Be a man and just say you want out. Life is too short to be uncertain about shyt. Just do it nikka if that's what you want. And she not the last good girl on earth. And besides. You wasting her life too...be considerate
Scared to break up with gf of 6 yrs
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The grass ain't always greener
the ass tap...
goat pres of all time...fukked WITH rosa parks ali...deontay wilder..lennox...rev jesse n al....michael jackson... killmonger jus to name a few..
that'll end things
zerorequiem
All Star
Not going to lie breh that shyt will be tough initially. You will have to keep yourself busy. I felt practicing mindfulness and focusing on the present not the past and future helped me a few years ago.
OP..
I understand how you feel. Trust me, but please hear me out...
This may be a lil long, so forgive me for the lengthy post..
Look, sometimes, we have to make tough decisions in life, but said decisions is for the better good...
I am sure your gf is a good woman. You also seem like a good dude, but relationships isn’t just about one person’s feelings. You also have to be happy! If you feel that the relationship ran it’s course and you really care about your girl, then you have to be willing to let her go!
I am not suggesting that you should cut her off cold turkey. In your case, perhaps the both of you could continue to keep in touch, see each other and maybe on occasion be intimate, if that is possible. However, continuing a relationship that isn’t beneficial to your spirit isn’t healthy. You are actually doing yourself and your gf a huge disservice by staying in something that you don’t want to stay in...
IMO, one of the most important things in a relationship is establishing a solid communication foundation. You should never be afraid of communicating with someone you claim to care about. In addition, as a man or more importantly an adult, you should never be a coward! Cowardice is frowned upon and should be!
If your gf cares about you, then she would be understanding on how you feel because like her, you also have a right to be happy! Happiness, peace, respect and dignity should never be comprised!
Tbh, you need to have a serious gut check and really think about your purpose in life. You are not guaranteed to live forever, so don’t take your life for granted and feel that your purpose in life is just to please others and not yourself because you will never please everyone. You are only responsible for your own happiness, not your girl’s happiness, your parents, siblings, homies or work associates.
I strongly suggest that you have a heart to heart sit down, face to face conversation with your gf and share with her how you feel.
Yes, she may get upset and depending on her emotional maturity, may or may not respond the way you want. If that is the case, then that should tell you where she is at emotionally and I would question her feelings towards you because someone who really cares about you would be understanding, even if it hurts.
I just don’t want you to be with your girl and end up resenting her down the line which may happen. I would much rather you speak your peace, and if all goes well, the both of you could remain friends and maybe down the line rekindle the relationship, if meant to be. If not, then at least you will be happy with your decision and you could concentrate on yourself, reset, handle whatever business you need to handle that way when you are ready to get into another relationship, you will be ready on all fronts..
Please get your grown up on and have the heart to heart by the end of the month! But, be sure to think about your decision and make sure this is what you want to do before doing it because if you do it and she decides to cut you off, then there may be no turning back.
Just know that should you do this, it may be the best decision for the both of you. Once again, your happiness is just as important as hers and remember, breaking up with someone doesn’t have to be done with malice nor does it mean that you don’t care about her. Actually, breaking up with someone shows that you actually do care because many people will stay in relationships and live the remainder of their lives in misery. Don’t be that person!
I wish nothing but the best for you and your gf!
Salute to ya!
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fckyoupayme
All Star
You would ghost someone you have been with for six years? Cold blooded
The God Poster
LWO representa
This but at the same time it may not be much browner either
I've been where @track 1 is before ....ltr that just goes bad . Can't go a day without arguing over something petty. One side doesn't feel respected/appreciated enough. Either y'all gotta sit down & put everything on the table or just man up & call it off.
Obviously you hesitant because over 6 yrs you get complacent & used to someone else being around. I'm sure you prob do love her too which adds to it
I’m telling you people nowadays are trashhhhGhosting someone after 6
It’s hard but like others mention you’ll feel better in a few months.
or you can do things to make her dump you
or you can do things to make her dump you
Dameon Farrow
Superstar
You came to the right place. Nothing TLR loves more than a failed relationship.
you were good before her. You’ll be good afterwards.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
That will make her fall in love more, these females wired different in 2020