She Made The First Move, They Got Married 4 Months Later

[Ezekiel 25:17]

It's like we're all different people and don't want the same things

Mind blowing isn't

You want strangers looking after your kids this day and age?

You shouldn't be working no more than 25 hours a week, as low stress as possible. But if you want to work 40+ hours more love to you.

 

[RareHunter]

If that were a sister, I wonder how long that proposal would’ve been. Brehs be stringing sisters along, ring up the first “good hair“ they can find. Brehs are the easiest lick to the world.

Truth be told, dating for years before marriage, is just stupid and dumb. Black community as a whole is pretty much done tho. It’s a population, rather than a community at this point. The black population.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

I'm working on something like this rn

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

whats her IG?

 

[Deafheaven]

Man. people can hide who they are for 3-6 months.

marrying someone in 4 is utterly preposterous but its his life.

 

[bl2k8]

If that were a sister, I wonder how long that proposal would’ve been. Brehs be stringing sisters along, ring up the first “good hair“ they can find. Brehs are the easiest lick to the world.

Truth be told, dating for years before marriage, is just stupid and dumb. Black community as a whole is pretty much done tho. It’s a population, rather than a community at this point. The black population.

nikka shut the fukk up

 

[RareHunter]

I need to shut up

Then why don’t u?

 

[KBtheKey]

Wtf last time i seen dude he was completely bald

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

It takes more than 4 months

No it doesn't. What are you going to learn about a person in 10 or 12 months, that you can't learn in 4? Not saying it should happen in four months, but I am just curious. Because nobody would bat an eye if they got married after a year.

 

[Shadow King]

No it doesn't. What are you going to learn about a person in 10 or 12 months, that you can't learn in 4? Not saying it should happen in four months, but I am just curious. Because nobody would bat an eye if they got married after a year.

Yes, it does. There's plenty that isn't learned in 4 months.

A year isn't long enough either, so plenty of eyes would bat.

 

[Shadow King]

There’s no dating time period that guarantees you a long happy marriage. No matter how long you wait, you’re rolling the dice. Also everyone doesn’t value money the same. Having all the money in the world won’t mean shut if you can’t share it with someone.

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

Yes, it does. There's plenty that isn't learned in 4 months.

A year isn't long enough either, so plenty of eyes would bat.

3 questions. Out of curiosity

So how long should a couple date before getting engaged?

Then also how long should a couple be engaged before getting married?

And lastly how long should a couple be married before having their 1st child?

 

[Shadow King]

3 questions. Out of curiosity

So how long should a couple date before getting engaged?

Then also how long should a couple be engaged before getting married?

And lastly how long should a couple be married before having their 1st child?

Minimum of 3 years. If young, much longer. Their own paths need to be established before attempting to forge one. If older/established, time flies/shortens as you get older. 4 months ago was Labor Day.

You're not dealing with any adversity or changes as a couple in 4 months to understand the true nature of a relationship as intended to last decades or a lifetime.

All couples need to cohabitate before walking down the aisle.

Length of engagement is up to the couple their circumstances. Realistically most will be about a year.

Timeframe to conceive a child is up to them.

This quickstrike approach to marriage is what I expect from women and their clocks.

 

[FS4LFE]

What’s funny about that sentence?

 

[RareHunter]

No it doesn't. What are you going to learn about a person in 10 or 12 months, that you can't learn in 4? Not saying it should happen in four months, but I am just curious. Because nobody would bat an eye if they got married after a year.

Modern dating is stupid and made for ppl who have ill intent(want to sample goods and not buy). Truthfully, if ppl were righteous, you could get married in 4-6months and have it last a lifetime. The western culture is so filthy tho.