"Seeing me be loved out loud by a white man as a DSBW resonates with my community; it heals the world."

[Wiseborn]

Yep. I was regultried to tell grown women, but they don't listen. Oh well. You can't save somebody who don't wanna be saved.

When Iarly posting in bw's spaces, my life was equal to, or better than, those married to wm. The propaganda was so bad, they literally called me a liar. (This stopped when he picked me up from a few meet ups.) They preferred the advice of bitter divorcees because that reaffirmed their shytty choices. Even coli brehs call me a liar, like a well to do bm can't or won't take care of his woman.

To your point about patriarchy, I 1000% agree. I've been totally dependent on this man going on 25 yrs now (since the Feb before 9/11!) and have NEVER felt taken advantage of or 'trapped'. I'm living my dream. All I ever wanted was to read my archaeological studies in peace and he gives me that with very few expectations on his part. Ofc, I go above and beyond. The sex is great. Everybody's happy.

You don't know the value of you being on here you clear up a lot of shyt.

I lurk in babblespehere because I don't want to live in a complete echo chamber but Damn if women don't want to beleive.

Like I said I glanced on the first page of the 78 page and counting thread on this subject and since there's almost no breh pushback they think that this is a total agenda push for clout and that she was saying shyt that her fans wanted to hear.

I didn't even know they had fan bases yet.

So basically you answered the question why brehettes post over here. If and when i suggested Black women like white boys Coli brehs pushed back hard granted it was because they didn't accept that anyone would think that white bois are "better" but still.

nikkas me included say wild things on here but it's not like women get their heads bitten off just for being woman with a different opinion Let a breh go into the buttasphere not completely pandering and they're gonna be bushed immediately.

The wild thing is the gay dating coach that advocates swirling. So they're taking advice from a gay breh telling them to date out and never once thinking that maybe he as an ulterior motive.


What would brehettes think if a crehette told them to date out?

 

[Wiseborn]

Nah, I think we need to get out of this mode.

its causing black people to be stuck in shytty mindsets because the blame gets shifted to something else.


These women have deep feelings of inadequacy and possess esteem disorders.

They need to recognize and fix that and not put the onus on factors out of their control.

There's a long history of Black Psychologists trying to fix sick negros.

Brother ancestor Franz Fanon wrote about this in depth in white Skin Black Masks Mozambique really had a drop squad called Centers of Mental Decolonization personally I beleive in free thought (up to a point) and maybe they went too far but maybe they didnt go far enough

 

[Wiseborn]

y'all gotta understand ain't shyte changing just trying to talk bytches into acting right

nikkas will never shame black women into making themselves exclusive to the community/culture

whatever community/culture has a grip on the fortune of this planet is who they will endure whatever measure of war to get next to

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always been the case women follow power. There were a couple of cases of women Intel agents following ISIS people then going to Syria to marry them.

the bytch knew CIA was tracking these guys and while spying on him She fell in Love with him and left the states to be married to a nikka with a farm and a gun in a society where women had no rights whatsoever.

To this day the US givernment is paying Kurds to guard widows of ISIS fighters who are american and british citizens Because they don't want them back here The agent was lucky they let her come back and she did some time and was released to do the reachback in the white community.

 

[Wiseborn]

Who cares. Who is paying for weirdo nikkas to post this shyt???

Likely the same nikkas posting Catset videos.

No one is paid to post here nikkas admitted to posting shyt that they don't believe to get plat threads.

nikkas could say they don't like chatty patty shyt but I'm sure that Big Ticket exposure thread did more numbers than threads on what he did in the field.

 

[HarlemHottie]

So basically you answered the question why brehettes post over here. If and when i suggested Black women like white boys Coli brehs pushed back hard granted it was because they didn't accept that anyone would think that white bois are "better" but still.

nikkas me included say wild things on here but it's not like women get their heads bitten off just for being woman with a different opinion Let a breh go into the buttasphere not completely pandering and they're gonna be bushed immediately.

It's true. I came here because the bw board I was on (not LSA) had become hostile to bm, I pushed back and was banned. Registration was closed here when I wanted to join after months of lurking, but I sent them some money and said point blank, 'I want to be in a space that doesn't hate bm.' They let me in.

 

[Wiseborn]

I’m not talking about tricks. I’m talking about normal brehs who use some junior high memories as an excuse to disqualify all Black women they establish themselves. It’s just an excuse to not date BW.

There are BW under 30 and under 35 who are trying to find a Black husband but dudes talk about the girls who curved them at 20 and only want to get serious with the lighter or other race girls when they get on in their late 20s or 30s, but them same girls weren’t in your face when you were building.

true but it works both ways, As we see there's thristy nikkas and throught history ugly gang usually got married. And we know this because Ugly gang nikkas exist in abundance if no one married their ugly ass fathers they wouldn't exist for women to complain about.

If the nikka must open his heart to the bytch who curved him in the 3rd grade then Black women should marry a duck before he bucks.

I'll convince nikka nerds to come back home if you convince the pretty birds to deal with the nerds I guess you could sell it as finesing a nikka out of a diamond ring.

 

[High Art]

Eating Indian a$$?

Hot damn this bytch is a whole fukking mess.

 

[Wiseborn]

It's true. I came here because the bw board I was on (not LSA) had become hostile to bm, I pushed back and was banned. Registration was closed here when I wanted to join after months of lurking, but I sent them some money and said point blank, 'I want to be in a space that doesn't hate bm.' They let me in.

word the board gets weird but no one is kicking women out. I mean the stripper is here and she sounds like an LSA member but even she said she can't stand them hoes over there.

