"Seeing me be loved out loud by a white man as a DSBW resonates with my community; it heals the world."

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Wow! I’m appalled. That’s a level of divestment I’ve never seen. She said she is healing the world because she’s dark-skinned and netted a cac. He even looked uncomfortable.
 

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Damn :francis:

I didnt feel any way about her cause I dont watch the show and only knew about her from social media

But this is some STRAIGHT C00N shyt

Being loved publicly as a dark skin woman is great, but tying it to him being a white man reeks of desperation for white acceptance
Cue the Only Logical Accountable Commentary and Water Sniper videos.
 

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Also just another example of why this "colorism" debate is pointless and should be ignored or taken with a grain of salt by BM.

At the end of the day, its been revealed that some of these women really just want validation from white men over all :francis:

They literally say it out loud, very openly, unprovoked. It's to a point where even other BW have started to recognize it and can't even blame BM anymore
I\m supposed to be limiting my commentary on Gender war stuff and I will and technically this ain't gender war shyt because there's nothing to defend but I just got off the phone with a guy trying to convince me to go to brazil. Dude is Black but he likes Pocahantas like chicks.

I can't even be mad at him because clearly this chick has a preference.

I don't watch the show but the hype with her and the other Black chick probably because shorty ended up with a white guy who will likely switch up on her is wild.
 

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And when he leaves what will the excuse be?

Why do these types of black women make their whole existence that a white men will be seen in public with them?

If I was interviewing, I would have challenged by saying

"do you think he loves you enough to marry you? because I've seen this part before, but you rarely see it actually end in marriage."

some of these bedwenches are so desperate for white acceptance that they think getting a white man to acknowledge them in public is the ultimate prize.
 

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Where is her family from?

But seriously, this is not a good look. They better be scamming together or else this is the L of all Ls
Listen BW were writing tons of articles telling other BW to boycott the show because BW weren't getting picked by anyone. So as we see a spicy cac agreed to pick the Black chick for clout then it came out that he said it was for clout And the Black woman downplayed it/ Hd it . You don't think the producers wouldn't put a thumb on the scale to keep Black women viewers?

shyt is like The Batchelor(ette) where they picked a Black girl and linked her with a spicy cac clout chaser just to say See Black women you can win too...

But really this is a Black women's dicussion not a Black Man's and their silence as usual is defening.
 

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Well, well, well.....
I've learned something in life and this ,applies to minority women in general not just bw, but alot of that self hate/colorism/hair insecurities is just women wanting to be seen by the dominate group as attractive.

You can be performative all you want as a black man on some black queens forever snowbunnies never shyt, but that shyt pales in comparison to a WM complimenting them.

That's why i stopped caring about the colorism and desirability politics(aka femceldom). :yeshrug:
 
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Wow! I’m appalled. That’s a level of divestment I’ve never seen. She said she is healing the world because she’s dark-skinned and netted a cac. He even looked uncomfortable.
shyt if I was just smashing a chick and she said the situationship was "healing the world" I'd be uncomfortable too.

cac probably got beckies aplenty in the DM's and having a cool relationship during the reunion and some random interviews getting to "just friends" status and shorty is eqauting this to Peace in Palestine is more pressure than I would want.
 
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