She is single and looking for a new man but she cooks for her baby daddy. Is she out of line?
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If she had boundaries, she wouldn't be cooking for a man who isn't any longer her man and disrespecting the guy she's currently involved with, how do you think he would feel? No man wants to see his new woman still occasionally lollygagging around with her ex, who, in this case, is her child's father.I'm pretty sure she said she probably wouldn't cook for him if he had a gf, so it implies she does have boundaries. Yall tell us why yall really mad
It's one thing if they're connecting to co-parent in terms of just being involved with the child and going their own separate ways, but cooking meals and still caring for them like y'all together in spirit is doing too much, shyt he's a grown man, he should be able to cook his own meals, and if not he's gotta mother somewhere, let her cook for his ass.
Why you taking care of him like he's still your responsibility? Y'all are not romantically involved anymore, so if his reaching out has nothing to do with the child, then let him go stand on his own two feet and be a man for his own sake. This is why single parents should just date each other and leave us single and childless folks alone cause we don't deserve to be caught up in the drama and suffer from our hearts being broken.
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People are so goofy. So you cook and give him the box so he can walk out the door and go treat the next women.
Her monolog has me weak. Ma'am we know what's you're doing. You're BD skips leg day but he ain't skipping working you out.
ThrobbingHood
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And scaring off his potential next “victim”.
Abstract83
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I dated a few single mom's when I didn't know better. Never again.
bourgeoisie tall freak
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i believe she said she was single so what tf is this "disrespecting the guy she's currently involved"
you all are making ish up just to be mad lol
i think i know what it is, you all are used to be used for a meal so all of a sudden someone breaking bread is part of a sexual exchange
yall nikkas ptsd'd out...imagine being a child of god an someone asks for food and in your head the only right answer is to give a bad attitude if they aren't fukking you.
i would cook for anybody that came to my house
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Like I always said, if you guys don’t have kids, leave them single moms alonei believe she said she was single so what tf is this "disrespecting the guy she's currently involved"
you all are making ish up just to be mad lol
i think i know what it is, you all are used to be used for a meal so all of a sudden someone breaking bread is part of a sexual exchange
yall nikkas ptsd'd out...imagine being a child of god an someone asks for food and in your head the only right answer is to give a bad attitude if they aren't fukking you.
i would cook for anybody that came to my house
they never respected us
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I'm not mad. I've never been used for a meal.i believe she said she was single so what tf is this "disrespecting the guy she's currently involved"
you all are making ish up just to be mad lol
i think i know what it is, you all are used to be used for a meal so all of a sudden someone breaking bread is part of a sexual exchange
yall nikkas ptsd'd out...imagine being a child of god an someone asks for food and in your head the only right answer is to give a bad attitude if they aren't fukking you.
i would cook for anybody that came to my house
#nottodaysatan
#wwjd
#imapray4u
I'm just saying hypothetically; no man wants to see his woman or a woman he's taking a strong interest in, continuing to lollygag with her ex/baby's father.
If she's truly done with him, she needs to let him go; if it has nothing to do with their child, let him go and fend for himself, cook for himself, etc go separate ways. Don't get him comfortable with the idea that she's always been there for him. He's a grown man; why does he need her to continue cooking his meals, and why does she persist in the need to do so?
If she's single, why keep rewarding him with girlfriend gestures? If that's the case, work it out with him rather than bringing a new man into this situation. A new man isn't gonna jive well knowing that she's still pampering her ex/baby's father with meals.
Yes, Luh, you keep me in your prayers
. It's good to know to be in your thoughts; lately, I seem to be in a lot of people's, and for good reason, I guess they just can't get enough of me .
IsThatBrothaMouzone?
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Baby daddy blowin her back out, but she wants a "provider" breh that handles the day-to-day shyt (taking care of the kid, buying her shyt, paying bills, getting oil changes for her car etc).
Every woman has a man....whether she's met him or not....that they'd absolutely let do whatever because the sex is THAT good. Most brehs in here have probably had a woman that let you get away with all kinds of shyt that other women wouldn't. That's her BD.
bourgeoisie tall freak
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Yeah, Luh, you pray for me
i pray for all gods children, especially those who are suffering. god hear our prayer
IsThatBrothaMouzone?
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Facts.
If you're an average man with a VERY attractive baby momma that's still cooking you meals every Sunday.....but y'all not officially dating......
would an educated, accomplished single woman WITH NO KIDS, want to date you?
Her friends would be telling her to run for the hills.