seems most of these women want their cake and to eat it too.

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But there was never a side guy with Big. Big was either the only one Carrie was stuck on, OR he was the side (when she was with Aiden she cheated with Big)
So then what was the point of this thread?
The point of the thread as always the punk need attention that he not getting IRL. Say he all these things but not 1 chick want to be with you in NYC of all places? In the words of my nikka from shottas "Nah mother fukker". nikka going on a stateside tour of getting dissed and complaining on here about it :mjlol:
 

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At this point i dont ever see myself ever being in a serious relationship.

Cause in the eyes of many of yall i wll never be good enough money wise.

Id rather just have fun stacking my own paper for my business and just have my little flings and stuff.

Coincidentally these are the motherfukkers yall be cheating on. The ones that do have that lot. Cause it seems they boring.

If i was balling i'd magneto god level status unstoppable.
But i see why other men get nervous of having their women around me...they arent on my level of looks physical shape swag personality all they got is money.

Real talk most dudes is insecure haters. I see it. So much. This is why im just such a cynical b*stard now. Lol.
What kind of women did you date? Wives of doctors or something?

and another question how long were they married for?

Anyone can find a loyal partner. Maybe you're barking up the wrong tree. I have a feeling you think if you can't have that type of woman than why try? No offense breh but do you really want them or the ego boost that these particular ladies chose you?
 

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What kind of women did you date? Wives of doctors or something?

and another question how long were they married for?

Anyone can find a loyal partner. Maybe you're barking up the wrong tree. I have a feeling you think if you can't have that type of woman than why try? No offense breh but do you really want them or the ego boost that these particular ladies chose you?
Okay.

The last woman I was seeing was actually an actress (theatre here in NYc/Broadway) and singer who lived in Williamsburg.
But most of the other women were career women working in various industries.

I just want a normal relationship with normal women.
 

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I don't believe in having a trophy wife or gf.
If i consider a woman a trophy that's cause she shows me unconditional love and respects me for me. Thats the trophy and that's when i know I won.

Dammit. I have these moods where i want to know what its like to be sprung and have that woman that makes me feel like im on top of the world. Cause im a good dude.

I think of 50s 21 questions when i look at the type of woman i want at the end of the day...especially this line.

"would you love me if i was flipping burgers at burger king?"

If she did...i won. Lol. Thats real. Really real.
Does that type of love even exist anymore?

That's what i want in my life. Love. Romance. Shower a woman with kisses. And roses. And to carry her out while "love lifts us up where we belong" plays in the background. Lol.
 

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Okay.

The last woman I was seeing was actually an actress (theatre here in NYc/Broadway) and singer who lived in Williamsburg.
But most of the other women were career women working in various industries.

I just want a normal relationship with normal women.
I see. I'm just sayin a lot guys who try to date involved women say they really liked them but in reality are in it to win, to say they beat out the type of man every woman is supposed to want. They convince themselves they like these women when they really like the thrill and hunt of getting an involved woman's attention. No judgment but this is what it always seems to be deep down at the core
 

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I see. I'm just sayin a lot guys who try to date involved women say they really liked them but in reality are in it to win, to say they beat out the type of man every woman is supposed to want. They convince themselves they like these women when they really like the thrill and hunt of getting an involved woman's attention. No judgment but this is what it always seems to be deep down at the core
I hear ya.
My thing is i wasnt even trying to take another man's woman. They pretty much did everything they could to hide the fact they were in a relationship from me and it was only until we went our seperate way that i find out. I honestly didnt know and they were being mad aggressive...so me being the guy i am was like..:ehh:hey this is cool! These women are buyng me drinks at the bar...paying for my meals...inviting me over to meet her friends. What's the catch?

I don't deliberately go for women that are taken. Oh no not at all. Infact the moment a woman tells me she has a boyfriend that's pretty much my key to stop right there and just take the l. That and if she has kids.
 

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I don't believe in having a trophy wife or gf.
If i consider a woman a trophy that's cause she shows me unconditional love and respects me for me. Thats the trophy and that's when i know I won.

Dammit. I have these moods where i want to know what its like to be sprung and have that woman that makes me feel like im on top of the world. Cause im a good dude.

I think of 50s 21 questions when i look at the type of woman i want at the end of the day...especially this line.

"would you love me if i was flipping burgers at burger king?"

If she did...i won. Lol. Thats real. Really real.
Does that type of love even exist anymore?

That's what i want in my life. Love. Romance. Shower a woman with kisses. And roses. And to carry her out while "love lifts us up where we belong" plays in the background. Lol.
It exists. Most definitely.
 

