She Said A Coffee Date Ain't Good Enough

[Michael's Black Son]

breh, women make rules to filter out undesirable men, ie. " i dont do coffee dates " but will break those same rules for the men they consider desirable.

if a woman is feeling you, she will go anywhere you wish to take her, take it from me.

Exactly.

That bítch would eat Lunchables on the OVO plane if they said that shít was flying to Paris

 

[Nigerianwonder]

It has never been an issue. Dating isn't a priority for me. Why pretend like I don't have expectations? So many women pretend to be okay with shyt they're not okay with just to find a man but end up miserable. I have no plans to be that woman. But if the best impression you have signals cheap seriel dater I rather not go . Chances are you asked me out so it's my choice to give you a chance or not. I don’t care about having a man so if it's not what I want nor worth my time why bother?

Telling on yourself. Can tell you are used to dating low value broke men. Men with real money and high value men when they are serious about dating will always vet you first. This is why we do coffee dates for the fist date. You are audtioning for him and he is giving you a chance. Not the other way around. I need to know if you like me first not just cause I have money. First date is to determine if there is chemistry in person and getting to know you and your character. Its not about the activity. There will be plenty of time for activities and fancy dinners after we get to know each other.

The real reason some women push for elaborate first dates is cause they can never get passed the first date with a high value man. So they trying to get everything in that first interaction cause like the chick in the OP, she might look decent in some pics but most dudes would find her unattractive in person or your lacking in other traits guys are looking for. And we will find all that out in the first date.. so their wont be a second.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Id leave this on her voicemail

WOOOOOW the lyrics!

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Exactly I'm getting to know him and he more than likely wants at the minimum sex correct? What he's giving isn't worth what he's asking. If all you present is Starbucks than it's not worth moving forward.

How you do anything is how you do everything.

So with that being said, it's not fully about the person, when it comes to dating, it's about the first place he took you to?
Also, if a guy seems damn near perfect; but takes you to Starbucks to get to know you... he's not it
But a guy with a few red flags takes you to a steakhouse, he has the green light??


(I'm just trying to get an understanding on dating in women's head in current times)