She Made The First Move, They Got Married 4 Months Later

The Solid One

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GMB never steered anyone wrong...

Seriously though, can you imagine grinding out for years just to split the reward with someone you met 4 months ago, worst yet, who wouldn't have given you the time of day when you were grinding your way up, worst yet, who brags about the fact that she's just waiting at the finish line to her legion of followers? 4 months...you didn't even make her sweat for it man.

HVM should string along women as long a they please, after all, they're the ones in demand. There's more of them then there are you.
Get off social media with that hvm talk.
 

rbksNgirbauds

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This shyt does not work.

All the quick divorces I know came from people who dated for a long time.

I know a dude who lived with his girl for 8 years. They got married and divorced after 8 months.

In this era, divorce is basically mandatory. It does not matter whether you cohabited or not.

Spending 3 years just to know a woman is a waste of time. After 6 months, you should make up your mind.
Ain't nobody with any sense marrying any of these females in 6 months breh :mjlol:
You can sit all the way down with that
 

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Get off social media with that hvm talk.
Dichotomies exist. That's just nature, sorry. A tall, conventionally handsome, relatively wealthy, property owner with some sort of clout is a commodity in high demand among the average woman. They're willing to endure any type of treatment, even sharing the HVM if that's what it takes. It's not a social media phenomena, as YOUR woman in real life can get snatched today if a big fish decided that he wanted her.
 

African Peasant

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Most people don’t do what I listed and it hasn’t destroyed anything, casual sex promoted by modern feminists did.

You’re African and I am guessing that your culture influenced your opinion of marriage, that’s where I got it from. I didn’t sY 3 years of dating. I said 1.5-2 with 1 year of cohabitation while engaged.

If you don’t believe that anything improved your chances of picking the right match for you and believe it’ll end in divorce anyway then there’s no point in you getting married.
Good observation of the woman you're marrying improve your ability to choose a woman that won't divorce you after 7 years.

But you don't need an extended time for that. A year is enough. The rest is superfluous.
Dating for multiple year or even cohabiting is useless. Those things are happening now and they are not making marriage more successful.

The probability of divorce don't substantially changed whether you dated for years and/or cohabited.
 

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Ain't nobody with any sense marrying any of these females in 6 months breh :mjlol:
You can sit all the way down with that
People are marring the same females after 3 years and ending with a divorce still.:yeshrug:

Be good at observation, you won't need a decadde to decide if a female is worthy of marriage or not.
 
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Big issue with getting married early is that there's a lot of logistical shyt you gotta think through.

How do y'all handle conflict, division of household duties, strict or permissive parents, who pays which bills, bank accounts, what do you each consider a "clean" house etc.

Most people in a whirlwind romance are in the lovey-dovey stage...fukking constantly...infatuation. Sometimes it works out. Sometimes it doesn't.
 
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