Settling for someone you are not attracted to

Could you settle for someone you are not attracted to?

  • Yes I could settle for someone I'm not physically attracted to so long as we have a connection

    Votes: 7 10.4%
  • Yes I could settle for someone I'm not emotionally attracted to so long as I'm attracted physically

    Votes: 6 9.0%
  • No I could not settle at all for someone I'm not attracted to physically or emotionally

    Votes: 54 80.6%

  • Total voters
    67

Frump

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Nope I couldn’t spend a few days with someone I wasn’t into physically or mentally

With that said nobodies perfect and make sure the reasons you reject someone are for the reasons I mentioned and not for dumb stuff like what others may think or arbitrary numbers the person doesn’t fit the standard of
 

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I refuse to do it because it's for the desperate. Only people that are desperate for companionship or in a woman case want to use a man for his resources would settle.

I have to be all in to bother with a relationship. Me being in a relationship with a average or below chick would be a failure because I would go through the motions, not give a fukk and have no passion for it.
 

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I'm only asking because I had recently considered settling. Everyone told me I should settle for this guy because we look good on paper together but I was not attracted at all even though I tried my best to overcome my lack of interest in him... everyone kept telling me this is my best option...I did not go through with it.
No. There is like 2 billion men, and at least 3 you will encounter that is compatible and what you want in a man. Just continue to work on yourself and ride it out. Settling NEVER works
 

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I'm only asking because I had recently considered settling. Everyone told me I should settle for this guy because we look good on paper together but I was not attracted at all even though I tried my best to overcome my lack of interest in him... everyone kept telling me this is my best option...I did not go through with it.
You gotta do what you feel. They dont have to be with this person. You have to constantly interact with them and if you arent feeling them it wont last
 

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Nope, I just know me -
The first time he made me angry, acted up, or got on my nerves, I'd be hell on wheels. Hellacious.
So, I don't even deal with that in any aspect, he's not even going into the friend zone.
 

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Would you settle to spend the rest of your life with someone you are either not physically or emotionally attracted to or both?

I am curious about guys perspectives on this and if guys ever do settle like that because I feel like I've seen more women lower their standards and settle for someone they aren't happy with more than men do.

Not a chance in hell.

There's enough BS you gotta deal with, being with someone you are attracted to on all levels and click with emotionally. My parents have been married 46 years and they give each other headaches all the time. Imagine you gotta deal with all that and the braud is ugly? I'll pass.
 

KENNY DA COOKER

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Women do it all the time

That's why they CHEAT on their husbands

Men do too...

Most people MARRY for security

But FUKK other people for pleasure

One of my exes has been married for 15 years now and hit me up yesterday telling me she will be back in town over the holidays and will I be available
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