And to the poster we're referencing I'm not dissing yoi but I'm not calling your name since you have me on ignore just incase the post is highlighted.

 

[Wiseborn]

I totally see what you’re saying and you aren’t wrong, but in the context of this show, being picked —PERIOD— is the goal.

If no one had a visceral reaction to her being liked by a white dude, it wouldn’t have gotten this big. If the white girls looked at her and shrugged their shoulders, this shyt would’ve blown over. It blew up because everyone was saying that he must be faking it. So she’s trying to defend herself and her beauty to THEM.
She doesn’t have enough game to understand how to deal with negative attention from white women. So this is how it’s playing out.

Cant women see the play here? If you have to be picked why not pick the Black girl who you know is guaranteed to pick you and stay on the show? The other spicy white brehito did just that admitted to it and was called out by white girls on the show.

I mean the play is so obvious I don't understand how it works,

 

[Wiseborn]

I try to pay it forward. I'll give the game to anyone who listens, and have.


That's my princess too, the only child I ever raised, ppl think me and my brother are her parents cuz she look just like me but ls. From the day she was born, me and moms been ON IT. Sent her to Harlem School of The Arts. Got her violin lessons. She found my pills when she was little and asked what they were and I told her they were vitamins to make sure I don't make little hers. She stayed with us for summers so she witnessed me and my man and the lovely dynamic and wanted that for herself.

We had a planning session about five yrs ago where I laid out her options. She made her choice, a peer her own age, and made it happen. It's cute cuz they're both half ADOS/ half WI. I talked her through what she didn't get, but for the most part, we seem to have instilled it young cuz she the mama of her friend group, the one with the most sense, the one who solves problems.

She's amazing, despite her mother, who got into finance on my mother's recommendation but never put a dime into her daughter's education. And the mom be hating on my niece (who looks NOTHING like or her side whatsoever). And her mom hated on my mother. And her sister, HBCU graduate, hated on me and almost got her ass whooped at a party by my homegirls. Veritable generations of hate.

The beauty of extended family is that, even if your parents don't put you on, somebody will.

To the bold, this needs to be put in the largest font. Is this how men should be gauging marriageability, a woman who has same generation relatives, bm, who marry? Do we have the keys? Should men filter for this instead of the broader 'girls who come from two parent households'? @Wiseborn

Yes and I remember reading in Emerge Magazine (remember when he had non fukkery Independant Black Media) About Middle class married Black couples not having kids and they didn't want to go there but NBA Youngboy and Nick Cannon,,,

53% of Black Men are single and childless again we are the canaries in the coal mine it brings to mind Idiotocracy which seems more like a documentary each day.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Yes and I remember reading in Emerge Magazine (remember when he had non fukkery Independant Black Media) About Middle class married Black couples not having kids and they didn't want to go there but NBA Youngboy and Nick Cannon,,,

53% of Black Men are single and childless again we are the canaries in the coal mine it brings to mind Idiotocracy which seems more like a documentary each day.

You're addressing a different point. The higher ppl go on the socio-economic scale, the less children they have bc their children require exorbitant inputs.

 

[Wiseborn]

Hot damn this bytch is a whole fukking mess.

and their community came together to warn Apu against accepting the easy lay up.

Again women generally have it so easy they demand dating on hard mode. Getting a red dot to marry someone out of caste is wild.

In Africa despite millions of them it almost never happens and in the Carribean it's kinda rare.

 

[Justin Nitsuj]

A lot of black folks that date outside their race just don’t realize that these white mothafukkas don’t really love you. They only with you for their survival and you dummies keep helping them with that, instead of starving them out and letting them go into extinction.

 

[Wiseborn]

You're addressing a different point. The higher ppl go on the socio-economic scale, the less children they have bc their children require exorbitant inputs.

Yes and this whole issue I'm looking at it from a future historical value. I beleive FBA passport bro Aaron Farris while debating an African tether hating on Passport bros pointed out that most FBA's look African I mean nikkas was question shorty's lineage.

I believe in 100 years anyone who looks like her will be poor. As it stands in the NBA there's a rash of mulatto sons of former players in the league

Football is different because of the injury rates But if nikkas who look like Travis Hunter and Tyreek Hill marry women that look like their wives then there will be less African looking FBA people.

Like I said I listen to scientific Black pill shyt and they make wild declarations like Sparta fell because of war widows and Rome fell because of the batchelor tax/

I don't see a staright line but I can see how rich spartan war widows would be pro war just like in Russia poor Russians near the stans and getting paid off of bonuses to sign up.

I signed up after 9/11 and it changed my life.

Slavery existed in every society and if you were poor you might be in debt bondage. There was a reason China implemented the One Child policy.

I don't want to go too wild but no society can be made up of a bunch of poor baby mommas who are gonna compete with their daughters for the worse kind of Men.

So if standard nikkas aint shyt narratives are allowed to fester why wouldn't a Blacj girl throw herself at a white guy? I mean there was that case of the sister who went out a date with that weird cac and her body parts came up in the lake.

If her father was around he might have told her not to go on that date.

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Low-key, one big benefit about being a man is that we don't care for others approval

Especially as black men, we need to be enough for ourselves, the man upstairs and no one else