"Seeing me be loved out loud by a white man as a DSBW resonates with my community; it heals the world."

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Let’s not go that far.


I don’t like how she worded this, but what’s she’s getting at is basically a bunch of white (and other) women have been screaming on social media how he couldn’t really think she was pretty, or how she was his back up choice, or how no one thinks dark skinned black girls are attractive, especially white men, how they must be faking it to get endorsements/money, etc.

So him being with her is saying that Black women can be considered attractive and not the last choice by anyone, including a white guy.

Doesn’t mean his validation is more important than a breh’s— it just means the Black girl on a reality show doesn’t have to automatically be pushed to the background because she’s dark skinned.

Like the middle eastern girl was a psycho (who also had a kid right?) but everyone —white girls, white guys, black guys on the show — tried to give her passes and excuses for being crazy. But no one would ever give a Black babymomma on one of these shows a pass.


Good lord.

I'm gonna do the military shyt sandwhich thing and say something positive then something negative.

I'm sure white audiences said mean things to her and as a Black woman who looks like she 102% African I can see some brehs charging her for a spicy cac.

There's a couple of problems with this. You get brehs that think that Erika Banks is a dyme and they'd be kicked out of the auditions.
Seriously what's wrong with Black women. Travis Hunter has to walk about around with those super strong African features and fukk Travis theres tons of Black Men that look like that witout his talent that got to show up in the world and none of them are blaming white boys for why they can't get a Black woman.

Why do Black Men have so much more confidence than Black women? African features are generally universally disliked, even though theres models walking around with full African features with confidence.

But fukk that shorty walked around with her face and although I didn't watch the show she didn't do the wench orgin story of Nobody thought I was pretty / Every Black Man treated me worse than Mister treated Celie bytch knew she looked good and was taking pictures in bikinis with the other chick a million times

THIS bytch JUST LIKE whiteboys. Nothing wrong with it just admit it.


I just said that no brehette would cop to knowing one homegirl who fukked with whiteboys

We not gonna even try to ask y'all about times they just let a white boy hit Black Boyfriend be damned.

Again no Black Man is gonna deny that there's nikkas moving like the dude on White Chicks we literally clown these nikkas all the time. But all these half white kids out here... I knew this one chick when I was a teen that was seeded by a cac and left with child.

Again outside of america you suggest that you go across the street to buy from a Black person and they're looking at you like WHY?? Then you have to establish a baseline of do they even acknowledge racism and even if they do any kind of cooperative economics much less dating Black is literally foriegn to them.

But they're Honest!!! Black americans talk a lot but you can't get a boycott going because it's too hard. Want to delinate but let some one of another race smile at them and they're gone.

Just a trillion percent cap.


Let's be real the real reason Black women always play down the desparation of acceptance from cacs is The Reachback you try to move like Stacy Dash and get descarded during the nikka wake up call and you can't reachback to a simple simp to save you.


If a nikka bucks if he has bucks he can buy his way back in or He stays over there.

Black women need to have it both ways.
 

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not saying it is, but for a racialized woman to be out here acting liking a servile whore whose whole validation hangs off of the attention that white males give her.

if thats my daughter, my soul is burning
Met a lot of women in the game and you shouldn't feel bad or defenitely not crash if your daughter does ghetto gaggers or something.

Believe me nikkas who dog women the hardest usually get rewarded with daughters. From what women tell me is if they're mad tat you the tendancy is to rebel and do they thing that you most hate.

For example Umar's daughter kinda is a lesbian maybe if she wasn't in the deepest darkest hood she wouldve posted with a white boy, I think one his his female and male relatives did.
 

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Man if you read r/BlackGirls all they say is I grew up around white people am I ugly? Don't see Brehs growing up in similar enviroments questioning themselves in the same way.
:comeon: Don't do that. Ain't yall the ones always screaming that men re different than women? Well this is one of the differences. I have known MANY bm, hit in the face with the ugly stick fah sho, but a long as they throw a ball a few month out the year, they're a fukking rockstar. This is one of the few categories where bw don't have it easier than bm.

Be honest, not a dikkhead. :francis:
 

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Wait Dro got married?! :wtf::wtf::wtf:





And I commented above…
I'm a dude and you're a woman so I never watched the show. All I know is the breh who was one the show and who was in Top Gun married this serbian chick.

from listening to babble blogs the only nikka I know who was on Insecure is whoever played Dro and the lightskinned nikka with the brother who seeded Kiki Palmer.

That's another thing Kiki Palmer is the epidome of a Black American everywoman and despite firtling with usher there's no evidence she ever dealt with a full Black American all we know is that she was trapped in the closet to aviod Trey Songz.
 

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Man if you read r/BlackGirls all they say is I grew up around white people am I ugly? Don't see Brehs growing up in similar enviroments questioning themselves in the same way.
Because we are judged on beauty. “Looks” are a big deal when it comes to women, especially young women. Young white girls are the standard and everyone chases them, including the young black men, in all-white environments.
Happened around us in prep school too 🤷🏾‍♀️

College was a different story.

But this is why I refuse to have kids in an all-white environment. This shyt affects your kids’ self-esteem in more ways than one.
 

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not saying it is, but for a racialized woman to be out here acting liking a servile whore whose whole validation hangs off of the attention that white males give her.

if thats my daughter, my soul is burning
I was just talking to my mother about this. I notice that the biggest modern FBA c00ns are those raised in such terrible circumstances that they just wanna get the fukk away from bp altogether, asap, anyhow, anyway. Thus, it's usually the parents' fault.

Both her parents dropped out of Austin High in the 10th grade, and her father was convicted of robbing a Decatur bank when Carthen was only 2. They got their general equivalence degrees..

Carthen said she visited her father in prison and that he, too, was encouraging. He was released when she was 15...

The circumstances, however, meant Carthen didn’t have a normal childhood and had to grow up sooner than most of her friends. She’s worked a job since 10th grade to help with family and school expenses


When you've never, EVER had the pleasure of a bm's covering and protection, I really can't see it going any other way. She's still a super c00n, but how else was it gonna be? You raise an unmotivated kid in the hood, they'll likely get sucked into the bs. You raise a motivated kid in the same hood with no clear path to success, they'll likely be sucked in by those promising success. (You can get a similarly c00nish result with two parents in the suburbs if you don't expose that kid, early and often, to upper middle class bp.)
 
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