"Seeing me be loved out loud by a white man as a DSBW resonates with my community; it heals the world."

[Gloxina]

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You raise valid points, but part of the “game” other races of women have extends to how they curve dudes. A lot of attractive young BW will bluntly curve dudes who approach them and don’t fit the archetype they find attractive. For example, brehettes have really undermined themselves with the prevailing narrative that they don’t want men under 6ft. I’ve straight up heard some tell brehs that’s why they’re not interested. Whereas a lot of young WW usually will say “I have a boyfriend” (even if they don’t) and still be polite going forward, basically keeping dudes as potential future options.

ok. I’ve personally never heard a woman literally tell a man he was under 6’ so she couldn’t date him. I understand it’s a thing, but those are actual birds.

 

[lib123]

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ok. I’ve personally never heard a woman literally tell a man he was under 6’ so she couldn’t date him. I understand it’s a thing, but those are actual birds.

I’m speaking primarily about brehettes 26 and under. Most don’t outright say it, but many have that strong preference. It’s not just birds.



Starting at the 20 min mark until 33 min a Black woman matchmaker talks about brehettes height preference and being rude in how they curve men at her event.