Cliff notes..
I honestly can't read more than a paragraph on the coli
Before I read all that, I just want to say that I am in love with your avi and your custom title. I'm a fan of hers as well. That's all ^_^ -gets back to reading this thread-
Edit: Anyways, back to the topic. it depends on the woman of what they consider "boyfriend material". And yeah, some women are shady. (but so are most humans).
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I think on both sides we all want a bad bytch physically who got her own shyt money career etc but she mite got baggage that she dont want you to findout about the real her that mite turn u off or give u a red flag at da beginning but u go along with because you feel happy and passionate about her until them insecurities start. Same for women dey want a man with status money no kids and every woman want him even her homegirls and sister/cousins do to but wat if dat dude get caught up in sum bs lose his job car house repoed or he get in accident and cant walk again u think she gon stay?? I say this all the time you cant judge nobody until they are dealt with some adversity friendships/relationships get tested daily you really findout about somebody in yo circle when shyt get real in the streets. But i agree with everything wen ppl lose dat passion its time tp get ready for dat backup plan because its gonna happen jus dont be surprised wen it happen thats that intuition that shyt real i felt it twice the shyt played out in my head before it happen shyt blew my mind thats wen i kno the shyt we say do and think about in our heads can always become a realityYeah and The nature of relationships insist that they don't stay passionate forever, granted not without work. It just isn't possible. It's a chemical and psychological reaction. It won't last. Real life takes the passion out too: illness, stress, family troubles, work. Passion is what draws us in. Sometimes I think men have been more disillusioned by Disney than women.
This goes back to the thread i made bout never being in a relationship.
Women don't see me as boyfriend material.
Seems like boyfriend and husband material is all akin to havinv money to provide a lifestyle for a woman. Nothing more nothing less.
If you don't have that? You're in my spot. Just fukk material. A fun time. Basically they like me...but don't respect me as a person or my feelings. Just an escape from their dull lives.
Most of these women get with guys they don't really care for. And look to dudes like me to put some zest back in their lives cause im a good looking dude who has a unique personality and really dont give a fukk. They got with that guy their with now because they were acceptable to bring home to mom and dad and they got money...but overtime they stop being happy with them...cause they found out overtime he's an a$$hole or he's just a pain to be around. But they don't leave cause he got money or whatever.
In my life...out of all the women i have slept with...4 of them had boyfriends. So i notice the trend.
Sex in the city ruined lots of womens minds
Where they trying to have dudes on the side and a main dude giving them the funds to live the life they want. Mr. Big didnt come so they had to go for mr. Medium.
Still happens. I'll be out having fun skateboarding in the park minding my own businss and all of these women with their boyfriends and husbands are checking me out and it's likeobviously you aint with that guy cause you actually like him. You tolerate him until you find something better. The. Cheat behind his back. And stay living a lie.
So...why just be with me then? Teach me how to actually be boyfriend material.
Until then i dont care about relationships or getting married. Im always gonna be dirty secret status to these women
End rant
I was with you until u ou said "teach me how to actually be boyfriend material"This goes back to the thread i made bout never being in a relationship.
Women don't see me as boyfriend material.
Seems like boyfriend and husband material is all akin to havinv money to provide a lifestyle for a woman. Nothing more nothing less.
If you don't have that? You're in my spot. Just fukk material. A fun time. Basically they like me...but don't respect me as a person or my feelings. Just an escape from their dull lives.
Most of these women get with guys they don't really care for. And look to dudes like me to put some zest back in their lives cause im a good looking dude who has a unique personality and really dont give a fukk. They got with that guy their with now because they were acceptable to bring home to mom and dad and they got money...but overtime they stop being happy with them...cause they found out overtime he's an a$$hole or he's just a pain to be around. But they don't leave cause he got money or whatever.
In my life...out of all the women i have slept with...4 of them had boyfriends. So i notice the trend.
Sex in the city ruined lots of womens minds
Where they trying to have dudes on the side and a main dude giving them the funds to live the life they want. Mr. Big didnt come so they had to go for mr. Medium.
Still happens. I'll be out having fun skateboarding in the park minding my own businss and all of these women with their boyfriends and husbands are checking me out and it's likeobviously you aint with that guy cause you actually like him. You tolerate him until you find something better. The. Cheat behind his back. And stay living a lie.
So...why just be with me then? Teach me how to actually be boyfriend material.
Until then i dont care about relationships or getting married. Im always gonna be dirty secret status to these women
End rant
OP @1984 sounds a bit like Joe Budden I'm not gonna lie. Makes a lot of good points but I can't shake that feeling. Who wouldn't want to bang Esther Baxter, Tahiry, Somaya Reece, Kaylin Garcia. Dude makes it sound like he had a horrible life despite that.Op just low-key wanted to brag
You sound like a bytch.