Couple things .....first, relationships are overrated as hell...they cool in the beginning but become work over time...most ppl love the butterflies but don't have the foggiest idea how to maintain one or keep reinventing it over time...that's why most ppl cheat, boredom and familiarity... You are craving a relationship simply because you have never experienced one....telling u this as a married man...most marriages fail because people plan for the wedding more than they do the actuality of marriage....most people are weak....way of the world...you are attracting weak women because you are weak yourself.... Like attracts like... You have this fantasy in your head that relationship are all picnics...if they were those women wouldn't be cheating with you...as a man your happiness determines the course of the relationship not hers...u being happy in yourself determines how you treat her... You trippin over these ain't shyt women..they ain't shyt if they cheating with you... You might need to seek help and deal with whatever issues you..... Working on yourself is more than financial and physical things its your mind as well....what's the point of physical accomplishments if you can't mentally enjoy them because you feel like you don't deserve to be happy?
seems most of these women want their cake and to eat it too.
- Thread starter Unknown Poster
- Start date
Real talk that's how bytches move.
So much truth. I recently found this out.
Scott Larock
Its hard leaving thecoli but I gotta find a way...
Real talk, sex has never been enough to hold women anyways and marriage mostly meant as a means to protect and provide for women so yeah most women will be a but uncomfortable with the man they meet, always looking for a upgrade because most of us just aren't thst special to most of them.
Still FloW
Gawd Of Shinobi
#GMB
Bitter nikka thread.
You're not entitled to have any women you want. She don't have to stoop down to your "level" to make you feel good about shortcomings. You not being "boyfriend material" means you lack something she wants, maybe its money
maybe its looks 
whatever the case may be, these are HER standards.
This is why you don't cater to what a woman wants. You lose 9 times out of 10 trying to be something a woman wants and caring about what she wants.
Most men try to fit into a mold that wasn't made for them. If shes feeling you, she will make adjustments and compensate for things you lack. We are all people, we all have needs so why focus on wants?
You're not entitled to have any women you want. She don't have to stoop down to your "level" to make you feel good about shortcomings. You not being "boyfriend material" means you lack something she wants, maybe its money
maybe its looks whatever the case may be, these are HER standards. This is why you don't cater to what a woman wants. You lose 9 times out of 10 trying to be something a woman wants and caring about what she wants.
Most men try to fit into a mold that wasn't made for them. If shes feeling you, she will make adjustments and compensate for things you lack. We are all people, we all have needs so why focus on wants?
Bitter nikka thread.
You're not entitled to have any women you want. She don't have to stoop down to your "level" to make you feel good about shortcomings. You not being "boyfriend material" means you lack something she wants, maybe its money
This is why you don't cater to what a woman wants. You lose 9 times out of 10 trying to be something a woman wants and caring about what she wants.
Most men try to fit into a mold that wasn't made for them. If shes feeling you, she will make adjustments and compensate for things you lack. We are all people, we all have needs so why focus on wants?
Bitter or knowledge? I see logic in this thread, i see knowledge in what you said. Lets stop putting dudes down by calling them bitter because of them experiencing troubles and adversity. Experiencing that with anything including women breeds knowledge and understanding and changes the gullible to the informed.
do you know OPs personal history?
Im going to call this a bitter man thread.
Hmm, now i know. I can fly off the handle and say crazy shyt to my enemies too but never anything that seems like self hate.
Last edited:
philmonroe
Superstar
Do you agree or not? No need for the smilie
.༼-◕_◕-༽.
.༼-◕_◕-༽.
Well don't settle for less than what you really wantMy problem is that i get emotionally attached to chicks easily. I'm not a smash and pass type of nikka generally
no.
girls just wanna have funds
RicanFury
Come Home With Me
honestly...i been experiencing the same shyt as OP. We may be two of the same kind in the same region, yet different. I firmly believe its a NYC thing though. something wrong with the average train of thought you find in the female population of Gotham.