Sexual confidence is completely gone…

[TallMan_J]

This nikka is tripping. @Black Haven the fukk are you so anxious/nervous for. You got a lil pee pee or what?


Just smash and see if that sexual chemistry matches everything else. It likely will. If it doesn’t, then it isn’t the end of the world. Either she’ll teach you some things, you’ll teach her some things, or you’ll learn together. If you aren’t feeling each other sexually like that, then just move on.


If OP’s “problems” consist of shyt like this, then half of TheColi wished that they had the same problem.

 

[duckbutta]

man u better go get that p*ssy and stop being one.

In this dude bro alpha male youtube world you put this on a shirt tonight you might be a millionaire by sunday...

matter fact why am i telling you this let me hit up my breh who owns a printing shop so i can get this money before you do

thanks breh

 

[EndDomination]

If you scared you don't know how to fukk - eat her out for a few and go workout in that p*ssy nikka
Ask her what she wants and do it

 

[desjardins]

i'm confused. are you scared of getting a bad dikk report since apparently she runs to yall inner circle telling ppl everything?
generally i think it's a bad idea to fukk chicks in your inner circle in case things go left. so i get you there
like someone said ....you don't HAVE to fukk her

 

[desjardins]

Based off this, you either got a insanely small dikk and got clowned in the past, can't get hard and got clowned in the past or bust in 3 sec and got clowned in the past. So which one is it OP?

yea this the only thing that makes sense
i'm reading dude post confused as hell what the issue is.

 

[GreenGhxst]

You gotta take the chance of falling flat on your fukking face or else it will just get worse with the next woman

Also get some cialis or viagra it thats the problem

If you got a baby dikk idk what to say breh, maybe y'all can scissor

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

You gotta take the chance of falling flat on your fukking face or else it will just get worse with the next woman

Also get some cialis or viagra it thats the problem

If you got a baby dikk idk what to say breh, maybe y'all can scissor

 

[ScoopNScore]

You sound like a sub. Have her sit on your face and smother you for being a weak man

Sounds more like a cuckold she bout to let a real nikka hit n tell OP about it

 

[Coli Bot]

Coli go to advice no matter the circumstances . "Hit the gym"

I'm facing 10yrs for fraud.. coli "hit the gym"

Well yeah... Hell need to be in shape for the prison fights lol

 

[Coli Bot]

My leg broke no insurance

" Hit the gym"

He can strengthen the other leg so it won't happen again

 

[Rollie Forbes]

Man it’s combination of many things honestly that plays apart in it society in general is probably the biggest reason its destroyed, right now I’m trying to make sure it doesn’t interfere with my other life goals.

 

[GreenGhxst]

I'm balding

"Hit the gym"

Need to get brolic for the bytches cause your hairline is in Bermuda

Imma be homeless

"Hit the gym"

Dont wanna get robbed by a homeless mob

I have covid

"Hit the gym"

Strengthen your immune system

You got it in the first place because your body was frail

 

[god shamgod]

this thread got me rollin , dude vague af

Allegedly has a chick feelin him wants him to come over & he talking bout “why me lord?” any regular dude would be all over this opportunity

 

[BaldingSoHard]

and I somehow backed myself into a corner I can’t get out of that could possibly make it worse. Like I haven’t even looked at porn at all ever since my confidence left, that’s how bad it is.So deadass y’all can clown me whatever idc I just need you guys advice, women can chip in as well on getting me out of this situation I fukked up and put myself in frfr. There’s this woman who is a close associate to someone else in my immediate circle, she is attractive, curvy,outgoing and people seem to gravitate to her(most likely because of her looks). When I first seen her I immediately thought she would be one of those social media type chicks but, come to find out she’s very low key and to top it off when we met each other we find out we have so much in common that we exchange fukkin numbers.(I hate fate for this) I don’t know why the fukk I did that thinking we would just be friends when I knew that we had strong chemistry with each other. So after going out to different places together I notice I make her really happy whenever she sees me, she even admitted to bragging about how much I make her happy to other people so I know she doesn’t just see this as a regular friendship smgdh!

Fast forward to today and now she’s wondering why I never bothered to go in her apartment with her or why I never invited her to my crib, so she takes matters into her own hands and wants to invite me over to hang out with her.(why me lord?) I can’t tell her no because that would be suspicious asf for a high esteem heterosexual man to turn down an attractive woman with a banging body and I know she could possibly go back and tell everyone in our immediate circle about it which would bring more attention to me. I hesitated and told her let me think about it and that’s when she tells me to not worry too much nothing serious was going to happen and that we are just going to enjoy classic soul/r&b music, get high , and talk about anime & shyt. So my anxiety slowly went away and I told her yeah I’m down….. big ass mistake because right after she sends me a text saying….

“you know you set yourself up right?*insert demon emoji*”

I lol and tell her to stop playing and she responds that the true playing ain’t happen yet and now my anxiety is at high right now. I regret I ever got too close too her and I know she’s going to possibly hate the fukk out of me because she’ll think I wasted her time. I really wish I could just runaway to a farm and live the remainder of my life alone in peace. Life is a straight bytch for this mayne

There's this huge focus on hookup culture nowadays and I think it's done more harm than good. Men are expected to throw dikk at anything with a vagina and a pulse, and therefore any man who doesn't try to stick his dikk in absolutely every woman in his circle is deemed weak and defective. The comments in this thread from the other brehs kinda highlight this... "Man up nikka!" "What are you gay?!?!"

It's completely okay for you to not follow the crowd on this. If you're not ready for sex, then you're not ready for sex.

Just tell her straight up, "I'm not ready for sex yet so I'm courting you, not fukking you."

Your confidence will return once you two are comfortable with each other, but it probably won't happen quickly so be sure to communicate that.

Seriously, it sounds like you really like this girl, so just communicate.

If she's not down for your timeline then the two of you are simply incompatible.

The other possibility is that she's throwing it at you like this because of the expectations of hookup culture. It's possible she thinks this is what men (aka you) want from her and she's just doing what she has to do to get a man. Give her the option of slowing it down a bit; get to know each other better. I bet she'll appreciate that.

 

[MrRDU]

Pop 2 cialis about one hour before going over and enjoy yourself