Shaq keeps it 100% (Confiding in women)

[Space Cowboy]

So basically a man who comes home and tells his woman about the boss he hates, is soft?

A strong man comes home and keeps it to himself and just plays mortal kombat? Because bytches prefer dudes that play mortal kombat?


And you're serious

It's about how men and women are made.

When a woman gets home she has to socialize and be on her phone all day. She has to talk and communicate and yap about what she experienced that day. Men, including every roommate I've had on to my grandfather and father came home, turned on the TV to reset from the hard day. It could be playing SF to reading the paper. Basically, a man comes home and unwinds. If he has a bad day he certainly doesn't unload it on his wife. Never saw my dad or grandpa ever bytch to my mother or grandmother about their bad day. If they did, they made a slight remark about how they will fix it. Grandpa came home, ate dinner, watched TV, and then settled on fixing stuff around the house that needed doing. Not once heard him yap about his "feelings". That is what a man is and that's what women expect. He shoulders the burden, he stays strong so she can be weak. A man like you with a woman's ass hanging all on his avatar wouldn't get it.

In life there's a man's role and there's a woman's role. People say it's sociological. I argue from a biological standpoint.

 

[Marco Zen]

It's about how men and women are made.

When a woman gets home she has to socialize and be on her phone all day. She has to talk and communicate and yap about what she experienced that day. Men, including every roommate I've had on to my grandfather and father came home, turned on the TV to reset from the hard day. It could be playing SF to reading the paper. Basically, a man comes home and unwinds. If he has a bad day he certainly doesn't unload it on his wife. Never saw my dad or grandpa ever bytch to my mother or grandmother about their bad day. If they did, they made a slight remark about how they will fix it. Grandpa came home, ate dinner, watched TV, and then settled on fixing stuff around the house that needed doing. Not once heard him yap about his "feelings". That is what a man is and that's what women expect. He shoulders the burden, he stays strong so she can be weak. A man like you with a woman's ass hanging all on his avatar wouldn't get it.

In life there's a man's role and there's a woman's role. People say it's sociological. I argue from a biological standpoint.

You're right, obviously I don't get it, because with all due respect, this idea that "real men" don't express their feelings to their woman, and that's the kind a man "women expect" is absolutely fukking ridiculous to me. This "real men" don't tell a woman about their bad day at work is nonsense. It doesn't make you soft or weak and it's definitely not feminine energy.

Yea i never saw my dad or grandpappy or great grandpappy talk about their bad day either but I have heard my dad talk about actions he regrets in his life.. I'm a man with regrets of my own so I can relate..

This "don't tell a woman you're hurt or she'll think you're weak" shyt smells more like fear than strength.


But you win

 

[Estarossa]

Depends on the woman and depends on what you divulge. Had this happen to me on a few occasions with an ex when I was dealing with a slew of health issues… so I did that same shít to her ass. Broad was in utter disbelief that I used her weakness against her and burst into tears.

I was immediately the devil…

Now my current woman, who is 7 years older than that ex, picked up on the fact that I wasn’t open about a lot of stuff and actually pressed me about it. When I told her what was up and that my ex basically weaponized my issues she basically said “that bítch ain’t shít…” I’m still cautious about what I say but I’m at least a lot more comfortable speaking on certain subjects around her.

 

[JNew]

Words are though. Thats why people need to make sure they understand the definitions of them n know what they're actually saying.

Since u want to be philosophical; a lot of people have ended up being a loser for misusing them.

"THATS NOT WHAT I MEANT". BOOM

feel me?

R u remedial or autistic?

Words are the same smart ass. Tone and context are almost just as important as the words you’re saying. If not more.

Or should I feel you? Dumb fuk

 

[maxamusa]

R u remedial or autistic?

Words are the same smart ass. Tone and context are almost just as important as the words you’re saying. If not more.

Or should I feel you? Dumb fuk

autistic doesn't fall under the remedial umbrella Webster?

do you think in 2k24 you can still fit in a locker?

 

[WSFGDan]

damn

 

[Abstract83]

I think if it's your wife she should know you lost your job as it affects her but you're selective in what you say. You don't tell her about the stress or pressure. You just hustle. She shouldn't feel any anxiety.

In my opinion a part of being a man is self sacrifice. Women are naturally more prone to depression and anxiety. As a man it's your job to not burden your woman with extra anxiety and emotional labor. So if there's a problem you fukking fix it. You do not wallow. Whether the water pipes need to be winterized or if you lost your job. You just get up and find a solution. Nothing more, nothing less.

