FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
That's what I said on the other page.
Dude fukked up by even considering a damn dinner after she shut down the coffee date
She Said A Coffee Date Ain't Good Enough
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That's what I said on the other page.
Dude fukked up by even considering a damn dinner after she shut down the coffee date
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humminbird
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"I woke up so refreshed" 
It's lazy, cheap and shows that you, again, date a lot.Well it is a date though.
I don't believe a man should be coughing up a decent amount of money on a woman he doesn't know like that. That's why the coffee date is to get a feel for the other person. If everything goes well, then do dinner or whatever on the second go round.
Cool for you but I would decline.
Maybe for you that's special but going to Starbuck or a coffee shop is the equivalent to going to WaWa on a date to me.They serve cookies at cafes too.
You ever have an almond croissant?
Lady, that's called living.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
Well shouldn't women/men date a lot?
You're not guaranteed to meet someone you see fit on the first try.
I doubt if you are using that dating strategy you really care about "meeting someone."Well shouldn't women/men date a lot?
You're not guaranteed to meet someone you see fit on the first try.
Again do you. But it's a no for me.
I'm delusional because I won't accept a low budget date? Lol That’s the date you need to have sir not me. For one that can't, there is one who can.
Good luck to you.
I was just being funny.
Honestly speaking, I think it's insane to expect a first date to be special.
But maybe this is why so many people struggle to form relationships that last. Expectations.
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These birds are delusional...Well it is a date though.
I don't believe a man should be coughing up a decent amount of money on a woman he doesn't know like that. That's why the coffee date is to get a feel for the other person. If everything goes well, then do dinner or whatever on the second go round.
They want men and dating to be like it was in 1923 but they want to be 2023 women...Classic my cake and eat it to mental gymnastics...
Dinner on the first date was popular before the advent of the internet because 90% of people FIRST met in person...They didn't have to worry about shyt like getting catfished or personality being different in person than over text...That second go around as you put it was the FIRST date...
Birds know the internet and smarphones changed the game, but still want to play stupid and act like a man not wanting to spend money on somebody he never met in person is a sign he lazy and date a lot...
I feel for yall young brehs having to deal with irrational dumb shyt like this...
It has never been an issue. Dating isn't a priority for me. Why pretend like I don't have expectations? So many women pretend to be okay with shyt they're not okay with just to find a man but end up miserable. I have no plans to be that woman. But if the best impression you have signals cheap seriel dater I rather not go . Chances are you asked me out so it's my choice to give you a chance or not. I don’t care about having a man so if it's not what I want nor worth my time why bother?
Not the angry daps 
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
Im not dating nobody; and I don't like coffee neither.
If I was meeting a female for the first time tho, I ain't tripping on going to a soft serve/ice cream place. If I offer that to a woman and she declines and tells me I need to take her to a restaurant for her to see if she interested in me, then I'm not responding. The place don't make the person.
:I'm just saying.