She Made The First Move, They Got Married 4 Months Later

[Ohene]

Good for them though, I wouldn't want my wife working 40 hours either


It's crazy how women fought so hard to work, but a lot don't want to work. I mean what's what?

in todays society the perfect situation is one's wife holding down a part time remote job while helping take care of the home and children

a good 20 hours a week doing some customer service or administrative stuff for example, making an extra $500 a week for the household. Cant really be mad at that.

 

[Shadow King]

I disagree. Cohabitation just assures it will have a greater chance to fail. The old way worked way better than this new demonic way. Cohabiting is fornication, and all fornicators will have their part in the lake of fire. Our people need to repent and turn back to The Most High. The black community, is cooked. Cohabiting failed, and led to baby boys, cry baby men, thugs, pimps and harlot women. Our ppl don’t even get married much all, unless it’s IR at this point.

No

 

[Shadow King]

This shyt does not work.

All the quick divorces I know came from people who dated for a long time.

I know a dude who lived with his girl for 8 years. They got married and divorced after 8 months.

In this era, divorce is basically mandatory. It does not matter whether you cohabited or not.

Spending 3 years just to know a woman is a waste of time. After 6 months, you should make up your mind.

If they dated a long time and got a quick divorce they got married thinking a piece of paper and ceremony would fix their issues. If they married in 6 months of knowing each other there's no real difference in time together other than time on a contract.

If you're conceding that a divorce is mandatory this only supports the GMB stance which I'm on.

6 months again is not enough time to see how your partner handles the different nuances of a relationship. If you're only looking for a nanny/secretary with sexual favors then maybe.

 

[Ohene]

funny cuz I follow random black youtubers in the hustle culture/entrepreneurship space so im familiar with Max
and then I see him pop up with this chick who I knew from this video

nikkas gotta choose better for real

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

Good for them though, I wouldn't want my wife working 40 hours either


It's crazy how women fought so hard to work, but a lot don't want to work. I mean what's what?

It depends on what it is. Some go to school, get a degree, and get a career in something they love.

 

[RareHunter]

If they dated a long time and got a quick divorce they got married think a piece of paper and ceremony would fix their issues. If they married in 6 months of knowing each other there's no real difference in time together other than time on a contract.

If you're conceding that a divorce is mandatory this only supports the GMB stance which I'm on.

6 months again is not enough time to see how your partner handles the different nuances of a relationship. If you're only looking for a nanny/secretary with sexual favors then maybe.

no No NO

 

[Shadow King]

no No NO

yes Yes YES YES YES

 

[Rozay Oro]

@RehReh what is the name of that woman in your avatar?


@Kang The Conqueror

@humminbird

@Realm-Breaker

Breh that’s her

 

[Tair]

If that were a sister, I wonder how long that proposal would’ve been. Brehs be stringing sisters along, ring up the first “good hair“ they can find. Brehs are the easiest lick to the world.

Truth be told, dating for years before marriage, is just stupid and dumb. Black community as a whole is pretty much done tho. It’s a population, rather than a community at this point. The black population.

You married to a sista?

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

Minimum of 3 years.

That is the problem with our people. We waste time dating. So many people are sitting in relationships for 5 or 7 years when they could have already started a gahdamn family.

You do not need 3 fukking years to marry somebody. A relationship is not the same as a marriage. Your relationship will change. You can go through whatever "trials and tribulations" as boyfriend and girlfriend, but guess what? That doesn't "train" you for a marriage. It's a whole different ball game you grow in together.

So you mean to tell me if you meet a woman and she's 30, she is having her first child at least at 33-34? Leaning towards geriatric?

Y'all nikkas are crazy.

 

[Shadow King]

That is the problem with our people. We waste time dating. So many people are sitting in relationships for 5 or 7 years when they could have already started a gahdamn family.

You do not need 3 fukking years to marry somebody. A relationship is not the same as a marriage. Your relationship will change. You can go through whatever "trials and tribulations" as boyfriend and girlfriend, but guess what? That doesn't "train" you for a marriage. It's a whole different ball game you grow in together.

So you mean to tell me if you meet a woman and she's 30, she is having her first child at least at 33-34? Leaning towards geriatric?

Y'all nikkas are crazy.

If a relationship doesn't train for a marriage then nobody needs them. Go right to arranged marriages.

Again, female talk and the need to bring a woman's age into the equation solidifies it.

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

If a relationship doesn't train for a marriage then nobody needs them. Go right to arranged marriages.

Again, female talk and the need to bring a woman's age into the equation solidifies it.

No, you get to know somebody and develop strong feelings for them. That shiit doesn't take 3-5 years to do. It's a waste of both people's time. The fact that you call it "female talk" solidifies the idiocracy of modern dating.

That's like somebody interning at a company for 3 years.

 

[Shadow King]

No, you get to know somebody and develop strong feelings for them. That shiit doesn't take 3-5 years to do. It's a waste of both people's time. The fact that you call it "female talk" solidifies the idiocracy of modern dating.

That's like somebody interning at a company for 3 years.

Those strong feelings ain't enough. That's absolutely female talk. You damn skippy a relationship won't train you for a marriage if you only conduct it for 4 months.

Your marriage isn't employment

You asked me questions out of "curiosity", those were my answers. You really already knew these answers would be far apart from your opinion, yet you somehow have no actual rebuttal for them.

Modern dating has issues due to feminist-powered overcorrection of past lack of female freedoms and gender roles being selectively defined and undefined at their convenience, not because we don't meet someone at the Labor Day party, propose at Christmas dinner, and marry them on Valentine's Day.

 

[RareHunter]

That's like somebody interning at a company for 3 years.

Facts breh. Makes zero sense. Look at the fruits of such lunacy and what it has beget.

 

[RareHunter]

Those strong feelings ain't enough. That's absolutely female talk. You damn skippy a relationship won't train you for a marriage if you only conduct it for 4 months.

Your marriage isn't employment

You asked me questions out of "curiosity", those were my answers. You really already knew these answers would be far apart from your opinion, yet you somehow have no actual rebuttal for them.

Modern dating has issues due to feminist-powered overcorrection of past lack of female freedoms and gender roles being selectively defined and undefined at their convenience, not because we don't meet someone at the Labor Day party, propose at Christmas dinner, and marry them on Valentine's Day.

Modern dating exist because of feminist. Before, ppl courted. Now men are fine, knowing a random guy is plugging their sister, because they’re doing the same to some one elses. The women did it, so they can give their best to “HVM” and have a backburner man, to marry if things didn’t work out with the “HVM”.

Yea. Even in highschool this goes on. The woman is all used up by the time talks of marriage arrive. Heartbroken, skeptical, and over anxious. Some just become plain evil. Children born into less than great circumstances and dysfunction. No wonder we don’t hardly have a community anymore.