I understand we have to be the man and all. Don't show too much vulnerability and all that. But honestly what the fukk is she doing with me if I can't confide in her? What the fukk if she here for? Sex, cooking cleaning? Worshipping the ground I walk on? I have female and male friends I open up to. So I don't tell my chick every single thing in my head. Nor do I tell my friends and fam everything. Somethings I handle myself.

But if I cant open up and be vulnerable to the woman I share a bed with every night what is the point of having her in my life. I don't live my life holding everything back that's bad for your health. If I'm worried about my girlfriend/wife perceiving me as weak because I had a weak moment she's being cut off. Nothing more to it.

Us black men have it hard as it is. I'm not saying dont be a coward or don't take charge. Or don't be deceive. I'm saying it's a time and place for everything. Life is more of a gray area. It's not all black and white.

 

[HARLEM AL]

It's about how men and women are made.

When a woman gets home she has to socialize and be on her phone all day. She has to talk and communicate and yap about what she experienced that day. Men, including every roommate I've had on to my grandfather and father came home, turned on the TV to reset from the hard day. It could be playing SF to reading the paper. Basically, a man comes home and unwinds. If he has a bad day he certainly doesn't unload it on his wife. Never saw my dad or grandpa ever bytch to my mother or grandmother about their bad day. If they did, they made a slight remark about how they will fix it. Grandpa came home, ate dinner, watched TV, and then settled on fixing stuff around the house that needed doing. Not once heard him yap about his "feelings". That is what a man is and that's what women expect. He shoulders the burden, he stays strong so she can be weak. A man like you with a woman's ass hanging all on his avatar wouldn't get it.

In life there's a man's role and there's a woman's role. People say it's sociological. I argue from a biological standpoint.

I wish i could dap this shyt twice...

 

[Astroslik]

Depends on the woman and depends on what you divulge. Had this happen to me on a few occasions with an ex when I was dealing with a slew of health issues… so I did that same shít to her ass. Broad was in utter disbelief that I used her weakness against her and burst into tears.

I was immediately the devil…

Now my current woman, who is 7 years older than that ex, picked up on the fact that I wasn’t open about a lot of stuff and actually pressed me about it. When I told her what was up and that my ex basically weaponized my issues she basically said “that bítch ain’t shít…” I’m still cautious about what I say but I’m at least a lot more comfortable speaking on certain subjects around her.

I thought you were a woman

 

[Estarossa]

I thought you were a woman

Nígga… check my goddamn post history.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

I only confide in a woman after I catch her doing something triflin' that I can use against her.

I had this one girlfriend and I caught her taking her underwear out of the dirty clothes hamper and spraying them with febreeze, folding them, and putting them in her drawer.

 

[Space Cowboy]

I understand we have to be the man and all. Don't show too much vulnerability and all that. But honestly what the fukk is she doing with me if I can't confide in her? What the fukk if she here for? Sex, cooking cleaning? Worshipping the ground I walk on? I have female and male friends I open up to. So I don't tell my chick every single thing in my head. Nor do I tell my friends and fam everything. Somethings I handle myself.

But if I cant open up and be vulnerable to the woman I share a bed with every night what is the point of having her in my life. I don't live my life holding everything back that's bad for your health. If I'm worried about my girlfriend/wife perceiving me as weak because I had a weak moment she's being cut off. Nothing more to it.

Us black men have it hard as it is. I'm not saying dont be a coward or don't take charge. Or don't be deceive. I'm saying it's a time and place for everything. Life is more of a gray area. It's not all black and white.

Why do you want to be soft and sensitive with your family to begin with? I saw my dad, rest his soul, cry once in my life and that was when we put dog we had almost ten years put to sleep. He cried because he was a good dog. That's it. Dads and husbands stay strong for their families. A big problem with today's generation of men is that they want the power and leadership and not the responsibility that comes with it. Heavy is the head that wears the crown. Why do you want to share your "feelings" with your woman anyways? Women want to feel weak around their man.

I confided with a male friend last night. Why I gotta bytch to my woman for?

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Didnt Shaunie fukk the pool boy? I dont think Shaq's ex wife is a good reference.

 

[Lexington Steele]

Didnt Shaunie fukk the pool boy? I dont think Shaq's ex wife is a good reference.

The pool boy was reliable at the free throw line.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

The pool boy was reliable at the free throw line.