Nah man. I've been hearing this same shyt since I was a kid in the 80's, in my home and from others around me growing up
The main problem with being a black man in America is our culture: the pressure to be more than just an ordinary average dude
to come from impoverished conditions and feel the need to have the latest this, latest that, have one foot in the streets and work toward having the other in the corporate world
the shyt is ridiculous. and then we walk around pretending that WHITE PEOPLE drive us to be a certain way. it's bullshyt.
white people, Asian people, Hispanic people - nobody is thinking about our asses. they don't give a fukk if you dress like urkel or young thug; if you choose the streets or the nerd route
the sooner you dudes start thinking for yourselves and being your own individual people, the sooner you'll stop walking around lost and depressed