seems most of these women want their cake and to eat it too.

[StickStickly]

If she wants me back and actually is proud enough to say im her man...yes!

It seems except for a couple they dont even want to be seen with me in public.

Until then...i just am looking to stack up a collection of women. Friends with benefits. No strings attached situations. Maybe one night stands and casual sex. I gotta get mine dammit. Until i find...the one. Id rather just put myself out there and be that dude women want to get with. That dude that makes every woman look ten times better.

Im on another frame of mind now b. I'm spreading my wings and flying high! Word to jimmy jones.

Cause back then they didnt want me...now im hot and you know the rest.

You say you're a handsome fun loving guy, why don't they want to be seen with you in public?

 

[King Poetic]

Cliff notes..

I honestly can't read more than a paragraph on the coli

 

[miranda]

stop having sex with women that are already in relationships and then maybe you will stop getting your feelings hurt about being used as only dykk.

and to the other men reading the thread, would it offend you if a women called you for the 1st time over a month after you gave her your number?

 

[bouncy]

This goes back to the thread i made bout never being in a relationship.
Women don't see me as boyfriend material.

Seems like boyfriend and husband material is all akin to havinv money to provide a lifestyle for a woman. Nothing more nothing less.

If you don't have that? You're in my spot. Just fukk material. A fun time. Basically they like me...but don't respect me as a person or my feelings. Just an escape from their dull lives.

Most of these women get with guys they don't really care for. And look to dudes like me to put some zest back in their lives cause im a good looking dude who has a unique personality and really dont give a fukk. They got with that guy their with now because they were acceptable to bring home to mom and dad and they got money...but overtime they stop being happy with them...cause they found out overtime he's an a$$hole or he's just a pain to be around. But they don't leave cause he got money or whatever.

In my life...out of all the women i have slept with...4 of them had boyfriends. So i notice the trend.

Sex in the city ruined lots of womens minds
Where they trying to have dudes on the side and a main dude giving them the funds to live the life they want. Mr. Big didnt come so they had to go for mr. Medium.

Still happens. I'll be out having fun skateboarding in the park minding my own businss and all of these women with their boyfriends and husbands are checking me out and it's like obviously you aint with that guy cause you actually like him. You tolerate him until you find something better. The. Cheat behind his back. And stay living a lie.

So...why just be with me then? Teach me how to actually be boyfriend material.

Until then i dont care about relationships or getting married. Im always gonna be dirty secret status to these women

End rant

I see what you're saying, but to say you will always be their secret thing, is hoping for low in life. You should see yourself as the one they want to show off to the world. I think I know who this is, and if I'm right, you are waking up to how the world works, and its irritating you. I went through this at a young age, so I'm here to let you know you are right in how a lot of women are, but you're wrong about excepting it because that's just how it is.

What I found was it was me, and my choices, that caused me to attract those type of women. Yeah, they would have liked me from the jump, but it was my choice to keep going along with it. I could have avoided her, and kept looking for other types of women. Even though most women are selfish, there are different levels of selfishness amongst them. My goal is to find the one who is selfish enough to take care of herself, and the family, but not so much that she can't love anyone else because its all about her! I feel like I'm getting closer to finding her, because the more I study the women in my life, the more I see what I don't want. But, because I'm a man, I still love those ego driven women for sex. They tend to wear the tight clothes, the high amounts of make up, and the diva attitude, so they get those horny emotions going. I'm still working on controlling this attraction to them, but its life, and I'm a work in progress.

Anyway, don't set the bar so low for yourself. Use the negatives to help!you get what you want through learning from them.

As far as fukking other nikkas bytches, you better stop that! That's a losing game, and will get you fukked up. I know if a guy is fukking my woman, and knows about me, the other side is coming out for him, and her.

 

[Unknown Poster]

You say you're a handsome fun loving guy, why don't they want to be seen with you in public?

How do i put this nicely?

These first experiences were with white women in Pittsburgh and it's not really keen on interracial dating like NYC is.

I personally just was nervous about putting that out there cause i know how this board feels about stuff like that. I don't want to be judged for who i date or have relationships wit.

 

[philmonroe]

Shut the fukk up you goddamn degenerate. fukking imbecile. You embarass me.

Shut the fukk up you goddamn degenerate. fukking imbecile. You embarass me

Okay im done with this thread. Lol. Nice neg @philmonroe atleast i have two parents unlike you whose father fukking left cause he produced your fukking disapponting ass. You should of been aborted. Be happy i aint in philly id be itching to fukking whoop your ass and put you in a fukking coma. Turn you into terri schiavo and you wouldnt get resuscitated.

I said you have two parents in the neg dikkhead. My father left but I just talked to him today? Um ok if you say so. I'm the disappointment but I call you the bytch you are and you ready to kill yourself? Sounds good and your non p*ssy, skateboarding ass going to do what? Stop it slime and even if you was in Philly the only thing you'd be itching to do is take a shower or beat your dikk into a coma since no girls will do it with your ugly ass. Worry about getting someone to love you and being accepted by society ugly and stop talking non sense online.

