything wrong & you still care about her & want her pleased why do you want out?

You have a good woman & wanna leave? Why?

 

[Family Man]

Smh. You know what, it’s pointless asking us for advice because you’re never gonna leave her... she will have to leave you first.

And there’s only two reasons why you haven’t left... either you haven’t got new p*ssy lined up yet or you’re financially dependent on her. Or both.

trust me... I know nikkas. Stop this bullshyt about not wanting to hurt her.

Exactly. That dumb ass nikka. The nikka prolly got a little attention from a new bytch and is now seeing all the flaws in his current relationship and woman. If he's too p*ssy to dump her over the course of six years - then why tf is he asking for advice?

 

[Finesse]

It only really hurts foreal for about two weeks

By week three you will feel the weight of the relationship off your shoulder

And ask yourself why you aint do this sooner