serious question for you coli brehs.

[kittykat89]

Like to to back in time? Because that ship sailed a long time ago lol but no that's half the fun of growing up

 

[bcrusaderw]

I apologize to @trilldealbaby , I didn't know she was abstinent for religious reasons. Hope you find someone, brehette.

@bcrusaderw you still a scrub.

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

no. I am a physical person so that wouldn't workout. Its cool if thats what she wants though

All that she wants...



.

 

[Music Fiend]

I just got out of a situation like this.

No I can't and Ima tell you why. One, I'm not tryna be beating my meat everynight, filling the void of a relationship with porn doesnt help.

Two, the women I know that dont have sex find other ways of achieving intimacy like blowjobs and what not, its all sex in the end. Just because I'm not in the kitty cat doesnt mean we're not having sex.

Three, it complicates normal healthy relationships. You can't be coming over and staying the night, my dikk hard as a rock and you talking about you wanna cuddle. So if it was to work ull prolly have to find a man that also desires to wait or completely remove the variable of being in places where things can go down.

 

[Rayzah]

Aight do you. Personally think a body count of two is very minute. You can do a poll on it to see if it's popular opinion or not. It's funny this thread was supposed to be non judgemental and all the virgins came out slut shaming like it's not possible the relationships that led to sex were valid. Or someone who's grown and mature meeting two people before they met you somehow disqualifies them because someone else met him before he met you.

Anyway theres no point to arguing with virgins about sex because they have no experience in it. I'm comfortable with my sexuality. I'm happy where i am with it, How ive felt during those fulfilling experiences. I am not ashamed of my body count. I'm not any less clean as some of you suggest we are. I am not any less whole as some of you think happens and thst we are giving away parts of ourselves. My relationship with the love of my life won't be any less compromised.

EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have been called all types of names by these crazy weirdo's in here, but that's what weirdos do, they judge people who don't agree with their way of thinking, and have no desire to understand why you disagree with them.. I think I might have finally found a reason to use the ignore button..

Nah

A relationship needs to be more than sex so prioritizing sex like that to hold it off until marrage makes it feel like the relationship is all about that point.

Sex with my lover should be like hugging and kissing and cuddling and not the defining point of our relationship.

We gotta stop putting sex on a pedestal and prioritize connecting with our lover.

that too..

How is it the coli is full of Virgin women? Is that why yall here? This is like when i said if i couldn't eat roasted meat id still go to places where I could still enjoy the smell.

To answer your question yeah its cool if a women is a Virgin. But my problem with that is there's within there a possibility of an unadressed repression there or a dislike for sexual contact. You might get into the relationship and realize that attraction isn't there.


But all in all it's a personal choice. If you're the type to make me wait an unreasonably long time or have weird caveats. I end up just friend zoning you and saying who said this has to happen? It feels unnecessary to me. I respect you doing that but in don't have to go along with it cause there's other people out there with a mutual attraction. I dont judge women on sexual history unless she was really all over the place

But this is my point, reason number 23414325532698 why this isn't a option to me, like I don't even want to date a woman that's a virgin past like 22, that is a red flag.. for everyone in here going around waving there virgin flag, just know most guys don't even want to deal with you, you are limiting yourself to younger guys, that I am sure are going to be immature

 

[Professor Emeritus]

I did it of my own volition (after I started following God when I was 19) and it worked out well for me. Married at 28, and there seriously wasn't anything impossible about holding off on that for those 9 years.

And no, we didn't do blow jobs and that sorta shyt. I agree - that really ain't no different.

 

[Rue]

A friend of mine and her husband were both virgins when they got married, and she said is definitely worth the wait, it did hurt alot but just sharing that first time with the person you love must be

lies about the wedding night sex.... the stroke game will be whack from not getting that regular nut off and it'll probably hurt the female if she doesn't masturbate on a regular basis as well.

 

[Blackrogue]

Awww @Rue you want your first time to be special?

 

[Rue]

Awww @Rue you want your first time to be special?

YES, everything is corrupted in the world, i want atleast that to be pure

 

[Blackrogue]

YES, everything is corrupted in the world, i want atleast that to be pure

Lol its all good. I think there's certain things I wouldn't want to participate in or taint myself with. Then there's other things I never used to do and attached a morality to that as I grew older and into the world I realised when I was younger, how i felt was true at the time and it was important for my parents to make it seem that way and cultivate it that way. But there's certain things as I get older I realize really are not bad things as long as they're under control. Sex for instance I was tentative at first. Now it's a natural part of who I am. It's like an expression.

The Prince and the Magician

Once upon a time there was a young prince, who believed in all things but three. He did not believe in princesses, he did not believe in islands, and he did not believe in God. His father, the king, told him that such things did not exist. As there were no princesses or islands in his father's domains, and no sign of God, the young man believed his father.

But then, one day, the prince ran away from his palace. He came to the next land. There, to his astonishment, from every coast he saw islands, and on these islands, strange and troubling creatures whom he dared not name. As he was searching for a boat, a man in full evening dress approached him along the shore.