Oh yeah p*ssy you negged me first I wouldn't even waste my time but you started so I finished so stop making seem like I did that shyt first p*ssy.

 

[bouncy]

stop having sex with women that are already in relationships and then maybe you will stop getting your feelings hurt about being used as only dykk.

and to the other men reading the thread, would it offend you if a women called you for the 1st time over a month after you gave her your number?

Nah, I would just think she is either about to leave her man, or she was bored so she wanted some new guy to make her feel good again.

 

[philmonroe]

stop having sex with women that are already in relationships and then maybe you will stop getting your feelings hurt about being used as only dykk.

and to the other men reading the thread, would it offend you if a women called you for the 1st time over a month after you gave her your number?

If she fukking no if not whats the point? I think I speak for most saying that too lol.

 

[StickStickly]

How do i put this nicely?

These first experiences were with white women in Pittsburgh and it's not really keen on interracial dating like NYC is.

I personally just was nervous about putting that out there cause i know how this board feels about stuff like that. I don't want to be judged for who i date or have relationships wit.

oh. k, that explains a lot actually. white women want wealthy white men, no matter how boring. (i don't care who you date btw)

i think it all comes down to monogamy, because honestly men want the same thing. maybe people just aren't meant for that life.

 

[Yup]

How do i put this nicely?

These first experiences were with white women in Pittsburgh and it's not really keen on interracial dating like NYC is.

I personally just was nervous about putting that out there cause i know how this board feels about stuff like that. I don't want to be judged for who i date or have relationships wit.

NVM i just realized who i am talking to @L*E*G*A*C*Y

 

[Neil Tyson]

You say you're a handsome fun loving guy, why don't they want to be seen with you in public?

 

[A1aaa]

Suck on a .357 you fukking fakkit. I hope a cop kills you and sprinkles crack all over you body and your family never gets justice. And after the fact ill find your tombstone and piss all over it you pitiful embarassing braindead excuse for a black man. You aint even an afterthought in my world.

 

[StickStickly]

stop having sex with women that are already in relationships and then maybe you will stop getting your feelings hurt about being used as only dykk.

and to the other men reading the thread, would it offend you if a women called you for the 1st time over a month after you gave her your number?

also, this OP.

they probably did like him, but emotions aren't the only things people can use to make decisions.

Logic is to date a person who fits your lifestyle and social world, who is financially supportive. Maybe these women are more logical than emotional .

 

[Neil Tyson]

How do i put this nicely?

These first experiences were with white women in Pittsburgh and it's not really keen on interracial dating like NYC is.

I personally just was nervous about putting that out there cause i know how this board feels about stuff like that. I don't want to be judged for who i date or have relationships wit.

All of them? All of them didn't want to be seen with you?

 

[Unknown Poster]

I see what you're saying, but to say you will always be their secret thing, is hoping for low in life. You should see yourself as the one they want to show off to the world. I think I know who this is, and if I'm right, you are waking up to how the world works, and its irritating you. I went through this at a young age, so I'm here to let you know you are right in how a lot of women are, but you're wrong about excepting it because that's just how it is.

What I found was it was me, and my choices, that caused me to attract those type of women. Yeah, they would have liked me from the jump, but it was my choice to keep going along with it. I could have avoided her, and kept looking for other types of women. Even though most women are selfish, there are different levels of selfishness amongst them. My goal is to find the one who is selfish enough to take care of herself, and the family, but not so much that she can't love anyone else because its all about her! I feel like I'm getting closer to finding her, because the more I study the women in my life, the more I see what I don't want. But, because I'm a man, I still love those ego driven women for sex. They tend to wear the right clothes, the high amounts of make up, and the diva attitude, so they get those horny emotions going. I'm still working on controlling this attraction to them, but its life, and I'm a work in progress.

Anyway, don't set the bar so low for yourself. Use the negatives to help!you get what you want through learning from them.

As far as fukking other nikkas bytches, you better stop that! That's a losing game, and will get you fukked up. I know if a guy is fukking my woman, and knows about me, the other side is coming out for him, and her.

Yeq breh. I aint trying to have dudes come at me with the cal.

Ill admit...there was a rush and thrill to it that couldnt be matched but eventually i knew the drama that came with it.

For the past couple of years i just kept to myself. Just said fukk relationships fukk people. Got into a viscious cycle of not caring about life and feeling jaded and paranoid about life and people. And started abusing drugs heavy cause i didnt care man. Cause i saw no value in myself and it coupled with my depression nearly killed me.

I'm personally still getting over my distrust in people and society and learning how to love life again. That includes reconnecting with people.

I honestly am surprised i am alive right now. Im happy my anger and frustation at the world and dealing with shytty people didnt force me to kill myself or seriously hurt other people. Cause i really was at that point but i didnt want to do that. My family wouldnt get over it.

I'm much better now. I stopped caring about pleasing others or what they think. Ive always been in my own world where im the only person who gets me.

Its not worth getting depressed or fukked up emotionally about women or whatever. Im still gonna be me. fukk it.