But in reality passion is amazing but only lasts so long.
"Would you love me if I flipped burgers"- I always feel like that's an unfair question, because that's a struggle life. It's hard. You're asking her if she would love you if you struggled to pay bills, had to work three jobs to make ends meet, eat shyt all day, tired, burned out, anxious, depressed about the realities of life, no health insurance, riding a car you have to shell out thousands every year to keep it running, all this and you have stay the same charming person all your life, which no one does. You're asking her to love you if you were poor and anyone who had been poor- that's just rough. It's silly to ask people to choose security in life versus transitory love. I see what you're saying but everytime I think about this question it just bothers me. Men think women are so immoral for wanting stability from their partners. Anyone who thinks that either has never been poor or was sheltered from all that stress from their mommies.