"Are those real islands?" asked the young prince.
"Of course they are real islands," said the man in evening dress.
"And those strange and troubling creatures?"
"They are all genuine and authentic princesses."
"Then God also must exist!" cried the prince.
"I am God," replied the man in full evening dress, with a bow.
The young prince returned home as quickly as he could.
"So you are back," said his father, the king.
"I have seen islands, I have seen princesses, I have seen God," said the prince reproachfully.
The king was unmoved.
"Neither real islands, nor real princesses, nor a real God, exist."
"I saw them!"
"Tell me how God was dressed."
"God was in full evening dress."
"Were the sleeves of his coat rolled back?"
The prince remembered that they had been. The king smiled. "That is the uniform of a magician. You have been deceived."
At this, the prince returned to the next land, and went to the same shore, where once again he came upon the man in full evening dress.
"My father the king has told me who you are," said the young prince indignantly. "You deceived me last time, but not again. Now I know that those are not real islands and real princesses, because you are a magician."
The man on the shore smiled. "It is you who are deceived, my boy. In your father's kingdom there are many islands and many princesses. But you are under your father's spell, so you cannot see them."
The prince returned pensively home. When he saw his father, he looked him in the eyes.
"Father, is it true that you are not a real king, but only a magician?"
The king smiled, and rolled back his sleeves.
"Yes, my son, I am only a magician."
"Then the man on the shore was God."
"The man on the shore was another magician."
"I must know the real truth, the truth beyond magic."
"There is no truth beyond magic," said the king.
The prince was full of sadness.
He said, "I will kill myself."
The king by magic caused death to appear. Death stood in the door and beckoned to the prince. The prince shuddered. He remembered the beautiful but unreal islands and the unreal but beautiful princesses.
"Very well," he said. "I can bear it."
"You see, my son," said the king, "you too now begin to be a magician.

 

[Rue]

Interesting story

Lol its all good. I think there's certain things I wouldn't want to participate in or taint myself with. Then there's other things I never used to do and attached a morality to that as I grew older and into the world I realised when I was younger, how i felt was true at the time and it was important for my parents to make it seem that way and cultivate it that way. But there's certain things as I get older I realize really are not bad things as long as they're under control. Sex for instance I was tentative at first. Now it's a natural part of who I am. It's like an expression.

The Prince and the Magician

Once upon a time there was a young prince, who believed in all things but three. He did not believe in princesses, he did not believe in islands, and he did not believe in God. His father, the king, told him that such things did not exist. As there were no princesses or islands in his father's domains, and no sign of God, the young man believed his father.

But then, one day, the prince ran away from his palace. He came to the next land. There, to his astonishment, from every coast he saw islands, and on these islands, strange and troubling creatures whom he dared not name. As he was searching for a boat, a man in full evening dress approached him along the shore.

"Are those real islands?" asked the young prince.
"Of course they are real islands," said the man in evening dress.
"And those strange and troubling creatures?"
"They are all genuine and authentic princesses."
"Then God also must exist!" cried the prince.
"I am God," replied the man in full evening dress, with a bow.
The young prince returned home as quickly as he could.
"So you are back," said his father, the king.
"I have seen islands, I have seen princesses, I have seen God," said the prince reproachfully.
The king was unmoved.
"Neither real islands, nor real princesses, nor a real God, exist."
"I saw them!"
"Tell me how God was dressed."
"God was in full evening dress."
"Were the sleeves of his coat rolled back?"
The prince remembered that they had been. The king smiled. "That is the uniform of a magician. You have been deceived."
At this, the prince returned to the next land, and went to the same shore, where once again he came upon the man in full evening dress.
"My father the king has told me who you are," said the young prince indignantly. "You deceived me last time, but not again. Now I know that those are not real islands and real princesses, because you are a magician."
The man on the shore smiled. "It is you who are deceived, my boy. In your father's kingdom there are many islands and many princesses. But you are under your father's spell, so you cannot see them."
The prince returned pensively home. When he saw his father, he looked him in the eyes.
"Father, is it true that you are not a real king, but only a magician?"
The king smiled, and rolled back his sleeves.
"Yes, my son, I am only a magician."
"Then the man on the shore was God."
"The man on the shore was another magician."
"I must know the real truth, the truth beyond magic."
"There is no truth beyond magic," said the king.
The prince was full of sadness.
He said, "I will kill myself."
The king by magic caused death to appear. Death stood in the door and beckoned to the prince. The prince shuddered. He remembered the beautiful but unreal islands and the unreal but beautiful princesses.
"Very well," he said. "I can bear it."
"You see, my son," said the king, "you too now begin to be a magician.

 

[Blackrogue]

@Rue yeah it is. I guess you find your own metaphor in it. Wish I could remember all the fragments like this I've come across

 

[Rue]

@Rue yeah it is. I guess you find your own metaphor in it. Wish I could remember all the fragments like this I've come across

Even if its the only constant, I hate change, i wouldnt want to change the state of my body not even if it will be pleasurable to me

 

[Dwolf]

Low key fukkery popped off in this shyt

 

[Strawberry]

I dont think you read and comprehended my post.

I said that waiting for marriage before having sex is putting sex on a pedestal.

Who cares what the fukk you said really...you on the coli fishing for any p*ssy you can get

EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have been called all types of names by these crazy weirdo's in here, but that's what weirdos do, they judge people who don't agree with their way of thinking, and have no desire to understand why you disagree with them.. I think I might have finally found a reason to use the ignore button..

@7Revo is a loser anyways. I have yet to see him make a post that had me like or ...this mothafukka is like all day