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Thats why u always gotta keep errthang playa bout yoself wat she/he dont kno want hurt em. You always gotta be prepared for potential fukkery just incase u slip up. Most of these females are disillusional they really believe life is a fairytale and shyt is gonna last forever. I told my last ex from da jump it was sumbody fukin u before me and its gonna be sumbody fukin you after me. Dats why you gotta just enjoy yo life while you can life is short tomorrow is never promised i den had bytches wen i was broke n i done had bytches when im making money now and sometimes some real shyt has to go down when weeding out ppl who claim they got yo back and down for you when you get into sum crucial situations i think god tests you in every aspect of your life and relationships are the number one things when dealing with ppl and trying to mold a household. Thats why im glad i dont have kids my life would be extra difficult raising a kid with a person i dont really wanna fuk wit like dat. Thats why i do shyt from a distance you really have to play games with these females outchea because you never know their true intentions because they think you gonna judge them just be real from the jump if you wanna fuk just say that and if u need help wit $ den say dat. Just dont get mad and all in yo feelings when i tell u no or i jus call u just to smash n kick it. You either lookin for love or help aint no in between out here
 

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I don't believe in having a trophy wife or gf.
If i consider a woman a trophy that's cause she shows me unconditional love and respects me for me. Thats the trophy and that's when i know I won.

Dammit. I have these moods where i want to know what its like to be sprung and have that woman that makes me feel like im on top of the world. Cause im a good dude.

I think of 50s 21 questions when i look at the type of woman i want at the end of the day...especially this line.

"would you love me if i was flipping burgers at burger king?"

If she did...i won. Lol. Thats real. Really real.
Does that type of love even exist anymore?

That's what i want in my life. Love. Romance. Shower a woman with kisses. And roses. And to carry her out while "love lifts us up where we belong" plays in the background. Lol.
But in reality passion is amazing but only lasts so long.

"Would you love me if I flipped burgers"- I always feel like that's an unfair question, because that's a struggle life. It's hard. You're asking her if she would love you if you struggled to pay bills, had to work three jobs to make ends meet, eat shyt all day, tired, burned out, anxious, depressed about the realities of life, no health insurance, riding a car you have to shell out thousands every year to keep it running, all this and you have stay the same charming person all your life, which no one does. You're asking her to love you if you were poor and anyone who had been poor- that's just rough. It's silly to ask people to choose security in life versus transitory love. I see what you're saying but everytime I think about this question it just bothers me. Men think women are so immoral for wanting stability from their partners. Anyone who thinks that either has never been poor or was sheltered from all that stress from their mommies.
 

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I don't believe in having a trophy wife or gf.
If i consider a woman a trophy that's cause she shows me unconditional love and respects me for me. Thats the trophy and that's when i know I won.

Dammit. I have these moods where i want to know what its like to be sprung and have that woman that makes me feel like im on top of the world. Cause im a good dude.

I think of 50s 21 questions when i look at the type of woman i want at the end of the day...especially this line.

"would you love me if i was flipping burgers at burger king?"

If she did...i won. Lol. Thats real. Really real.
Does that type of love even exist anymore?

That's what i want in my life. Love. Romance. Shower a woman with kisses. And roses. And to carry her out while "love lifts us up where we belong" plays in the background. Lol.

It doesn't exist :francis:

Sorry to bust your bubble, but the quicker you realize it the better.
 

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But in reality passion is amazing but only lasts so long.

"Would you love me if I flipped burgers"- I always feel like that's an unfair question, because that's a struggle life. It's hard. You're asking her if she would love you if you struggled to pay bills, had to work three jobs to make ends meet, eat shyt all day, tired, burned out, anxious, depressed about the realities of life, no health insurance, riding a car you have to shell out thousands every year to keep it running, all this and you have stay the same charming person all your life, which no one does. You're asking her to love you if you were poor and anyone who had been poor- that's just rough. It's silly to ask people to choose security in life versus transitory love. I see what you're saying but everytime I think about this question it just bothers me. Men think women are so immoral for wanting stability from their partners. Anyone who thinks that either has never been poor or was sheltered from all that stress from their mommies.

Women are allowed to seek security / stability

But it's hypocritical of women to only offer conditional love toward men but, expect unconditional love in return :yeshrug: If the woman gains weight or loses her looks, the man is supposed to still love her the same. If the woman has some sort of serious accident or medical issue, the man is supposed to still love her the same. If not, we're the biggest azzholes on Earth. But if the guy loses his money, the woman can suddenly decide she doesn't love him anymore.
 
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