She is single and looking for a new man but she cooks for her baby daddy. Is she out of line?

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Nah they right. Women with kids will waste your fukkin time on a different level. Then they can barely hangout cuz they gotta take care of their kids. It's just not worth it when there are so many other options. It's only really worth it if you got kids yourself
I keep hearing they're so damn easy it can't be that much time wasted. Of course none is optimal but if you keep them in a particular box it's not that serious... especially in the era of numbers game.
 

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Of course they still fukin....he look like the typical dirt bag preference that women want.

Why they not together? Just have an open relationship with him if yall wanna fuk around.

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We’ve seen this story before. Something tells me that everything was cute in the beginning, but now that they have a kid, and perhaps she’s the breadwinner or significantly made more, the relationship was no longer going to work.

Now I’m sure he is still smashing, but she’s ready to move on to a professional guy.

Having said that, dude is a decent job away, making him a threat to her future relationships.
 

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We’ve seen this story before. Something tells me that everything was cute in the beginning, but now that they have a kid, and perhaps she’s the breadwinner or significantly made more, the relationship was no longer going to work.

Now I’m sure he is still smashing, but she’s ready to move on to a professional guy.

Having said that, dude is a decent job away, making him a threat to her future relationships.
I disagree with this statement. The fact they are probably still having sex, she is still feeding him, and they have a child together means he will always be a threat. All of those red flags together should tell you to put her in the "for play only" pen and wear protection. Her actions, even coming online to openly state what she is doing, should be enough for you to know to avoid her for anything seriously.
 

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I disagree with this statement. The fact they are probably still having sex, she is still feeding him, and they have a child together means he will always be a threat. All of those red flags together should tell you to put her in the "for play only" pen and wear protection. Her actions, even coming online to openly state what she is doing, should be enough for you to know to avoid her for anything seriously.

That’s fair
 

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This dude clearly still have access to the P. You must be dumb tot date this girl
The kid is young and this dude is young, so he light be around you for the next 20 years. Too much trouble
at dating a bytch with any kids for any reason
I don"t mind the kid.

The problem is the father. If he's dead or doing a very long bid. I might do it if the woman worth it
 

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This is why I've always been iffy about dating a woman with a kid(s).

I don't wanna be in the middle of baby mama and baby daddy drama shyt. Also, I wouldn't be able to trust her; what I mean is that a lot of these baby mamas/daddies still mess around with each other, especially when both of them are in their “single” period.

I see this on Facebook sometimes where some of my Facebook friends who happen to be single women with children brag and boast about messing with another woman's man, that man who happens to be her child(ren) father. Talking about how he may be with you, but I'm always gonna be his baby mama, he gonna always love me, etc, etc.

I didn't always agree with you guys when it comes to the discussion of why single men with no kids shouldn't date a woman with children, y'know because I'm the type who feels if she's a good woman, has her life in order, and I like her then why not 🤷🏾‍♂️, but I now kinda see why y'all disapprove of the gesture.

There is too much shyt to potentially deal with.
 

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Really only reason to date women with kids is ur not fertile, ur getting older and don't wanna be alone and want a family, already bonded with the child, or u just want to be a "clean up" man.
You forgot another reason being you having a kid as well. I've always had a no single mother rule, and people used to say I was being unreasonable. If I don't have a kid then I think I'm being very reasonable.
 
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