Sexual confidence is completely gone…

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

OP don’t let nobody shame you for being human. Plenty of people get nervous or anxious prior to sex. Therapy can help you deal with anxiety.

The thing about anxiety is that it doesn’t even have to be over major shyt. But if you don’t get it under control it can affect every single decision you make. Self doubt is insidious. Just confront the source of your anxieties.

Is it ED? If so, what factors are causing it?
Is it your body? If so, keep in mind outside of a corset, clothes don’t really hide much so if she liked you enough inside of them, unless you got a talking head or something under your clothes, she’s still like you out of them too.
Is it dikk size? Then stop feeling inadequate. We do a shytty job making dudes think they gotta be 10 inches. Use your fingers, tongue, and just ensure you both enjoy it.

Also don’t do shyt you not comfortable doing. Sometimes the more restraint a man shows, the more the female desires him. I know smashing is the ultimate goal for some but take your time.
Otherwise, try not to live too much in your head!

Happy Humping!

 

[Rollie Forbes]

smh @ me knowing this situation...he's lucky i was horny, i stuck that shyt in like fukk it

Okay, Miss Dora!

 

[Rollie Forbes]

If you don't take your scary ass over there and premature ejaculate in her guts

 

[PortCityProphet]

Ok I lied. Im posting here until Michigan win a football ship

 

[You Win Perfect]

Just be honest with her.

If she fukks with you like you said, she’ll gladly let you practice getting your confidence back on her.

Chicks deal with nikkas in your situation all the time.

It’s not as big of a deal to them as you would think.

Teenage chicks in high school dealing with teenage boys but grown ass women don’t wanna be trynna convince a grown ass man to not be afraid of p*ssy

a lot of beta male estrogen levels in this thread

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Anxiety is a mood killer. I used to struggle with social anxiety as a teenager.

What helped me was communicating. Just keep it 100 with the chick. She'll respect you for it.

No need to rush. Take your time. When you relaxed, that's when the anxiety lowers down.

Take some deep breaths. Stay hydrated. Take some magnesium. Do some body workouts.

If you need a break from women, don't hesitate. So when you ready to smash, your energy will be on point.

Hope for the best

 

[Taadow]

Come up off dem flaws op

neg pending

LMAO exactly what I was thinking reading this thread.

 

[A.V.]

One time i was out of mind on mushrooms and this petite young lady stripped down for me
So when the panties came off,, it was p*ssy ( no weirdo stuff)
But i was having some intrusive hallucinations and her pubic hair was moving,,,
Her body was rippling (like her stomach and breasts) and i could hear her skin
So she starts sucking my dikk
And then I had thoughts about how her saliva and p*ssy juices were toxic
and would start an irreversible process where i would melt away

Anyway thst kind of fukked me up for a few days but i didn't melt away
So i got over it

Anyway that's all i got on this topic

But if i recovered from an irrational fear that female orifices would make my dikk melt
You can perhaps follow a structured cognitive based process to work through your issues

shrooms was trying to tell you you're a fukkin fakkit

 

[spliz]

The insensitivity to mental health on this forum is wild lol. I don't think it's a stealth brag thread and this shyt is more common than you'd think. It's a lot of good looking mfs out there who actively avoid the women who pursue them because they have sexual performance anxiety. The way I understand it, this is tied to your brain and not your biology. So simply popping a viagra won't fix it.

OP, truth be told you probably gotta see a shrink. Or you could just be real with the girl about your situation. If she really fw you, she'll understand and will try to help you regain that level of comfort being intimate with another woman.

This is basically what I said. This dude need to get off the Coli and go see someone about his mental health. Him being vague as hell on here ain’t gonna give him answers. Either that or be honest with the chick.

 

[Trust Me]

Ok I lied. Im posting here until Michigan win a football ship

Looks like you got 7 months left..

 

[PortCityProphet]

Looks like you got 7 months left..

They bringing NCAA football videogame back?

 

[The ADD]

This is basically what I said. This dude need to get off the Coli and go see someone about his mental health. Him being vague as hell on here ain’t gonna give him answers. Either that or be honest with the chick.

^^^

 

[A.V.]

cliffs version?

OP scared of p*ssy

Coli go to advice no matter the circumstances . "Hit the gym"

I'm facing 10yrs for fraud.. coli "hit the gym"

Still solid proof for the GOAT advice


Might as well hit the gym, so that by the time you hit that prison yard you good to go

 

[Trust Me]

They bringing NCAA football videogame back?

Revenge tour

 

[93 til]

OP don’t let nobody shame you for being human. Plenty of people get nervous or anxious prior to sex. Therapy can help you deal with anxiety.

The thing about anxiety is that it doesn’t even have to be over major shyt. But if you don’t get it under control it can affect every single decision you make. Self doubt is insidious. Just confront the source of your anxieties.

Is it ED? If so, what factors are causing it?
Is it your body? If so, keep in mind outside of a corset, clothes don’t really hide much so if she liked you enough inside of them, unless you got a talking head or something under your clothes, she’s still like you out of them too.
Is it dikk size? Then stop feeling inadequate. We do a shytty job making dudes think they gotta be 10 inches. Use your fingers, tongue, and just ensure you both enjoy it.

Also don’t do shyt you not comfortable doing. Sometimes the more restraint a man shows, the more the female desires him. I know smashing is the ultimate goal for some but take your time.
Otherwise, try not to live too much in your head!

Happy Humping!