She left me brehs

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Mindgames and mentally manipulating people is not lame.

She needs to know she fukked up.

I never once said give her the ring. Just use it to get her to realize she fukked up. And I also said don't contact her after he send just pic of the ring.

You see, a lot of y'all Negroes don't understand, a woman is a grown ass child.
If she never circled back to discuss getting married after last year then she made her choice. Flashing that ring to her won’t give her a single pause that she made a mistake.
 

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shyt....Everytime a chick broke up with me...I played Z-Ro and then hit the gym and geaux to karaoke bars.

That is a hot spot for women who actually wanna be loved...idk why..that and art museums.

I never met a bum women in a museum, losers don't his museums

Yeah, ok. Where else does she frequent other than the museum?

Women will be women.
 

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Stop this self loathing shyt.

She is the dumbass...not you....what did you do that made you dumb? You beat her, cuss her, with held sex, got caught looking at women, not pulling your own weight???

That's when you seek self reflection when you pick up.

She fukked up. Not you.
You right man thank you fukk all that. I put in a lot of work in this damn relationship through all her damn mental issues and she just gonna throw it away nah fukk that
 

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Him showing that ring when she's checked out and gone is just seeking validation. Showing her that ring is a bad decision. It isn't like she left because he didn't propose yet. She was just checked out!
Facts. At best it's just a temporary high, but then once that luster wears off you're back to where you were. And God help him if they actually go through with the wedding and get hitched. Marriage doesn't magically correct the problems you were having pre-marriage, it just adds an extra layer she can and will eventually use to fukk you. Sounds cold, but OP dodged a bullet and was wise to wait this long before getting a ring as far as I'm concerned.
 

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You right man thank you fukk all that. I put in a lot of work in this damn relationship through all her damn mental issues and she just gonna throw it away nah fukk that
That's why you send the ring. You need to show her her fukk up and then let her sit with her feelings.

And when she comes back which she will .....you can just either take her back or just let her think she in a relationship .


I would, but I'm a crippled vengeful muthafukka who is cerebral. I literally faked my death on a bytch and when that muthafukka found out I wasn't dead, she was hopping on my dikk like a pogo stick ya hear me?
 

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You’ll be alright breh. It’s gonna hurt real bad for awhile and then one day you’ll get up and you’ll be okay.

Figure out how you can improve as a person, from a relationship sense but in general, and start implementing changes as soon as you’re not deep in your feelings anymore.

You’re grieving. Face it head on. Ugly cry in the fetal position, or whatever you have to do. Don’t try to make the pain go away. That’ll delay the process. Just go through it, as hard as it may be. After going through this you’ll learn that you can survive anything. And after you work on yourself you’ll be better overall. Then you’ll find that your next partner will be a level up because you levelled up.

You’ll be good breh.
 

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This gonna sound toxic and there’s been 4 pages of replies already…but breh get your emotions out, then continue to live life. Take a vacay somewhere, get on the apps, hit the gym, find a new hobby with new people, hang out more with fam and friends. Been there done that and the one thing I regret is not living more while I was single again.

New p*ssy solves a lot. It may not solve everything, but it definitely helps. And you’ll start realizing the world is alot bigger of a place than maybe you previously realized. Her loss, think of it like that. You still that nikka, and girls will always be choosing.
 

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Not even that.

I learned the hard way not to buy or shop for anything if I’m either hurt or drunk.

Bro needs to go through his healing in his sweat pants and work clothes.
What I meant was that I buy clothes regardless of the situation I'm in...........I'm going to continue doing what i normally do.

I love clothes
 

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Yeah, ok. Where else does she frequent other than the museum?

Women will be women.
I don't know.. I only seek out women at spots I frequent:

Comic book shop
Museums
Art Store
Karaoke Bars
Football games
Arcades
Bookstores
Porn shops
Elementary School (Art and crafts teachers)

Best way to find a woman that will love you is you doing you.

Besides the avg woman is boring is has 0 hobbies. Most hobbies women have anyway a dude put them on to it.
 
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